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writes: My bf likes giving me oral pleasure as I enjoy receiving it as well because its the only way I can orgasm, but I always take too long to reach that point he always finishes of course but it always takes anywhere from 30 minutes to an hour. Lately he says his jaws lock on him, is this normal and why do I take so long to orgasm if it feels so good?
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reader, camille  +, writes (4 October 2006):
 How about him stimulating you in another way and then going down to bring you to climax? I'm sure you both enjoy it, but an hour is a long time for anyone to perform oral, but that's not to say you're not 'normal' as that's not the case at all. Everyone is different. But if he used say a vibrator, his fingers, penetration, you'll already be someway along that long road and it should help. I am assuming that now because you're aware it takes so long, that you're not totally relaxed and perhaps it's actually taking longer because you may feel some pressure to be quicker, which is of course having the opposite effect. Good luck.
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