A
female
,
anonymous
writes: I am dating a divorced man with 3 teenagers that live with him. He has a very demanding job and hardly emails me as he's so busy. I feel like I'm on the back burner. How do I deal with this?
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reader, Manya +, writes (5 October 2006):
Please don't give up on him -- he may appreciate you
much more than you know. Try gently to tell him how
you feel, that you need more from this relationship.
Are you close in age? Teenagers, especially three, can
be a handful, and what happened to their mother -- you
are on the outside, it seems, but it he really cares about
you, he will respond.
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2006): U dont. If you already feel like you are on the back burner now - it will only get worse from here. The beginning of a relationship should be the best. U are not in his world, because you are "really not in his world" - u can not relate to raising his children or all the duties and time that comes with it.
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