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writes: my close female friend has never called me and rarely starts a conversation msn until i start it first. when i do she talks to me normally, and we can go on forever. at school the same thing applies but she never starts a coversation with me. it's been a week now since we had a chat apart from the hi's! i felt angry but today in class she was sitting in front of me. i was just playin with her hair for half an hour before lesson ended. she doesn't mind. but i feel i'm stupid and there's nothing wrong. how can i bring it up and ask why she doesn't talk to me or makes a effort like a true friend. she tells me everything, i'm her true friend. she has a 8month boyfriend. i secretely fancy her. she doesn't have a clue! so am i being paranoid?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2006): You should just tell her one day that she can IM you and call you once in a while. Say it friendly-like so she doesn't see that you're upset. Tell her you won't IM her anymore until she IM's you and see how she reacts. Hopefully she'll get the hint. If she doesn't get the hint or doesn't change after you talk to her than she's not really a good friend.
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reader, lindsayg +, writes (19 October 2006):
 Hey hun, you may be just a little paranoid about the whole thing truthfully, but also she could be trying to not lead you on and get your hopes up because if she has a bf she wouldnt want to hurt you, if you are a tru friends then talk to her about it and tell her that your really trying, and that you really care about her as your friend, dont pressure her or anything just talk , and maybe shes just a little distracted by her bf. but you'll find the answer sooner or later, just dont stress it makes it worst...
best wishes.
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