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writes:Hi Im going on a night out with some friends soon and the girl i wanna be with is also going with us. Im gonna make one last attempt to get with her even though i dont know if she wants to be with me. I have told her how i feel about her in the past but she wont tell me if she has any feelings for me or not. I just want to get it into her that shes the only one for me and that I think I love her (which is true...I think!!!) Is this a good idea or does it just sound pathetic. Be honest!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell +, writes (7 October 2006):
 Hey,
no of course it doesn't sound pathetic that you care for somebody and want to be with them. If you want to tell her how you feel you have to know how you feel about her. Are you sure you love her? If the answer to this is yes, we can move forward. The next step is getting her alone because lets face it, do you really want to declare your un-dying love for her infront of everyone? Of course not, so take her to one side for a minute while everyone else is distracted, so you don't draw attention to it. Next, just tell her what you've written down in your problem, chances are sh'ell feel the same way. How can she not? You sound like a wonderful, sweet guy and any girl would be lucky to have you. So go for it - if you really like her, don't let her slip through your fingers or you'll kick yourself later! Go For It and Believe in yourself!
Hope this helped,
Phoebe xxxxx
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