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writes: Hey, im kinda having a bad time right now.. cuz my bf just recently started likeing his ex again.. and he wanted to go on a break and see wat happends with her.. and if it didnt work out he would come back to me.. and he was saying he would come back to me as soon as he had a fight with her n never talk to her again and i was like no way im not gonna be pushed aside just cuz something better comes along, if u dont want to be with me break up with me and leave it at that. But then he still loves me and i still love him.. he came over to my house and he couldnt let me go.. he was hugging me so tight and when we went to drive to school he held my hand soo tight the whole way and he was actually crying n so was i.. well thats like wat happend and im wondering should i just ditch this guy? even tho i love him so much n i dont want to.. all i want is for him to tell his ex to screw off but.. i was thinking the other day that he wants it to work with his ex.. so where does that put me? a back up plan? just incase his dream job doesnt work out? n he admited that he was being selfish and he never expected me to let him.. but he wants to stay friends .. but i tried that for a day n he still wanted to kiss me.. and i jsut cant handle that.. i cant share my bf.. and i shouldnt have to right? im just so mad that his ex would make a move on him when she knew he was going out with me.. and im so mad at him for falling for her again.. so iono if u could maybe think of some solutions for me.. and please dont be to harsh :( thanks-"the back-up plan"
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reader, David Lewis  +, writes (7 October 2006):
 Walk away with pride, before he strips it all away from you.
You deserve much better than this loser.
You should always be somebodys Plan A, never settle for second best hun.
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