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writes: Well me and my boyfriend have been together for 13 months and we love each other to death .. but he broke up with me becasue he says hes tired of being in a relationship because of all the stress (which is not true because we rarely ever fight) and i told him i would wait till he changes his mind .. ive tried everything to chnage his mind. should i keep waiting ? i love him and i dont want to lose him i dont know what to do and neither does he .. what do i do? letting him go isn't an option for me? I need some advice.
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reader, amerthyst0202  +, writes (6 October 2006):
 if your guy wants out he wants out and sorry there isn't anything you can do possibly he wants some space and its getting to heavy for him go out with friends and enjoy your life if he contacts you go out with him on your terms but don't be a door mat they are for walking on and you deserve better than that
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2006): I don't think it's up to you. Your boyfriend wants out. The only thing you can do is give him his freedom. You cannot make someone love you - or stay with you...Perhaps if you let go, he'll eventually come to realize that he does want to be in a relationship with you. But give it a 3-month waiting period. Don't put your life on hold indefinitely hoping he'll come back. It could be the stress of life that's making him want to bail. Or it's possible that he's realizing he just doesn't want to be tied down right now. Either way, you can't keep him if his heart's not into it. Let him go and see what happens. If he doesn't want to try the relationship again within 3 months, move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2006): My opinion is he is probably fond of you, but is not ready for a serious commitment with you. Give him time and space alone to think things out, don't contact him even though this will be so difficult for you. If he really loves you, then he will come back, if he does return to you then accept him back only on your terms. It's hard I know, but I get the feeling that maybe he thinks the grass is greener on the other side.
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