He eveicted me from the house telling me that he need space and I moved out> What should I do?

i met boyd in 2004 and he was just seperating from his wife and has two girl 13 and 8, we dated for 1 year and it was great living apart and he was over all the time i was feed him, clothes and etc. we decided in sept 2005 that we were gona move into together cause my lease was up and my two kids and his two kids got along, but we need two room downstrair for our oldest. moving in was hard and combining two family, i worked alot and was confronted at work by this girl whom boyd works out with that she was his girlfreind and he loved her etc due to my past domestic violence and cheating it put a little doubt in my head, then in oct and nove bad months daugter wanted her room done she threaten me she was gona move out with her dad she 17 and put pressure on me also i drive an ambulance for a living felt like i had to sav the world and be on every call, my bad family comes first stopped that . i was moody and always thinking about vickie whom put doubt in my head about him and then my exs whom yes i had relations with while i was drunk and never told him about due to me being ashmamed and insecurity that he would leave me for that, started tx ing me and i hid some of them securitive and private aboute all and trusted no one due to my past child hood and life. well my daughter one night told him to look and that i was cheating on him, which i never did i love him and never new love before him, he treated me great and i was not use to it, well in march he started talking to vickie again told me nothing has or will ever happen and they talk everyday and he works out with her at the spa and i told him that i was insecure and that i was changing. in may we had a blow out and he told her infront of me he loved her and says he only said that cause he wanted to hurt me, we decided to try not knowing everything. i had surgery and had my left ovary removed and tube due to my c section with my son whom also has adhd and was problem to. and was told we would never be able unless we got ivf theray to get pregnant we went to the poconos and i just had my reg period in may 24, 2006 and i concieved june 6th, actually the 3-7 which i was with him and in poconos. he was happy at first then my daughter thought it wasnt his, he felt trapped and old and etc. he started trying to find out everything about my past relationships which wasn't while we were together and in aug asked me to leave still telling me he loved me, which he said he said just to appease me, on monday three weeks ago and ive been seeing a counselor and im 4 months now pregnant actually 18 weeks. he eveicted me from the house telling me that he need space and i moved out, well now he calls hardley did not want anything with the baby and then told me two years ago he sleep with vickie and no since they are freinds but since i moved she came over and they even been to church twice together, he says hes messed up and cant trut me but he lied to and i did not tell him about my past boyfreind detail, he also said after i told him the truth about the guys and never cheated on him ever, he said it would be hard to have sex with me again and that he now wants to be involved with the baby he knows is his, help me please im going nuts.. god bless you hes hurt and not trusting and right now not willing to make it work says he has to much in his head, maybe in the future, alot of hurt

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