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writes: I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now,Lately he's started to not accept any affection from me and he keeps buying me things.I only see him on weekends (i stay over, and he takes his calls and texts outside then deletes them !?!?!)I ring him every night and for the past 2/3 weeks he's always 'out' with his friends,who he never used to go out with THIS often,its like every night now.He never talks on the phone for long because there are voices and laughing behind him. He says there isn't.Tonight him and his lad friend have gone to the cinema,across the street from me,and I'm not invited.Hewont visit me on the way and he wont tell me what time or film it is either. He's definitely seeing someone. How can I catch him out?
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reader, hannahuk +, writes (6 October 2006):
dnt even consider stayin with him,his obviously a lyin,cheatin pig,u dnt want that,let him make a fool outta sum other girl!tell him where to go,and u go out an find sum1 better!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2006): you dont need to catch him hun tell him u know whats going on and that he can come out with it and ull think about staying or ur gunna leave him.
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reader, sleepysly +, writes (5 October 2006):
 unfortunatly it sounds like your guy has someone else maybe he feels guilty that why he buys you things.its up to you if you let him get away with it theres too many signs put your mind into overtime and work him out and put things right for you. no-one deserves what hes doing to you. if you have to answer your phone in private your hiding something.
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reader, young free and stupid  +, writes (5 October 2006):
 Wait...i think the real question is why on earth ar eyou with him? You seem like a smart and intellegent woman and you lowering yourself to his level! Do not do this sneakly...he needs to be confronted directly and maturely
1) take him out and make sure your alone
2) ask him directly if he is cheating on you ( do not sugar coat it)
3) If he lies or you believe he isnt telling you the truth...give him an ultimatium he either comes clean or you walk
Dont lower yourself to his level hunny! rats sneak around women stadn tall.. take the moral high ground and confront him. If he hasnt done anyhting wrong you can work things out and get him to change...and if he has..well...at least you know and can get out and move up and on with your life
let me know how you get on!
young free and stupid x
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