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writes: i've been with my b/friend for nearly 4yrs on/off, thing is when we split up earlier this year i started going with a new guy. when i told my current b/friend about this he then admitted his undying love and we got back 2gether but on saturday nite my current b/friend walked out of the pub on me 4 no reason at all and i had no way of getting home so the guy i used to go with was there and offered to pay my taxi and we ended up going back to his place where i stayed the night and we had a good chat and he told me he really liked me. thing is i really like him 2 and he's only 21 were as my current b/friend is 42, set in his ways and boring. i really want to be with this other guy but dont know how to tell my current b/friend. please help!
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reader, aunt blighty +, writes (6 October 2006):
If you really, truly want to be with this other guy, then you need to tell your boyfriend. It will hurt him, but you're better off telling the truth than him finding out about it later (which he will, eventually). Don't necessarily lie, but tell him that there is someone else, who you have feelings for, and the feeling is reciprocated, and you don't really think the relationship you are in is working out, and you really aren't suited to each other.
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