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writes: Ok update on my story so far…As ye all already kno my boyf is off to Australia for 2 months 2morro. And the reason I wrote in the first place was that he wanted to break up before goin and I didn’t want that to happen… So the outcome of it all is we are breaking up from 2morro… He feels it’s for the best, this way there’s no pressure on either of us to stay faithful (I mean I don’t want anyone else only him so that won’t be hard for me). I know we are together only a short time, 8 months is all but that doesn’t stop me from having feelings for him… He tells me he’s mad about me, cares a lot for me and that I mean a lot to him!!! He said we can meet up when he comes back and see how we feel about each other and see what happens from there… He says now that he will ring and txt me and stay in contact with me while he’s over there but it won’t be the same… I kno its better than not hearing from him at all!! Is it just making things harder on me? Last nite was the last time I will see him til he comes home in December! We went out for a meal, came home and watched the soaps on TV, went to bed, joked and talked a bit about everything. But at the same time it felt like we weren’t really “talking” about anything important… I’d say something if we were both in our teens but c’mon I’m 29 and he’s 32 for f**k sake!! So I don’t kno what to do or think… I just wanted to update you all on my story really. Finally I would like to thank all of you for taking the time to read and reply with your kind words of encouragement and hope to my little dilemma, it does mean a lot to me… Thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSince my boyf came back from OZ things have been better than ever with us!! Thanks everyone for your replies and support too - greatly appreciated!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah I kno and thank you again for your response... I'm sure it will fly by and don't worry I'm not goin to sit in wallowing and feeling sorry for myself!! Life's too short for that! I will be out with my friends enjoyng myself!
I know its goin to hard for the first week or so but I'm goin to be strong about! I've had my little cry and feeling sorry for myself last nite...
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reader, amerthyst0202  +, writes (5 October 2006):
 He his keeping his options open as all men do. build your social life up and go out with friends. enjoy and in time when he realises what a fool he has been you could be dating some one else. but that was his choice not yours, dec isnt the end of the world and it will fly by if you do other things with your life, apart from sitting and waiting for him to come back.if you love him let him go if your ment to be together he will return but dont waste your life waitng, get on with your life and enjoy
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