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writes: I'm a 16 year old girl. I'm quite popular with the boys and a lot of boys fancy me. Everytime i get a boyfriend it only lasts a couple of months the longest has been 4 months.. This is because they always want sex. I'm scared to try it and panic and end the relationship. I really wana try sex but im really scared of getting preganant or it hurting too much. Can u give me advice plz? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2006): Because of only going with someone for 4 months and because youre scared means you should trust your self. Your right, your[e not ready yet. 16 is o.k. to be scared and not do it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2006): What you need to do is tell them that you're not ready for sex. A guy who really cares about you will stay even when you tell them that.
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reader, amerthyst0202  +, writes (6 October 2006):
 slow down tell him your not ready for sex yet and if he likes you and he respects your wishes then he will be fine with it. you will know when you are both ready,but dont let him push you into doing anything you dont feel secure with doing, it your choice and dont rush it isnt a race when its right for you both it will happen
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2006): This is the same situation with me and I'm 18.
Chill honey, you're not ready, you don't need to end the relationship just tell the guy you're not ready. If he really likes you he will understand :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2006): I was the same way at that age. There is nothing wrong with you and you have every right to be scared of getting pregnant. Wait until you are ready, and a good guy will respect that you want to wait too, and you won't feel the need to break up with him.
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