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writes: Hi well im trying to get back with my ex girlfriend since we broke up cause of my fault. She dumped me because i had done twice already and told me she started to have feelings for another guy. This last monday was her b-day, got her some ballons to her school. After that i went to her house we spent some time talking about stuff and made out when i was about to leave. Today we have been texting each other back and forth and told me she needs some time even though she still loves me but not the same way. Shes afraid of coming back to me again because she thinks i will dump her like the previous times and wants to see if her new relationship works out. Now i came to the conclusion that i will give her time to think about it but also i will still talk to her as friends. Is this the right solution? Should i wait to see what happens or should i just move on even though i think we are meant to be together? Please help me
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reader, Abacadaba +, writes (4 October 2006):
I would give her the time she asked for, and speaking to her as friends can be both good and bad, just dont smother her, but make sure you remind her of you, chances are she still wants you. But be prepaired not to get back together, incase you dont. Good luck
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reader, bumble bee +, writes (4 October 2006):
i think you should wait, there is a saying if you love someone let them go, if they love you they will come back. if you love her give her the time that she has asked for. pestering her will drive her further and further away.
she may decided that you are not the one for her, but atleast you will know that you waited for her, you will never look back and think to yourself what if i had waited.
HTH xXx
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reader, amerthyst0202 +, writes (4 October 2006):
Let her get on with her life stay mates but get on with yours to you are still at school you have loads of time yet
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