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writes: Hi all, sorry this is long. Well I am in love with my best mate, he is amazing he is kind, funny and caring. He knows how I feel about him but has always stated to me that we are just friends not because he is not attracted to me but because he wants to enjoy single life after a bad relationship break up last year. At first my feelings were making me bad and act wierd towards him and I nearly lost him a few weeks ago because I kept trying to force an answer out of him as to how he feels about me and bombarding him with texts and he told me I scared him, I deeply regret doing that and have some how managed to salvage what he had by putting my feelings right to the back of my mind. Last night was the first time I had saw him in nearly 2 weeks and when I saw him my heart skipped a beat and I realised how much I did care. I just need some advise on how to keep my feelings locked away so as not to lose him because I will always love him but at the same time will always care for him as a friend. I have been told to break away from him but this is something that I have tried and find impossible.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2006): I know exactly how you feel as I feel the same way about my male friend. I too was texting him constantly, in the end he stopped replying. I was out with him last week and totally played it cool.....in fact he then started flirting with another girl to get me jealous, but Although I was, I didn`t show him and then I went home.I also haven`t texted him for a week and intend on not contacting him for at least a month. It is hard but I`m taking it day by day. He has admitted he has feelings for me and we have kissed.....but the problem is that we are both married, in fact he only got married 3 months ago and we kissed 2 weeks before his wedding. The best advice I can give you is like me to be patient, I know that you just want to know right now but trust me.....the longer you can leave not seeing him and texting him then the better your chances are of developing a relationship with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2006): You poor thing, well i've learned from exspireance, it will be impossiable to keep your feelings to yourself, and every thime they come and you exspress how you feel about him he will go farther and farther away from you, in the end you will be very hurt, you can never change a person about how they feel about you. Agood idea to just let him go.
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