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writes:hiIm prob gonna sound really daft saying this but here goes I only get to see my guy once a week.Due to work commitments I wont be seeing him next week. I have gone much longer without seeing him in the past as we were previously longer distance (we are still long distance, just not as much)I know I should be thankful that I can see him more often and that two weeks is no time at all. But at the min im so emotional I miss him loads and just wanna cry. He is very much a realist and content with himself and says time is good to keep things fresh but I just miss him so badAny advice pleaseThank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2006): oh sweetie You sound like you really love him but genrally speaking its not good to get this attached. sounds like your only half livin your life at the mo hun your too busy missing him for anything else we've all been there,
My Mum pointed this out to me when I was in a simler position It hit a nerve but then I thought crap shes right Ive lossed all sence of balance in my life at this time so I tryed to address this and Ive never looked back because Ive got ambitions that are nothing to do with the Men in my life I always have really and so have you (everyone has) Its just when cupid hits its strong and makes you just think of him and Love intead of living life like you did when you where single,
honestly your B.f is right on this one seeing him once a week is good because you will keep thoughs butterflies for longer and have less fights with him, also you will have time to be you! Guys dont like it when girls make all there plans around them and lose intrests and hobbies that they had before because there a part of you and thats who he fell in love with right? so try Keeping busy enjoying yourself and it will be extra special when you see him good luck with this try and keep stong x
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2006): I feel terrible for you. I am in the exact same situation as you right now. It so hard to know that you cant see you boyfriend for a long period of time, and it eats you up inside almost every minute of everyday right? I cry, sometimes its a good release, but two things i find that help are as follows.Keep a diary or journal, and write your best memories and moments with him in it. When ur feeling positive, write advice to yourself that can help you when its a more difficult day.Second, keep busy! I find that if i make plans for my day the night previous, i dont think about not seeing him as much. Plan to study, go out with a girlfriend for lunch, work on a project, start an activity, anything to keep busy!!! Make sure your whole day is full of planned events and activites, even if sometimes it is watching a fovourite tv show.Its a lot easier said then done i know, but just try to stay positive. Think about the future, and how differnt things will be between the two of you. Maybe a house, children? Just think about right now as time that is essential to creating a great future for you two together! good luck!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2006): i know how you feel my boyfriend just got another 2 night jobs to pay of debts and i havent seen him in 2 n 1/2 weeks i miss him so much but he says he needs 2 get his life sorted which im guna support him by but he will txt and break up a date because he isnt in the mood its really annoyin
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