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writes:Well my worst fears are realized. My girlfriend has been playing me all along. But even though I caught her in the lie, she won't admit it. I tried so hard to break it off cleanly, but her protests kept making me think that maybe I was wrong. See, her closest friend decided to tell me that she is seeing other people and is really being a whore. This person is an older lady who is happily married and has no reason to lie to me. She said she witnessed things first hand. Then after I got off the phone with my girl one night the phone didn't hang up. Her friend and her never knew that I could here what they were saying. She said " you really need to stop playing him" and my girl said" I thought we was just friends" her friend asked " did you tell him that?" and she said "yes". She never said that to me at all. I know we were moving fast. I am already in love with her, and everything she said and did made me believe she was in love with me. When I called her on the lie, she said that she was wrong and sorry and that she wanted to slow down. She said several times that she loves me and still wants to be my girl. But I couldn't talk to her long enough to get more answers. If she wants to see other people, why doesn't she just let me go. Because I can't make myself let her go. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2006): Hiya Ahh! dont worry Babes your gonna be ok.
you are going to have to let her go or be unhappy? because she obvouisly is too inmature for the sort of comitment you need!she must feel gulit about this and she must want to be faithful but she just cant because shes just not as experienced in relationships and how to treat someone as you are. If shes gonna persist on hurting you you are in the wrong relationship and its gonna mess your head up you have to look out for yourself focus on positive areas of your life give yourself some much needed space from her for a bit try and take your focus off her for awhile and unless she grows up and starts behaveing diffrently towards you when you do speak to her you know what you could do but I'll leave it with you now,
Good Luck
Luv Ditzy Blonde Chick x
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