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writes:Iv split up with my boyfriend because our relationship wasn't going anywhere,i was with him nearly 4 years but i wanted more committment and he liked things the way they were.Anyway he's been trying to contact me with phone calls and txts saying that he still wants us to be a couple so i suggested we meet up but just as friends because i didn't want to go back to the way we were,the thing is he keeps suggesting sex with me and booking a hotel room up,i said no i didn't want that so he said ok we will just have a drink but i know that he will want sex.I feel that he only wants me back for a leg over and nothing else.Do you think i should forget this meeting or does my fella really love me? HELP!!!
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reader, kellyO +, writes (4 October 2006):
 Hi dearie,
I think u should go with ur gut feeling. Basically, both of u have different views with regards to the relationship.Whilst u want commitment he isnt ready for that. I dont think u would be satisfied with the way things were before and u should try not to allow him sway you to go back to the way it used to be.
I think u should stand ur ground and if he isnt ready to maintain the relationship at the level u desire then perhaps it will be best to move on to someone who will.Make sure u let him know this, it is important he understand .Dont keep arranging to meet him until he has something more serious to say.
Goodluck dearie.
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