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writes: Hi there,I am not even sure that I can narrow this down to one question; I'm looking for wisdom, in whatever form it comes.I lead a busy, mostly unfulfilling life. I am a mother, a student, an employee, and I'm deaf. I'm not interested in sex..... or touch, period. My hubby is completely confused by this. I've got the 7 year itch. But the itch is to be alone. I just want to be alone. Is it strange for a 25 year old woman to have NO interest in the male species? MJ
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (4 October 2006):
 If you have the 7 year itch at 25, that means you got married at 18. . . which is too young to be tied down. IMHO. But you are, so that's water under the bridge. But this example may help other 18 year-olds that are considering marriage to think twice.
It sounds like you may be suffering from depression. I agree with Kelly0. Counseling might help. It may help you rejuvenate your marriage, and it may help dig you out of the rut you feel you are in.
Good luck.
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (4 October 2006):
 Hi dear,
I think your arent happy with your present situation of things. I think u feel outweigh but work, schooling,i am sure u are a lovely mother but u still have a kid to consider as well. I think u are incredibly strong and brave and i dont think ur life is unfulfiling. I think u have it all planned out and u are working really hard to achieve your goals. Perhaps what u need right now is support and strength and u feel u arent getting enough.
What i would suggest u do for now is get your husband involoved and go for counselling. Counselling is good and alot of people read negative meanings to this but is does help with providing support. If u have a good counsellor he will provide u with alot of insight on your problems and what direction u need to proceed in other to get a meaningful and more fulfiling life.
I think perhaps u should also consider socialise abit more and making more friends. i am sure u have a nice personality and alot of people will pick up on this. Go out and do something new not relating to work or schooling. Go out to a social gathering or get involved in a charity club,social event, cinema, salon for a make over... something new.
Take care dear and goodluck.
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