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writes: hey,ive been with my boyfriend 10 months now,an things are really messed up!before we started going out we were best mates,i was in a 6yr relationship,which i came out of at christmas,cause i was cheated on,then after that we started going out,im 20 and his only 18,anyway,a month in2 the relationship,his dad died,an since then he turned into an angry,person,he was always gettin into fights an gettin arressted an ending up in hospitals,i always had to pik him up,he knicked off with my car once,he slept with a girl behind my bak,his 13yr old sister told me,so i finished with him,then he came cryin an beggin to me,sayin please dnt leave me,giv me a nother chance,so i did,then he ended up goin in the army,his bin in there for 5months,i hardly ever see him,his on about askin me to marry him,an i wanna cause i love him,an i wanna help him,i feel like im mothering him,an his became very obssesive and strict with me goin out,recently his started abusing drugs such as cocaine and pills an turned into an alcholic,he crys on me an tells me "imagine seeing your dad lying in a coffin"and says he never got 2tell his dad how much he loved him"its upsetting me!an he wants me to be his military wife!what shall i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2006): hi im an officer in the army,ive come across similar situations many times,i hope my advice can help.your boyfriend is in a bad way his drug taking will be discovered during routine tests,he will definatley be disaplined and most likely dis-honourabley discharged.
he needs help.if you care about him inform his CO(most likely a staff or colour sergent).if he gets help with his problems,maybe then he will be a man you can be sure about marrying.
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reader, aunt blighty +, writes (6 October 2006):
Are you really prepared to make that kind of commitment to a man who sleeps with other girls behind your back, steals your car and abuses drugs?? Love can be blind sometimes - it will hurt, but I think you're gonna have to turn your back on this one. He won't change just by marrying you.
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