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writes: Okay,I have a boyfriend, but on saturday night i got really drunk and this boy who nearly all my friends fancy, fingered me and i tossed him off.I love my boyfriend more then anything - bit too much. But if the truth comes out i will lose my boyfriend and all my friends!Deceit that draws no harm or truth that draws tears, loss of friendship and chaos?HELP
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reader, David Lewis  +, writes (5 October 2006):
 You should be honest with him, otherwise the guilt will eat at you. Then there is the chance somebody else would tell him. I am sure you have more chance of keeping him if you tell him yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2006): I suppose if you arent really in to your relationship with your boyfirend, go ahead tell him all about it, otherwise don't say a word. And if someone else tells him deny it, why would you purposely hurt him by telling him?
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reader, Dr. Reality Check +, writes (5 October 2006):
 You must tell your boyfriend before someone else does. If I were him I would want to know instead of finding out later and wondering what else you are lying about. Relationships need to be open and honest to stand a chance.
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reader, shania +, writes (4 October 2006):
 Oh dear!..what a mess.Why on earth did you do that when you love your boyfriend? Ok, you were drunk but you must of known deep down that it was very wrong.The only thing i can say is just keep quiet and hopefully you wont get found out,obviously the longer it goes on the less chance of your fella finding out.I wouldn't suggest that you confess to all this as what will that gain? In future,stay off the booze.
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (4 October 2006):
 Just tell him yourself, because if I know guys like I know guys he will brag on it. So instead of waiting for the news to get to your boyfriend its best he hears it from you. Everyone has to live with the consequences of his/her own decisions. You're not immune to this. Face the music and deal with the consequences accordingly. He might dump you but its something that you did. He might get over it or he might not but the first step to him recovering is to find out. Tell Him. Good Luck.
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