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writes: Im lost without her - hi people, i need help ok i have just broken up with my girlfriend and moved out on my own about 2 months ago but miss her sooooo much - ok were together for about 1 n half years things were great - we knew each other(worked 2gether) before we eventually she broke with her b/f n we got 2 gether, around xmas last year she lost her mom i was helping her then we both decided i should move in with her - things were still great we were soooo in love then about june time things started going funny - i no longer worked with her( i had started a good job) but she was still working where we met - she started comin home later and later and going out at the weekends and leaving me at home looking after our dogs.we stoped having sex and she said it was because she was still upset about her mom so i respected it. Sometimes she wouldnt come home till the morning n i questioned where she had been but she told me she loved me and she had been staying at a female friends - the last time it happend she came home (took the pill as soon as she got back)and didnt want to be together anymore!! i was upset and questioned what had happend 'that' nite and she said nothing had - i went around to where she 'supposed' to have stayed that night and was told she was never there ! i went down to her work and asked her and she told me again she had stayed at her friends but i told her i knew beta and then she told me she had stayed with a bunch of guys for the night - i moved out i didnt like being lied to and had susptions she fanciced sum1 she worked with - i thought we needed time from each other and gave her space - then found out she is actually with some guy she works with now !!! i think i want her back but i e-mailed her asking what happend 'that' night and no responce i phoned her cos i needed to pick up the last of my things and asked if i could see the dogs and she didnt answer and sent me a txt to say i could pik up my things but dont see our dogs - i e-mailed again saying it was wrong to ask what had happen still no response - then i saw her down the pub she works and she just said hello like i was n e 1 !! i miss her soo much and just want to talk to her but guess she dont want to - i think she still cares 4 me and we were so good together i neva said or did n e thing to upset her after the break up now dont know what to do ??? i want her back !!Btw she 25 im 24 her new bloke 27 (i think)Advice please thanks(sorry this is so long)
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2006): maybe..after loosing her mum..she didnt want to get to attached bcuz she was afraid of loosing u n getting hurt..so she decided to move on first...this is just a suggestion..maybeee she felt trappd and wanted out..give her time..if she doesnt get in touch..i think it would be wise to 'live and let live' good luck..freind x
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2006): This girl doesn't sound worth your time. Understandably, she's recently lost her mother, for which I offer my sympathies. However, this isn't a reason to treat you the way she's been allegedly doing to you. If she's lying to you, sneaking behind your back and cheating on you, do you really think she's worth all of the pain?
I don't think she is.
It's time to let go, or at least take a long.... long break. As in, maybe call her up in a year and a half to say hello.
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