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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Am I being paranoid or is my BFs strange behaviour something I should be worried about?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6714 days ago

3 July 2006 (F) - Hello there, Just wanted some dating advice... I've recently started dating someone I have known for years - long story, but he has been in love with me ever since I have known him. In the past I had not been interested, as I was always involved with someone else. When... (419 words)

Worried about losing my virginity!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6710 days ago

3 July 2006 (F)

- Hey im 16 and a virgin and im really worried becuase me and this guy ive been with are ready to take our relationship to the next level and after nearly 3 years im ready but im really worried that its going to hurt or im going to put him off becuase im really self concious ... (80 words)

My relationships seem to leave me suffocated! Am I doing this to myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6464 days ago

3 July 2006 (F) - Hi I'm 35 and got divorced 6 years ago. I have been in three relationships since that and decided last year I couldn't cope with being involved with anyone else. I just always seem to choose the same type of guy and I don't trust my own judgement any more. Everything star... (261 words)

A row over a missing condom leads me to wonder if I'm headed for heartbreak...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6715 days ago

3 July 2006 (F) - Hi, could really do with some constructive feedback as I'm having a hard time trying to work out what my boyfriend is really feeling. After an incredibly rocky beginning, things have been going well with my BF, been meeting his friends, we have planned to go for a weekend aw... (592 words)

Can't generate the same passion for anyone but my ex-husband!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6715 days ago

3 July 2006 (F) - I have been divorced from my husband for over a year now. I still cry over him and miss him so much. I have dated another man since then, fairly soon after we split up and even before our divorce was final. But, I just don't have the feelings I had for my husband towards my ... (143 words)

Got smashed and can't remember what I did to alienate all my friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6715 days ago

3 July 2006 (F) - Hey, Recently on a night out I got really drunk and I honestly can't remember anything, but lots of peop. I don't remember what I said and no one will tell me either. It's really upsetting me as I hate to think that I offended my best friend so much and I can't even think... (83 words)

Things were great until she decided we were moving too fast

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6715 days ago

3 July 2006 (M) - I started dating this girl a few months ago and it started out great we couldnt get enough of each other. Lots of affection, went out all the time and really enjoyed being togther. Then all of a sudden she says that it's going too fast for her, that we need to slow down. ... (121 words)

Workmates assume we're a couple, but I haven't even said to her how I feel!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6715 days ago

3 July 2006 (F) - Few years ago, I'd a crush on one of my colleagues in the same department. When I know her, she has already a steady boyfriend and are staying together. She did not know how I feel about her and our contact was purely about work then. Soon after, I was posted to a department. ... (338 words)

Virgin or one-night stand... *You* decide!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

3 July 2006 (M) - Hi, bit of a mental dilemma i'm in..... I have two dreams....very opposite to each other... The first one is to get married and to save myself (I am a virgin) for 'the one' The second is that I have this fantasy where I want to have a one night stand, for the sheer th... (157 words)

I just don't know who I love! They're both so different...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6715 days ago

3 July 2006 (F) - Howdy. I have been so confused about my relationships for so long. I was going out with Ash since I was 18, I'm now 30. We went out for six years. Then I went overseas and met David and started seeing both guys at the same time for 6 months, secretly. Dreadful. Ash at ho... (347 words)

Do rebound relationships (like my ex's) ever work? (please say no)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

3 July 2006 (M) - My ex girlfriend started seeing somebody else VERY soon after she broke things off with me. We were going out for a little over a year. It's been almost 5 months since we broke up. My problem is that I still lover her, although she is still seeing this guy. I thought I was ... (226 words)

Am I unreasonable wanting to be treated with respect?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6715 days ago

3 July 2006 (F) - My partner has a very busy work life. I never know when I am going to see him from one day to the next and I find myself just dropping tools when he shouts. I don't want this, it really gets me down. I wish to be treated with respect but I am not sure whether I am being ... (216 words)

How do I make up for a drunken nightmare?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6715 days ago

3 July 2006 (F) - i got very drunk one night and ended up trying to kiss my boyfriends friend. however i don't remember this becuase i was drunk. i love my boyfriend and desperately want to get back with him. please give me advice on how.... (42 words)

What's the latest abortion you can have?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

3 July 2006 (F) - How long do you hv untill you can't have an abortion? i have gt untill wednesday if i am pregnant to find out weather or nt i am pregnant and hv an abortion cuz it's bin 3 mnths then and im getttin paranoid about it is it 3 mnths wot if u leave it longer??... (56 words)

Is there really... And I mean *really*... no way I can win her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6715 days ago

3 July 2006 (M) - hi i have a problem my girlfreind who i started going out with in 1998 now sinvce the it was stable relationship till 3 years later when she dumped me and saids i never want to see u again wel 8 years later 2006 she came back into my life march this year and 6 weeks she went ... (77 words)

Should I "walk on by"... their house?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6715 days ago

3 July 2006 (F)

- Ive just found out that my ex has recently bought a house with his new girlfriend. Im shocked and feel upset as I didnt realise they were that serious. My ex split up with me for her a year ago now, and at the time it was the most painful experience I had ever been throug... (156 words)

Should I carry on going through this or get rid and move on... ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6715 days ago

3 July 2006 (F)

- I need as many people's advice on this as possible, I'm driving myself mad!!! I started seeing my boyfriend, "Andy" before I split with my last boyfriend, "Danny". We didn't have sex, we just kissed and once, did some more stuff. I was so crazy about him, I just talked abou... (476 words)

How do you get pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6715 days ago

3 July 2006 (F) - is there other ways of getting pregnant other than sex?... (10 words)

I don't know about my online lover!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6715 days ago

3 July 2006 (F) - I met the man I'm seeing on a dating website. We see each other 2-3 times a week and the relationship has turned physical. He says he wants a relationship but then I find he still logs onto the site we met on. He says he doesnt when I spoke to him. But ive seen him logged on ... (77 words)

I hate my partners debt problems

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6715 days ago

3 July 2006 (F)

- Hi, I've been with my fiancee for over a year now, and our relationship is good, except for the money situation... He recently got a settlement from an auto accident, and unfortunatly we had to use all the money..(3000$) to fix the car because it was unsafe to drive. So now... (249 words)

What shall I do about my ex-girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6715 days ago

3 July 2006 (M) - Hi. Ive posted on here a few times since i split with my ex. Im 26 and shes 20. We went out for 18 months and had a strong and affectionate relationship. I used to drink alot which she wasnt happy with and she made that clear. I tried to stop the drinking but couldnt do it, not ... (465 words)

Is it not my right to change her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6710 days ago

3 July 2006 (M) - Hello. I have a problem and it's kiling me. I first started going out with this girl when we were only 11. We were soon snogging like we were much older. C,mon when you're 11 a full on snog in school is pretty wild. We lasted about a year and broke up. Years later I relised I ... (226 words)

I slept with him and now he only says hi, if I was to text him what could I say?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6704 days ago

3 July 2006 (F) - Hi i have liked a guy for six months, he has already told me he doesnt want a relationship because he knows he will mess me around. He texts me all the time though. He arranges to meet me but never calls to say lets mett up now, i often see him when we go out though and i... (124 words)

He is looking at porn and imaybe pregant!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

3 July 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for eight years.We have lived together for most of that time.Just recently we have started trying for a baby. This morning I went on the internet and checked the history. Up came loads and loads of porn sites which my boyfriend ha... (239 words)

Is it wrong of me wanting sex with my parents downstairs??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

3 July 2006 (F)

- Hiya. I have a problem with my dad. In September, i am going to be starting college and my boyfriend will have a job by then, so that means we will only see each other at night, so we'll have to go in each others houses, the problem is my dad,he won't let me and my boyfrien... (188 words)

Do I take a chance on him or back off ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6715 days ago

3 July 2006 (F) - I've been dating M since the 9th of May this year, Ive met him 10 times. His wife left him in Jan of this year.but he says there has been no sexual relations for two years between them. He rings and texts me reguarly, we have got closer to each other and passionate but not had ... (348 words)

How do I reassure how I'm not out looking for other girls??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6714 days ago

3 July 2006 (M)

- I went out with a friend tonight and my girlfriend who is out of town visiting her cousin is mad that i went out to bars. Of course, it didn't help that I didn't tell her I was going out tonight, but i did try to call her all day without getting a hold of her. Basica... (190 words)

I love him too much to tell him to go, but hes making me real unhappy!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6715 days ago

3 July 2006 (F) - hello i really need some advice me and my partner have been together 5 years had a bad time when my son was born but then we got things sorted we was happy for a while now i dont no how he feels for me i have got to do everything around the house im the one who has got to work ... (201 words)

Still seeing the ex is tearing me up inside!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6715 days ago

3 July 2006 (F) - My ex and I broke up a month ago, and we see each other at school everyday. Trouble is, I thought I was over him but everytime I see him my feelings come rushing back. We don't talk at all. When we see each other we just look straight through each other like we don't even know ... (396 words)

How do you deal with someone that breaks the rules of rowing!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6715 days ago

3 July 2006 (F) - When we disagree, my boyfriend tends to get very angry and verbally agressive. I mean shouts, swears, uses insults, aggressive body language. he says things he knows will hurt me like ' i hate you' or sometimes threatens to leave me. he's a loving and gentle persn in other w... (105 words)

My ex is confused about what he wants. So what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6715 days ago

3 July 2006 (F) - Hi, I live in London. My ex boyfriend and I started going out last September after dating/friends for 9 months. He is a busy lawyer, 43, and I'm a student, almost one, 33yrs. We both have similar goals, spiritual backgrounds and want to get married and have kids. He was... (346 words)

My past has given me baggage, but I want to be upfront about it before getting into a relationship. Wrong or right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6716 days ago

3 July 2006 (F) - I just got back from a rehab center in January. It has been a big part of my life and I am proud of the accomplishments I have made. I'm not afraid to share it, but I come with a lot of baggage. I usually think it's best to be upfront and honest when I meet a guy, and let him ... (206 words)

My married guy has made me wait 5 months, and he promised to leave his wife in 3!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6393 days ago

3 July 2006 (F) - Will he leave her for me? For the first time in seven years I have met someone I really love. Only thing is he is married. The woman he is married to is 10 years older than him She is 51 and he is 41 and I am 29 years old. I have only been dating him for 5 months and from th... (154 words)

Worried that my sister is in with a rough crowd...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6715 days ago

3 July 2006 (F) - I have questioned before for help about my sister and her boyfriend breaking up after six years. This is a continuation of the story. Well for the past 2 years my sister has been working at a horse farm during the summer between university. Her now ex wasn't so fond of ... (322 words)

My wife just isn't interested in sex, and it's driving me mad!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6712 days ago

3 July 2006 (?) - Hi, I have a question. I'm 27. I'm in marriage that's devoid of affection and sex, and I'm losing my mind. Basically, I'm the only man on the planet not having regular sex, and the sexual fustration makes me deeply depressed. My wife is cool person, she's a good person and ... (395 words)

It's not just all about sex! Really!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6715 days ago

3 July 2006 (M) - I think my girlfriend thinks all I want is sex and what not, but it's not. I really love her. How can I convince her that's not all I want?... (32 words)

The annoyance of my boyfriend's work is affecting him, even at home!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6715 days ago

3 July 2006 (F)

- Hey everyone, My boyfriend of 5 years is having troubles with a guy at his work. This is unfortuntely causing him immense frustration and as a result he is bringing it home and taking out his anger on me, but we have identified that that is what's happening and that he need... (341 words)

Parenting advice needed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6715 days ago

3 July 2006 (F) - Hi, I've had a prior questions about my bf working too much and breaking promises. Well, now I need some parenting advice. I have a 2 month old daughter who was a preemie and she gets a lot of colic. Can someone please tell me what I can use other than gas drops because they ... (57 words)

Is it me or is my penis too small?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5936 days ago

3 July 2006 (M) - I am 15 and my penis is about 5 and a half to 6 inches long when erect. I did not see a problem with this until a boy in my class was laughing at somebody else for only having a 6 inch when erect and the other lads al joined in during the day. the lad did not seem bothered but ... (138 words)