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writes: Ok, im 17 and me and my boyfriend have been dating for nearly a month and we want to strat doing things but i have no idea what so ever what to do like blow jobs and stuff. Please may i have some advice and ideas please
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reader, Evangeline  +, writes (22 October 2006):
 The biggest thing before you start doing stuff is to feel comfortable with each other and not to be too afraid of telling each other what you like (Theres nothing worse than lying there with your partner doing something you dont particularly like!)
If its your first experiences try to keep them light-hearted and not too intense (you dont want to get too intense too quickly as it can make relationships frustraiting and dissapointing).
The best thing to do is to start at the top and work down!
Kiss him softely and slowly get more passionate. Stroke his chest and touch the top of his bum (guys love that) play with the top of his trousers and boxers, then when your ready take it a step further - make sure you tease him a bit first i.e dont go straight for his penis. Rub the inside of his leg first for example.
Do the same when giving blow jobs dont go straight for it, lick him all over down there and then slide him in and out your mouth - dont be afraid to ask him whether he wants it slower/faster/harder etc, if your doing this with someone, you both feel comfortable enough and mature enough to ask and say what you enjoy.
Good luck! Have Fun : )
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reader, xLEAHx +, writes (19 October 2006):
 Hi natalie..right first things first 'contraception'im not saying your nieve and do not know this but believe me theres plenty out there who don't, and would like to ignore it, make an appoitment at your family planning clinic thats if you haven't already done so before you start having intercourse..as for sexual intercourse it will come naturally and as for oral sex (blow jobs) if your boyfriend has had sex before then im sure hel be able to teach you and guide you.. GOOD LUCK xLEAHX
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