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writes: Me and my Girlfriend have been living together now for almost 3 months and one day she came down to my work with my and the place was completely empty and no one was expected to arrive either, so i wanted to have sex (you kno something exciting keep her interested) but she didnt want to kno.I wouldnt bother me but i kno she has done stuff in like that in similar situations and that makes me feel second best.Is it just me being selfish or do i have a valid point? Any comments would be helpfull. Reply to this Question
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reader, hannahuk +, writes (6 October 2006):
lways asks me to ahve sex with him in mad places,like toilets an in the lounge when his moms upstairs!sometimes i will,sometimes i wont,all depends on what mood shes in,i mean sometimes i cant be bothered!lol!i no that sounds bad,an she might be nervous or scared in case some1 comes up,or there might be cameras!!girls are weary like that ,lads just wanna have sex anywhere an everywhere!us ladies arent like u men!lol!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2006): I know how she feels someone could have walked in! lol and even if they diddent maybe she wants a privete love life with you. you respct her wishes and dont press her on the issue cos maybe shes gone a bit more conservative although shes had experiences like that in the past it was in diffrent relationships maybe what shes got with you is more special and not just a quick fumble in work be a bit more romantic MEN!! tut tut good luck
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reader, pica +, writes (5 October 2006):
For whatever reason she didn't want to. (Why do men always think it's periods?!) Perhaps she couldn't feel relaxed that day, that time (a workplace can be pretty unpredictable). A "valid point" would imply that she should have had sex with you just because you wanted her to regardless of how she felt about it so I guess the answer to that is no.
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reader, sleepysly +, writes (5 October 2006):
 sometimes its not good to talk about previous relationships,are you the kind to have sex in the office or was it that you felt a little jealous that she had done it with someone else. different relationships are different for a reason, find or do something with her that no-one has done,its better than holding on to someone elses ideas. i think women like originality. take care....
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reader, Emujoe +, writes (5 October 2006):
Maybe she has grown up a little and realises that there ar emore appropriate places to have sex but in an office. Maybe she wants some romance, a dinner and then a jump and not just a whizz, bang, thank you m'aam screw on an office desk. Women like to be wooed and slowly led into a sexual situation, not just asked if they want a fuck in an office.
It might have been period time or she just didn't feel like it. Talk to her. Ask her if she would help you fulfill one of your fantasies by having sex in the office and see what she says. There's only three possible answers: maybe, no or yes. Either way, you'll find out whether to screw at work or somewhere else.
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (5 October 2006):
 Well you shouldnt look at the relationship on what went before. There could have been lots of different reasons at that time why she said no. Theres no point in feeling hard done by as this will just make the situation worse.
Just because she told you she has done things like that in the past, doesnt mean she hasnt rosied up the truth a little! No one actually knows what we get up to in previous relations and our current ones should not be judged as such.
Just take it that she wasnt up for it at that particular time, doesnt mean she wont be another time, but if you make this a bigger deal then its likely to make it worse!
Let it lie, could have been an off day, we all have them, she may not have felt sexy, might have wanted a shower, might have just not felt like it. Try not to focus too much on shes done it in the past, we can never measure that, sex with other partners previous is never the same so dont even try to work that one out.
Try not to harbour it, or you will do more harm than good!
Take care x
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2006): no i dont think you were being selfish in suggesting but there could be a number of things....like not in the mood or maybe was due on her monthlys
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