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writes:why does my ex always start fights and brings up stuff from the past even tho i try my best to be nice to her? alot of the time we are fine but she randomly starts fights. Shes back with her ex btw, and is happy with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2006): Well better to leave it at that, rather than continue this and grow to hate her. If things get better over the years, possibly people can change for the better or for the worst. You're still mid teen. Lots of opportunities anyhow.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionmartini, we had a weird relationship, based around having fun, having a laugh and stuff, and i wanted to keep that. I dont see the big deal people say that you cant be friends still with an ex. The reason we broke up no way affected our friendship. I even said to her i wanted to still have a laugh with her and she agreed, but then we had a fight last night and i said why do you always start a fight, why cant we agree that if we cant say anything nice dont say nothing atall (she asked for me to reason with her after a fight) and so i tryed, but she decided to be a weirdo and be really sarcastic to me. I doubt im gonna speak to her again cos its not only making me annoyed, but is threatening a relationship of mine with another girl. Oh and i wont go into detail about this, but she went through ALOT of trouble telling her friends we wernt serious, and alot of her friends didnt even know we where together, inc one of her best friends, and after the break up she wasnt atall bothered about it, she went straight back to her ex, and i found a note she sent to a friend and it was like 'yea i dont even care now im going back to (ex bf's name) and then she decides to blame me for tipping her onto anti depressent pills (she was already depressed about stuff) when since the break up ive ALWAYS been nice, never started a fight, never done anything. and leah, im 16 shes 15, no kids :P, and i doubt i will talk to her, tbh im at the brink of hating her, because stuff shes said and done
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2006): And why are you in any sort of contact with her in the first place?
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reader, xLEAHx +, writes (19 October 2006):
 She's proberly resenting and angry at you for whatever happend in your relationship..but if she's now back with her ex there should be no reason for her to keep bringing up the past..my advise is if you want a quiet life and this to end and if theres no kids involved then stay away..
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