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writes: what does a guy mean when you go out with him then become friends then go out then friends again and then he starts flirting with a lot but he has a girlfriend and if someone asks him if he was flirting with me he says hell no then the next day he still flirts then out of no where he says he hates me because of what his friend said but he told me it was someone different then the person he told my friend it was and they are sisters but then this guy that really likes me wanted to fight him because he thought he was being rude to me so i told my ex that he was about to get in a fight so he could stop the drama and i told him why then my ex goes and tries to find him at school!! so he tried to find him and fight him but that was the day when he still hated me and he has a girlfriend why was he looking for a fight especially when it was like involving me?? does he still have feelings for me?? what should i do?? and everyone says he is only going out with his gf because she is an eighth grader do you think this is true and he is trying to make me jealous or what?? how do i play this situation to make it turn out the best i still have feelings for him but it could ruin our friendship and i love him and i dont want it to end what should i do??
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2007): dear girl i do have the some problem like you my x get jealous if he sees me with someone, even just a friend l keep my distance he still calls me pravit if i say hallow no one is answering i still have feelings for him, so my advice to you is that if he really love you he sould respect your degnity and protects you,get over him, i change my number take care girl look after your self boys will come and go but your more important than a diamon
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (19 October 2006):
 SSTTTTTooooppppppp...I think you have been drinking too much cola...your head is buzzing with questions but there is one answer - he is just a guy playing the field, it didnt work out with you two and it just wont in the future. You cannot make him like you romantically because it is impossible to change someone else in that way. My point is that he is young, under a lot of pressure from his mates and he is practising his flirting skills on you. Maybe he fancies you, maybe he doesn't...it is irrelevant...he has a girlfriend, he told his friends he hates you (regardless of whether he does or not)...he wants to fight everyone because he cannot handle his emotionals and is an immature child...he is NOT boyfriend material. You don't love him - he gives you attention good and bad and everyone loves attention. I think you should leave the guy alone - tell him you like him and you risk making a fool of yourself in front of the whole school.
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reader, xLEAHx +, writes (19 October 2006):
 Hi there,
Basically you wanna find out what this guy wants ..he seems to be playing games ..and its messing with your emotions..maybe confront him if you can and ask him what he wants and expects from you ..friendship or a relationship because right now his sending out mixed signals..if you think his flirting with you then ask him why his flirting when he has a g/friend..
xLEAHx
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2006): I know you say you love this guy, but can you see he's acting like a complete jerk. He is just messing you around and giving you mixed signals. I don't think he has feelings for you anymore, but at the same time he wants to have control of your feelings and doesn't want anyone else to have you. AS for the new guy that likes you, well he just seems to want to cause trouble. If he realy, truely liked you, he wouldn't want to fight your ex, even if he was rude to you. Maybe you should tell him he should support you in getting over your ex instead. Once your ex, sees that you have moved on and you and your new boyfriend aren't reacting to his childish behaivour, he'll soon realise how stupid he's been and leave you alone to get on with your life, which in the long run, is definatly what is best for you hunnie. I've been there - it's hard but it will get better, and you'll feel great when your over your ex and he won't have control of your feelings anymore. good luck with the new guy thoughxxxx hope it helpsxxx
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