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writes: hi there! i was just wondeing if anyone can help me?! I've been with my boyfriend just over a year now and i'm begining to think hes got bored of our relationship. He works shifts but we see each other every night after work but recently i found out hes been texting that O2 chat thing. I have asked him if hes getting bored of me and he said no that he was happy with me and our relationship so I asked him why was he texting that O2 chat and he said that he had been texting it before we and forgot to log off! I believed him but have a feeling hes lying as he has lied to me before. Do you think this is a sign that hes bored of me and that its time to finish with him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2006): Only you really know this man but my bf uses phone chatrooms and i dont have a problem with it When we spend time together its quality time as we dont get to see each other too often and tend to stay in contact by text This can get quite repetitive and like you i can worry if he is getting bored with me although he assures me that he is not.
I dont mind him using the chat rooms as I find it actually helps against the boredom I trust that he is with me and he is cool with the fact that i dont mind him to 'look but dont touch'
How about trying new things in your relationship Try new activities together Ice skateing, weekend away, anything that you will both enjoy to help keep the relationship fresh
Take care
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