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writes:My bf has said that 'we are not just about the sex' and doesnt wanna do it as much as we used to We have been together 6 months Maybe im just being a bit insecure at the momentHe kisses and cuddles me loads when i see him (we only get to see each other about once a week)Plays with my hair and we text/talk loadsWhat I would like to know is do people here think it one of the following things that is going onIs this because he sees me as a long term person who he wants a proper relationship with or because he is going off me. Thanks everyone
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks leah that really helps Im really gonna appreciate this guy Like you said hes one in a million
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reader, xLEAHx +, writes (21 October 2006):
 Its funny really coz most of the time its the other way around,we all know guys love sex and its all they mostly think about ..i think you have one in a million there and should feel flattered that he wants more then just to get in your knickers especialy so early in a relationship ..for a guy to turn around and say theres more to a relationship then sex means that he really wants more from you in the like getting to know you better, and to spend quality time with you doing other things, rather then just having sex, and wants a long term steady relationship coz he knows your the one.
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reader, kellyO +, writes (19 October 2006):
 Well if he says u guys are not "just about sex" that means he wants the relationship to mean much more and wants to incorporate other variables in the relationship like perhaps friendship and companionship.
i really feels he sees u as a person that he wants a long-term commitment with since he hasnt ruled off sex completely. i feel he just moderation and bonding on other levels.
Take care dear and goodluck
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