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writes: I have posted here before but my problem has developed and I would really appreciate any advice.I have been with my partner for 2 years. We did live together but he felt that I was in his face too much, did his head in. I had to find somewhere else to live which I did and I found it very hard.In the last couple of months, we have basically been living together as something else drew us together. This was fine but always deep down inside I thought he would ask me to leave. However, we got on better than before.The other night we did have a big fight and he did ask me to leave. This time, I took more control and have now suggested we spend two nights of the week apart. I go to my house and he is at his doing whatever he wants at his house. He is happy with this arrangement.It isn't what I really want. I imagine a loving relationship not to be this way. I am 36 now. If I was 21, maybe it would be different but I wish to settle down. I don't want to invade someone's space, I just want a normal relationship.I had been apart from him for one night and when I went back to be with him, he was still getting annoyed with me. Sometimes just breathing seems to p*** him off. He can also be loving and caring and quite a thoughtful guy.Help. Reply to this Question
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reader, amerthyst0202  +, writes (5 October 2006):
 you make ground rules then you break em, if your apart for two nights, then you are apart, and no one breaks the rules, you are invading his space and he need this( men do sorry to be blunt but what is a normal relationship each persons ideal of that varies, talk to each other explain to each other and what you want from each other and ask what he wants hopefully you can decide and come somewhere in the middle.
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