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writes: I met a guy on holiday. We got on so well and I have never felt like this for anyone before. When we were on holiday together, although I was really up for taking it furthur when we both got home, he seemed to be too. Since we've been back, I have been the one calling him and arranging to meet up. We've arranged to meet up twice and he hasn't botherd to show up both times, or let me know. When I call he apologises so much and says he loves me and misses me, but he is just shy to come and see me. I don't know what to think. My friend says I deserve better, but I know what we have is something special. I know being home is different to being on holiday and it might not work out, but I love him so much and I just want to find out what could happen between us. I know, I'll never be over him, but why does he always say things he doesn't mean? I miss him so much. He's making me feel so low, but at the same time when I've been on the phone to him he puts me in an amzing mood. Please help, I don't know what to do. I justw ant him to make an effort, like he says he wants to.
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reader, xLEAHx  +, writes (20 October 2006):
 Was he shy on holiday ? if he wasn't then why be shy now thats what you need to ask yourself i could understand the situation if you had never met before and he was nervous and shy about the first meeting, but you were on holiday together so there's no escuse for this.. and are you sure you actually love this guy and it wasn't just a holiday romance..i can understand your frustration because your missing him ,wanting to be with him and his going all shy on you ..but what does he want at the end of the day? a long distance relationship on the phone? or a proper one? ..this is what you must find out ..you do really need to ask him this to give you your own peice of mind ..set up another meeting and put it to him that if he loves and misses you like he says he does ..then be there for me..meet me ..lets make it happen ..if no show yet again then forget him ..move on because then it sounds as if his messing you about and doesn't want anything to come of this relationship.
GOOD LUCK & KEEP US POSTED
xLEAHx
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