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writes: Ok i need some advice guys...! Ive been with my bf for almost a year now, the relationship is up and down, due to the fact that he doesnt seem to trust me fully and jealously issues AND we argue a ALOT!!!.. but our sex life is CRAZY, we see each other 6 days in a week (we dont live together) and we make love 3-4 times daily, sometimes MORE, i have a high sex drive but his sex drive is extremely HIGH, he always always wants to make love to me, and if i say no he does kind of get frustrated.. Lately i cant take it, i get tired easily...i do enjoy it, i mean hes the best partner ive ever had, (im 20 btw, hes 25) and he always gives me mind blowin orgasms! the question is, are we both addicted?? and is he only with me because the sex is so amazing? he tells me he loves me and im the ONLY girl hes ever loved... but i feel like testing him, buy not giving in to sex and see if he will still stay with me!! please give me some advice, is it normal for a guy to want so much sex??
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reader, eddie  +, writes (20 October 2006):
 If he doesn't trust you and is jealous, why are you with him? Don't you deserve to be respected by your soulmate? He's treating you like you're guilty of something. I imagine his need for sex is a reflection of his need for assurances from you that he is great and as an act of power, on his part. I'd bet if you cut back on the sex, he would not handle it well.
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (19 October 2006):
 I know it maybe tempting to 'test' him but the game playing will just end in misery. there is nothing wrong in having a highly sexual relationship as long as both of you are happy. It seems to me that you are not 100% happy with the arrangement and would like a relationship based on friendship as much as bedroom antics. I think the only way to resolve the issue is to talk to him - and somewhere public where it won't turn into another session...just explain to him how you feel about things and see his reaction. If he respects you then he may put less pressure on you for sex - after all a good relationship is balanced and not just all about what he wants. good luck
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reader, xLEAHx +, writes (19 October 2006):
 'OH YES' The average guy has a high sex drive and especially if they have a young sexy woman ..although you have been with your boyfriend for just a year its still so very new between you ..give it a few years and then your find you may not be having sex as much ..but then that all depends on each individual..im sure your boyfriend does'nt just want you for sex..but if you feel unsure then yeh go ahead and test him out.. tell him you want to do other things together rather then just having sex you can still love up to eachother and show affection without the sex ..to be having sex 6 days a week 3-4 times a day seems like you have too much time on your hands..
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2006): Yes it's perfectly normal! And I don't think there's anything wrong with your situation right now, arguing is common among couples, you're both in love and have a great sex life so that's cool!
I don't think he's only after sex, I mean if he is, then he could have found other girls and not waste 6 days a week being with you. He sounds like a committed boyfriend, and you're lucky he spends a lot of his time with you.
You just need to make sure that you're the only one and that he ain't cheating or anything, if you're sure of that then go ahead and enjoy his mind blowing sex!
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