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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I love him, but he's in the Army now. I can't accept that he'd choose a career that separates us!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6695 days ago

11 July 2006 (F) - My bf joined the army recently and I really don't like it. I'm still quite young and don't want to be in a relationship that is so serious. I have been with him for 2 and a half years and he left 7 weeks ago. I am really not happy with the situation but I know I love him. I w... (157 words)

I don't want to feel this way about my girlfriend's friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6707 days ago

11 July 2006 (M) - Basically ive been going out with my girlfriend for about 2 years. We've been going strong and we both made good starts to our lives after school. Whilst I'm working she is at college, and she has made some real nice friends, including 1 girl who I think I'm falling in love ... (85 words)

By BF wants children and I might be pregnant - I'm only 16!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6707 days ago

11 July 2006 (F) - I have been going out my boyfriend for 3 and a half months. I have had sex with him but he wants children and I might be pregnant. What can I do? My period should start again on the 27 of this month and I am only 16 years old.... (51 words)

The boy I like said he wouldn't date me because I'm too shy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6595 days ago

11 July 2006 (F) - I've loved this boy since January and he turned to me yesterday and said he didn't think if he got with me it would work out because I'm too shy. After he said that I broke down and i haven't stopped crying. I'm even taking it out on my family and friends. I wish I could st... (74 words)

She's 19 and I'm 17. I know she likes me, but she tells me I'm "too young"!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6691 days ago

11 July 2006 (M) - Is it impossible for a 17 year old guy to get with a 19 year old girl? I know most girls go for older guys, this one especially, but she is always flirting with me! As a result I have fallen head over heels for her. This is my best friend's sister and I have known her and like... (173 words)

Ready to move from friends to More Than Friends, but I always have to make the first move with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6707 days ago

11 July 2006 (F) - I've known this guy for 5 years. A year ago we slept together and now it's really awkward between us. I think he likes me but he hasn't shown much interest since we had sex. If I contact him, he gets in touch but I always have to make the first move. I want things to go back ... (129 words)

I just don't care about sex. I won't do oral, won't show my body. It's causing a big strain!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6704 days ago

11 July 2006 (F) - I have never been interested in sex. I could go without it and this is causing a big strain between me and my boyfriend. We've been together 5 years. I find it so boring that I think of other things and have willingly said he can go with someone else. I especially won't do... (88 words)

My husband doesn't want time with me or our kids!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6140 days ago

11 July 2006 (F) - My husband spends all his time either at work (self employed, part time) or playing casino games on the pc or out with his friends. When I ask him to do something with me he moans and replies he doesn't enjoy doing that (like going to a movie) or that he thought I was busy. ... (109 words)

So many problems... can this marriage be saved?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6705 days ago

11 July 2006 (F) - How do you know when a marriage has run its course? Is it when after 10 yrs together and your husband still won't compromise on even the smallest thing, like who gets a lie-in at the weekend because he works and you spend all your time raising the kids? Or is it when y... (237 words)

Dieting, but no weight lost. Growing hair on my stomach. Anyone have ideas for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6706 days ago

11 July 2006 (M) - I have a problem I am 16 yrs old and I have been dieting for nearly 3 months now, but I haven't lost any weight whatsoever. Does anyone know if there are pills I can take or anything like that to help me lose my weight? And my other concern is that I have a lot of hair on ... (86 words)

I slept with my ex and it didn't feel wrong, even though I love my current BF...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6707 days ago

11 July 2006 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for two years but the other week I slept with my ex. My ex wants to give it another go and I was tempted but I realised how much I love my boyfriend and how I couldn't be without him. But when I'm with my ex it doesn't feel wrong in any way and I ... (72 words)

With a new boyfriend, but having dreams about last year's ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6707 days ago

11 July 2006 (F) - I have a boyfriend that I live with and am pregnant from, so why do I keep dreaming about my ex from last year?... (24 words)

She's 14. I'm 16. Are the two years too much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6707 days ago

11 July 2006 (M) - Well. There is a girl of 14 who I fancy and am not sure she fancies me back. But anyway I am 16 and have left school, and my mate keeps taking the mick because I want to go out with a younger girl who is the same age as my sister. But I don't know what to do: do I expect loads ... (78 words)

My ex rebounded, only to marry someone else 3 months later!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6707 days ago

11 July 2006 (F) - I was in a relationship for 3 years with my boyfriend- we both has a healing time of 6 months and now after only 3 months he is marrying another woman. Is there a psychological explanation for this? I have seen this happen over and over again with other people.... (50 words)

Kissed someone else and felt terrible, so why do I keep giggling when we talk it about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6706 days ago

11 July 2006 (F) - I cheated on my long term bf last Sat and just didn't realise I was kissing another bloke cuz I was really drunk. But as soon as I realised, I pushed the bloke away and ran off crying cuz I couldn't believe I had done it. I told my bf the next morning of what I could re... (174 words)

Thought that we were "just friends", but only realised the truth when I started dating someone else...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6707 days ago

11 July 2006 (F)

- I made friends with someone who I met through a dating agency. Nothing happened between us but we supported each other through some hard times. Now I have a boyfriend and I realise that he does actually like me and it feels unwelcome. He is paralysed from the waist down and... (197 words)

I feel jealous when my boyfriend hangs out with other girls... even though I trust him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6707 days ago

11 July 2006 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating now for 2 and a half months. I'm a very jealous person and I get easily upset when he tells me he's going to be hanging out with other girls, and I'm not there. I don't like to sound like I'm controlling him but we always fight because ... (119 words)

I thought I was over him...Now his girlfriend is pregnant!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6707 days ago

11 July 2006 (F)

- My ex split with me for someone else a year ago now and at the time I was devastated. It took months for me to start to feel better again but I still havent met anyone else and dont even feel attracted to anyone else. Over the past couple of months I have found that the p... (404 words)

I feel like I'm losing him. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6706 days ago

11 July 2006 (F) - i feel my fiance going far from me...he is travelling away and we just chat using a webcam...i have a strange feeling he will leave me...i am so nervous and irritable...what shall i do? ... (36 words)

I don't understand why we argue so often!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6070 days ago

11 July 2006 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been arguing a lot lately and when we argue we both get really angry. I'm so confused on why we argue so much. Am I fighting with him cuz I don't love him or cuz I don't want to be with him? We have been dating for a year and 5 months. I know I... (79 words)

How do I break up with him when me and his mother are close?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6707 days ago

11 July 2006 (F) - ok so i have this bf.we've been together for about two months now. he says he loves me and tells me that when i talk to him but we hardly talk at all and it kinda hurts when he asks me to do all the talking my friends say i should figure out what i want to do and honestly i ... (108 words)

My wife is contacting an ex and I'm worried.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6706 days ago

11 July 2006 (M) - My wife recently told me she's been in touch with an old boyfriend from many years ago. I think they met via an internet chat room by accident. She has confessed to meeting with him on two occasions for coffee, but insists nothing happened physically. She denies that there is ... (144 words)

Small but disturbing troubles in my relationship with my boyfriend... I've decided to end it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6707 days ago

11 July 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I started having sex early on in the relationship and we have been pretty careful so far. Recently he came inside of me, because as he says he got caught up in it. We have also been having a little trouble in the relationship, because I am still in university ... (187 words)

Does chocolate really give you spots?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6705 days ago

11 July 2006 (F) - My boyfriend said that chocolate gives you spots... is this true? I have loads of spots and eat chocolate all the time! If Cocoa Butter is good for spots/skin, well why when eating chocolate (that contains Cocoa Butter) gives you spots?? Confused? xxxxxx... (47 words)

I'm a father of 4 and I'm in love with my daughter's ex-bf!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6702 days ago

11 July 2006 (M) - I am 52 yrs old and a father of 4. My youngest daughter as been seeing a young man for 3 years. They recently split and whilst they were apart he talked with me on the internet and we met up. I have fallen in love with him and even though i know this is a ridiculous situatio... (112 words)

He's only mentioned his sexual health now... !

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6707 days ago

11 July 2006 (F)

- I need some advice about something my boyfriend did recently. I strongly believe in giving blood and I find it really selfish when people won't do it for whatever pathetic reason they might come up with. My boyfriend has been like this for a while and I've asked him to come a ... (184 words)

I'm married but my school crush is back in contact, 15 years on...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6707 days ago

11 July 2006 (F) - I've recently been contacted by an old school mate who I had a crush on 15 years ago. We've been chatting online frequently and he has now told me he is in love with me and wants us to meet. I'm married but can't stop thinking about him. What should I do?... (55 words)

Next time he asks me who I love more, what should I say?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6707 days ago

11 July 2006 (F)

- my boyfriend keeps asking who i love more me or my best friend ... i never know what to say but it makes me really angry that he asks that type of question next time he askes what shall i say ? i want to get the message across that its a stupi question ... (60 words)

I'm a compulsive liar at 14... Your help needed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6707 days ago

11 July 2006 (F) - I am a 14yr old girl. I have a prolem where i lie to much, but i can't controll it. I'm getting help for it tho. But one of my colsets friends found out that i lied to them and they don't want anything to do with me anymore. What should i do? I really like this person!... (58 words)

Why is there no interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6707 days ago

11 July 2006 (F)

- I'm 13, and really like quite a few boys. I'm good friends with most of them, and flirt loads with them. I'm told by lots of people that I'm gorgeous, and that i've got a lovely personality. But why haven't I had any interest from them? Please help.... (52 words)

I'm a reformed drug addict who has fallen in love with a woman online... But she's a muslim and her family would disown her! (ps. sorry for shouting)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6707 days ago

11 July 2006 (M) - FOR THE LAST 8-10 YEARS I HAVE MOVED FROM ONE SUBSTANCE ABUSE TO ANOTHER. THAT ENDED 6 MONTHS AGO WHEN OVER THE INTERNET I MET A WOMEN, WHO IS NOW VERY DEAR TO ME. IT WAS A BIG WAKE UP CALL AND I HONESTLY BELIEVED SHE SAVED MY LIFE. WE HAVE MET, HAD OUR FIRST KISS AND TALK ALL ... (252 words)

Does my girlfriend really love me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

11 July 2006 (M) - I'm going out with this girl a year now and it has been tough and great at the same time.We are best friends and lovers in each others life, but last night we had a big argument about her not being fair with me.You see, we live 30 mins away from each other, both have good jobs ... (293 words)

I think I've caused all his problems... Is divorce the answer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6707 days ago

11 July 2006 (F) - Hi, I am writing because I have a huge problem and need some advice! I have been suffering for the past weeks lack of sleep and anxiety. I am 41 years old, 10 years married, no children, living over seas since 2002 in a country where my husband´s family live. Since I have came ... (295 words)

How can I stay hard with my girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6707 days ago

11 July 2006 (M) - I can get hard when im with my gf but when it comes down to it it dies. What should I do?... (22 words)

My mother in law doesnt want us to marry!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6707 days ago

11 July 2006 (F) - Dear Cipid I have a fiance whom I got engaged on 16th April 2006. We want to get married on 19th August 2006. The problem isthat my Mother-inlaw doesent want the wedding to take place since my fiance is a bread winner for the family. She thinks that when i got married to h... (95 words)

Confused about the girls in my life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6707 days ago

11 July 2006 (M) - Hi I'm in my mid 20's and I've been going out with my girlfriend for approx 5 years now and we have been mates since school and share the same social circles. Recently, I went out for a drink with a friend of mine (Girl B)who I know through working for her mum parents small bu... (240 words)

What shall I do about this girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6693 days ago

11 July 2006 (M) - OK. This one has me hoppin' a bit. There's a girl in work. Very nice, Very attractive and I'm almost sure she likes me (who can be certain). Now... when we banter away whilst working.. the craic is great and we really get along well. We can kinda bounce of each other... She ... (147 words)

I have a hairy question!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6707 days ago

11 July 2006 (M) - I have a hairy chest and stomach and I don't know if I should shave it/wax it or not. I know that there are girls that like it and some that hate it. I always tend to care about what others think (bad habit) and when I see that most guys at the beach or wherever don't have ... (170 words)

My holiday romance has left my heart-broken!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6707 days ago

11 July 2006 (F) - I met a guy while holidaying in Germany. He is from Australia and has a finace back home (of four years!!) We had two nights of amazing love and passion. I returned home and a couple of days later he called to say he wanted to come over and see me before he returned to ... (197 words)

I found strange numbers on his phone and now he is being secretive!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6706 days ago

11 July 2006 (F) - I think my boyfriend may be cheating on me as a few weeks ago i was sending a text from his mobile phone and before you pick the number you want to sent it to it gives you the last few numbers you have texted and i noticed there was a girls name that i didnt know. I know all... (214 words)

My husband's performance anixiety is making me feel bad. What can I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6707 days ago

11 July 2006 (F) - My sex life with my husband is lacking. We are newly-weds, but we only make love once every few weeks if that...when we do, it is nearly always a disaster. My husband only climaxes about 25 per cent of the time...usually after about five minutes of sex at most he claims it ... (413 words)

We were making out and he called out someone else's name!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

11 July 2006 (F) - Hi, am a 28 year old single mom. I am in a two month old relationship, but the guy doesnt cum whenever we have sex. We have never discussed it though. Yesterday while we were making out he called me someone else's name. I am so devastated.... (47 words)

My husband, 27, is becoming increasingly and worryingly absent-minded!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6707 days ago

11 July 2006 (F) - My husband is becoming increasingly absent-minded. It started out with little things, things that many people do, like leaving the toothpaste cap off or forgetting to brush his teeth at night, but recently he has started leaving water on after washing his hands in the toilet ... (288 words)

I'm pregnant but in love with my ex... !

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6707 days ago

11 July 2006 (F) - hi there! i am 20 years old and pregnant me and the father of the child is living in the same house. I think i'm in love with my ex we where togheter for 4 years and i think we belong toghter. the father of the child and i is not really happy. i dont know what to do. ... (62 words)

My ex and I are hanging out, but I have no idea where we're going!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6708 days ago

11 July 2006 (F) - I left my son's father almost 8 yrs ago after being together for 8 yrs, yet for 2 yrs we have been hanging out more and even having sexual relations (he cheated on his gf of 2 1/2 yrs for more than half of that time w/ me). But I can't seem to get him to tell me where this is ... (105 words)

Need some advice on getting over my ex... especially since I'll be seeing her again when we're back at college!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6708 days ago

11 July 2006 (M) - Hi everyone, I found it hard to keep in touch with my ex as I still loved her and she seemed to have already moved on (started seeing someone VERY soon after we broke up). I told her I couldn't talk to her anymore and I went without talking to her for a month. Then out ... (486 words)

Harmless flirting with my younger brother's mate is OK, isn't it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6696 days ago

11 July 2006 (F) - This is odd, but my younger brother is 17, and I'm 22. He has a friend his age that I just have a innocent crush on. I basically want to know if that's weird. Don't worry; I won't be acting on it. I mean he's just a kid still, but I just get along with him and think he's fun... (90 words)

I want to be happy in myself first, told my friend that, now he doesn't want to know me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6708 days ago

11 July 2006 (F) - Did I overreact? I have been hanging out with my ex-boyfriend this past week (we haven't talked for two years). I'm kind of depressed and he says things like he wants to make me happy. I told him I have to be happy on my own first, and he said he was glad I told him that. A... (150 words)

I read on a website that males don't like dry-humping! But we do it all the time!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6708 days ago

11 July 2006 (F) - I was reading some information on another website, i forget the name of it, and there was this article on it about dry sex aka dry humping. Anyway, it was written by a male and it addressed this sexual act from the male perspective and he went on to say that men don't get much ... (179 words)

I try to have sex with my GF but I can't ever get hard!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6708 days ago

11 July 2006 (M) - I been going out with my gf for a year but every time we try to have sex i cannot get hard. Is that something to be worried about? ... (29 words)

How do I tell this girl I like her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6705 days ago

11 July 2006 (M) - I really like this girl and i want 2 be with her but i dont know how 2 tell her. What can i do?... (24 words)