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writes:Hi, I've been seeing this boy for about four months now and we are really mad about one another and are thinking about having sex (this will be the first time for both of us!)We have basically done everything else already and both really love the experience - so far it has really brought us closer together. I really want him to be my first time but im worried that after four months is too soon in the relationship and that he may get bored of me quickly. I need lots and lots of advice on this subject as i am completely clueless! Reply to this Question
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reader, Jadzia1127  +, writes (5 October 2006):
 Four months is a bit soon to be jumping into bed with each other. It wouldn't hurt to take a few more months to make sure you're really ready. While your taking the time you might want to be prepared.
Talk to your doctor or a local health clinic and get some birth control. If you get the pill give yourself a full month of being on it before becoming sexually active. You can still use a condom to be extra safe.
If this is your first time and his then you need to be patient and very open about what feels good and what doesn't. Use lots of lubrication (VASALINE is NOT to be used sexually). Try KY jelly it is at your local grocery store, same aisle as condoms.
There are books that will help you understand what you want to try that are not just some guys porn fantasies.
The book 'What Your Mother Never Told You About Sex ' by Hilda Hutcherson is a great one to start with. It is in most public libraries.
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reader, bonnismiles +, writes (5 October 2006):
 hi hen if use are both ready and that is both of use and use are serious about each other it would maybe bring use closer but no one can give you advice about this except yourself if you are ready then you will know
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reader, Little girl x +, writes (5 October 2006):
 I no how you feel.
Im fourteen, and in the same situation.
But really don't rush itm it aint worth it.
He can't get bored i mean your giving him pleasure.If you love him then yeh do it.
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