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writes: DEAR CUPIDI AM 19 year old man i have been in this relationship with my girl of 16 for about a year now.things cahnged when i left for varsity (no calls nothing)she thought i was cheating(what should i do)its been 2months now should i call her Reply to this Question
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reader, Katylouise +, writes (7 October 2006):
All you can do is call her, take the chance and if its too late and she dosent want you back then at least youve tried. If you dont call at all then you will always ask yourself what if and thats not a good thing to do. Its always better to take chances and risks sometimesyou get rewarded sometimes your at a loss but dont you think its better to be a risk taker than a coward?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2006): well i have been in a simular situation where my boyfrind left and didnt call for a couple of months. on day out of the blue he phoned. i was glad to hear his voice and glad he was okay. however, by that time i got the hint and decided i was going to move on. i hate to say it, but from a womens point of view, it may be to late. all though she may be younger than u, im sure she still thinks about u alot and misses u. she may be happy to hear from u and she will most likely be very angry at the same time. u should call her right away and tell her the truth, why did u did not call her, why u never came to see her and most importantly, what do u want to do about the relationship. if there is still one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2006): Either way its goin to look like you are guilty... BUT if you do call her just make it a short quick call the first time, ask about her, what she's been doing, school, friends etc.
I suppose just tell her the truth and if she doesn't want to know then its her loss... You tried
Do you mind me asking why you never called her in the first place? I know starting somewhere knew is always exciting and you sort of lost yourself in all that...
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