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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Girls - What you opinion on the best kissing techniques?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6727 days ago

20 July 2006 (M) - GIRLS In your opinion whats the best kissing technique, I no it differs but wat is yours personally?... (18 words)

I'm being told i'm pretty but unable to get a date. Help!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6728 days ago

20 July 2006 (M) - People think I'm good looking but won't ask me If I'd like to go out with them. What should i do?... (21 words)

He think's it black or white, either i change or we break up! But our problem aren't all down to me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6728 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I cannot seem to work out many of our issues or come to a compromise because we both think we haven't done anything wrong. I believe that his recent anger problem (mean tone of voice and insults and sarcasm) is hurting our relationship.. and he believes that ... (200 words)

How can I make my mum happy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6016 days ago

20 July 2006 (F)

- For the past years of my life, every summer holiday we have gone as a family, me, my parents and my two younger brothers, often taking our cousins, either my aunt and uncle with a young girl and a boy, or my auntie and uncle with two young boys. As you can imagine, these ho... (213 words)

I love being with her and she wants to be just friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6729 days ago

20 July 2006 (M) - my best friend is a girl, i really like her but she seems happy to be friends rather than taking it further i have neva had a g/f so hav no experince wot so ever and dnt really know what the feelings i get for her mean. i love spending time with her and feel sick wen im not ... (63 words)

My dad heard the sex talk I was having with my boyfriend on the phone

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - I'm a college student who hasn’t lived at home for 2 years and i’m back for the summer. I was on the phone with my boyfriend late at night that I recently went and visited and apparently my dad heard out entire conversation about sex and even heard him talking. I don’t know ... (78 words)

He said he loves the single life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6729 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - I have found myself very much attracted to someone a couple of years younger than me for quite a while and I have always felt there has been some chemistry between us. I have been very patient with him and tried not to make my feelings clear, but I have had the impressi... (177 words)

What do they do when checking for STI's?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6729 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - When a woman gets checked for STIs what's actually involved? ... (10 words)

I heard vasaline disintergrates condoms, and he has herpes

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6189 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - I had sex for the first time a few days ago and we used a condom. I had been advised to use lubrication but chose to ignore it, but when we started out i was in so much pain i ended up using the vasaline that i happened to have with me, which solved the problem. I have heard ... (221 words)

I lost my viriginity, I bled, I am sore, could this cause me any damage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6729 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - I lost my virginity last night and it bled a little bit both times i had sex (we did it twice), and was very painful at first then it was fine. The thing is i think i'm still bleeding now. Is this normal? Also, the second time we had sex we had both gotten very drunk and we w... (113 words)

I don't know if I have ever known true love, do you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6729 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - they say the course of true love never runs smoothly. I am 30 yrs old and dont know if I have never known it or have just dated guys who are f*** up. Is it me? do I not know what it is, I think I do, I have my parents as a great example. Are these troubles the course of true ... (134 words)

A guy who's 21 says he loves me and wants to spend his life with me... but I'm only 14!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6555 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - I am 14 and recently spoke to this guy who's 21 at an art gallery. We write each other letters and things and talk on the phone occasionally and on msn and things, although I never see him as he lives quite far away. The thing I'm worried about, well not worried but shocked ... (169 words)

Thinking about sex, or even contraception, makes me physically ill!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6725 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - Hi, I have this problem and I was hoping if you guys could help me out. I'm a 14 years old girl and afraid of sex. When I have sex education at school and we are disscusing the different types of contraceptives it makes me feel physically sick. Is that strange? I don't kn... (96 words)

Losing your virginity. Does it hurt much?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6578 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - Does it hurt losing your virginity? I read a book about it and it said it hurt a lot..... (19 words)

Is it normal that he gets turned on my porn, even when he's got me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6728 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - Please help me. Is it normal for your boyfriend to be turned on by a porn video or some other girl even when he has a girlfriend? Please help me xxx... (31 words)

My wife makes our family holidays a misery!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6718 days ago

20 July 2006 (M) - Whenever our family go on holiday my wife seems determined to spoil it for everyone. Last year she spent two days looking very annoyed, then, blew up at me for something trivial (the entrance fee to a waxworks would you believe, it wasn't even as if she was paying!). This s... (128 words)

What does it mean that my man wants to "think about things" but won't tell me what the Things are?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6729 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - I'm in a realtionship with someone I love very much. It got sexual pretty quick so that complicated things. Now he says he needs time to think about things but doesn't want to talk about them with me. What does that mean and what should I do?... (49 words)

Guys think I'm attractive, and I know I'm confident, but I just don't get any attention!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6728 days ago

20 July 2006 (F)

- Why don't I get attention? My friends say that I'm really pretty, but boys just don't think so. I'm not being big-headed here, but I'm quite pretty, I spend quite a bit of time on my appearance and I'm quite confident, but not too much. I've not got any huge disfigur... (94 words)

Just dumped by my first boyfriend. What do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6729 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - Hi, I am 15 and my boyfriend has just dumped me and I don't know what to do. I am really up set about it. He was my first boyfriend as well, so can any one help me? If you can, I will be very happy. ... (46 words)

We're supposed to move in together... so why won't he get the ball rolling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6729 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 20 months. We are planning to move to a new city to start our new life together in a couple of months. But he just doesn't seem bothered in starting our new life together. He said he is bothered but doesn't make any effort to house hunt, get ... (75 words)

How can i prove to my parents that don't need their help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6729 days ago

20 July 2006 (M)

- I hate myself sometimes because my parents are always helping me with my life. It can be alright sometimes but mostly especially now that I'm 18 it starts to annoy me. I'm doing the opposite or something different to what my parents want because I want to prove them wrong that ... (77 words)

How can i remain supportive without smothering her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6729 days ago

20 July 2006 (M) - Hello all, Im in a 4 month relationship with a woman, and we hit it off in so many areas. She has gone through some emotional struggles over the last year and has enjoyed and sought out my support which I have given willingly and lovingly. Now that she is on the road to... (274 words)

Looking for a new way to achieve solo pleasure.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6729 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - I'm 43/single...I'm not in a relationship with anyone...and I'm about pleasing myself..until I meet that right guy..i'm just curious as of...I know solo women finger themselves...I've tried and its just doesn't work..What am I doing wrong? I have toys, but I want to do ... (48 words)

My husband thinks i'm having it off with a Priest!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6726 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - My husband hates the fact I am friendly with our parish priest. He has gone into a rage cos he saw me talking to him in the town and accused me of sleeping with him. I like the priest as a friend and feel nothing towards him in a sexual way. In my head he's a priest first and a ... (145 words)

Are we just friends??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6728 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - Hey! Well theres this guy, lets call him Andy, and he moved into my class half way through the school year. at first he was really annoying and stupid but got to be friends with him. I ended up getting a crush on him, but theres this other girl that i know likes him to! She ... (225 words)

Dear Shania

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6729 days ago

20 July 2006 (M) - Dear Shania, I want ur advise, i have met through from a fantastic young lady who i have fallen deeply in love with, she is beautiful, intelligent, elegant and sophisticated. i know she is married with 2 wonderful children and she loves her family which i respect very much... (126 words)

Where can I explore sexual ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6729 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - Is there a site where you can explore ideas for sex?... (11 words)

What are women's favourite sexual positions?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

20 July 2006 (M) - What's a womens favourite position?? I know it depends on the girl but in general what is it. Like is there better positions for different moods i.e romantic evening = missionary!! that type of thing. And also with oral, finger included yes no??... (46 words)

Not quite a hoiliday romance!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6729 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - Ive just come back from a fantastic holiday and on the first week met a great guy, but he fell for my best mate and i ended up copping off with his friend. Any how they had a quick kiss but my best mate wasnt really interested and me and him clicked so well. He was only there ... (196 words)

Whats going on with my man, he never ever wants full sex!! Help!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6728 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - I met a man over a year ago now we are living together. When we first met he was way too excited that our relationship was not based just on sex but communication and trust. We had sex early in the beginning though. From what he tells me he has not had a serious relationship ... (647 words)

Hes behaving oddly about me moving in with him, and keeps changing the timeframe!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6729 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 4years, my boyfriend moved into his own property March this year. initially the plan was for me to move in after 6 months to allow hima chance to be independant. This apparent need for independance has not occurred as i'm there 4 nights a ... (211 words)

I really hate sex, but my husband wants it all the time, please help!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6727 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - i am 30+ and i have 3 boys 15,10,3 and my husband want sex all the time. i hate sex please help me.. at one time in my life i liked it but now i just dont want it and i will find anything to avoid it. and my husband gets very mad ... please please help me.... (58 words)

If I dont see him around, will this help me to get over him, and how long will it take ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6729 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - hi, i fancy this boy and simply cant get over him, he doesnt like me thats y im trying to get over him. now he has left school i am upset cos i will never see him again! will this help me get over him by not seeing him? if it will help then how long do u think it will ta... (74 words)

He says hes too tired for sex, but is he!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6729 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - ever since my boyfriend got this 3rd shift job, he says he's to tired for sex and he's never to tired for sex. what is going on with him?... (29 words)

I fancy my boyfriends mate!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6729 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - hi, iv'e been with my boyfriend for 4 years we have a 11 mounth old baby,the problem is i fancy his best mate and i think he fancys me.when i see him he always make eye contact and he sometimes stares right into my eyes,if i talk to him he seems to get shy but he's well abl... (109 words)

My dad was a paedophile... but has he changed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - My father is on the sex offenders register for something he did 11 years ago. As his victims were teenage girls, this affected our relationship immensely as i was growing up, as supervised contact had to be arranged between us, and although i knew he would never do anything to ... (354 words)

My boyfriend has a relationship with his ex's child.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6728 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - How do I handle this problem? I have been dating a man for almost 3 years. We just moved in together 8 months ago. The problem is that he has developed a reltionship with his ex's 8 year old daughter in the last 5 years and now considers her, his daughter. She visits every ... (215 words)

Does it still hurt after the 1st time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - I lost my virginity last night and everything was as i had expected (pain/blood etc). The thing is, what happens about your 2nd/3rd/4th time having sex? Is it normal to still bleed and does the pain ease up slowly or is it just the first time that hurts? I actually had sex ... (170 words)

Do I chase her or move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6729 days ago

20 July 2006 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 12 months. Previous to that we had been good frinds for years and new we would be together at some point. I also have a daughter from a previous relationship. My girlfriend cant excpept my daughter in my life and this has led to alot of ... (110 words)

What do girls look for in a guy?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6727 days ago

20 July 2006 (M) - Girls-what do you look for in guys, like hair, body, personality etc... (12 words)

It's been weeks and still can't get over her!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6690 days ago

20 July 2006 (M) - Hi, I went out with this girl a few years back, initially she seemed ok but over a period of time I started liking her more and more and eventually fell in love, but as soon as it was apparant I was in love with her she started turning away from me and wouldn't see me or pick... (436 words)

I can't deal with his past. Pleas help!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6729 days ago

20 July 2006 (F)

- I am thinking of splitting up with my boyfriend of a year because I can't get over the fact that he's slept with so many people before me, and one while we were seeing each other (but before we were an item). However, I really can't bring myself to do it! I had my first ... (192 words)

I cant *bare* the thought of him seeing other women naked.. please help!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6729 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - ihave been with my bf for 3yrs but over the last 6mths my jealousy has become worse. i hate the thought of him seeing any other woman naked. its ruining our relationship help!... (33 words)

How do I fall out of love and preserve our friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6729 days ago

20 July 2006 (M) - A few years ago while I was at college I met a girl who I became friends with. But after a while I went on to develop very strong feelings for her. The sort of feelings where you lay awake at night obsessing over someone. I ended up doing a lot worse than I could have done in ... (257 words)

Why did he manage to get over me so easily, when it appears I meant a great deal to him ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6729 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - Well, I broke up with my "boyfriend" over a month ago. And I'm still not over it. We'd been good friends for years and years, and he had liked me for this time as well. Eventually I got feelings for him, which he was really suprised but thrilled about. I kept telling him I wa... (502 words)

He masturbates to porn, that's cheating right? what do I do?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6717 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - I've recently discovered that my fiance is not only looking at Internet porn but masterbating to it. I can help but feel this is a form of cheating. It surprises me coming from him because this is very unexpected behavior for him. Do I confront him and let him know that I ... (61 words)

I kissed another girl more than once behind my girls back, she ditched me, how can I get her back ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6729 days ago

20 July 2006 (M) - i recently kissed another girl on two separate nights while out drinking.my gf found out.she was so angry and hurt and called it off.i really want to be with her, and she still has feelings for me, we meet up and she lets me try and make it up to her. but she still says that ... (102 words)

Found a list of massage parlours... How do I approach him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6729 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - I have been going out with my bf now for 2 years. Just the other day I found some porno mags under the bed while having a spring clean in my flat. He often stys over but I've never seen or known that he reads or looks at porn. I didn't find it a shock as most men look at ... (158 words)

We were very, very much in love but he's marrying someone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6724 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - I need a lot of help... I have been seeing a guy for 1.5yrs. We were very, very much in love with each other. Since I was going through a break-up when we first met, he had to convince me a lot to be with him and give him a chance. After about 6 months I totally gave into ... (369 words)

Can a partner really be confused about their feelings?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6719 days ago

20 July 2006 (M)

- SORRY THIS IN LONG. BUT I REALLY NEED HELP AND NEED TO MAKE ANY HELPERS UNDERSTAND IT ALL IN ORDER TO UNDERSTAND THEN ADVICE Can a partner really be undecided about their feelings? Can "I am confused" be true or does it always mean they have fallen out of love. Basical... (933 words)

Really scared he will cheat, I know its paranoia but how do I change ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6729 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - Me and my bf often quarrel these days because I am not sure if he likes someone and I think he is happy with his officemates rather than being with me and for that reason I always nag him.. I think He care for someone... He said to me I am always watching him in everything he ... (166 words)

We did somethings and now I don't know what to do or say around him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6729 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - i am going out with this lad who is 6 years older then me. i could say i love him but if i was to be honest i dont. i went out last night with one of my sisters mates just for a laght but my sister being older they where all older. we all got drunk and a tiny bit stoned but me ... (108 words)

She changed her phone number - is it because of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6730 days ago

20 July 2006 (M) - i need help about a month a go me and my girlfriend broke up we had been together for about a year. we knew each other since we were kids and then she moved away. A friend of mine was seeing her and through that became friends again. I fell in love with her right away and did ... (228 words)

Am I too rough? Will she still bleed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6730 days ago

20 July 2006 (M) - Me and my girlfriend recently started having sex, I am of average size (6 inches) and she does get very wet. We had sex for the first time and she bled, but a few days after, I was fooling around and I fingered her with more than I usually do, and a bit faster as well. I ... (145 words)

My man has almost cut me off completely!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6730 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - I have been seeing this great guy. Things were going fine. We talked every day and got along great until a few weeks ago. Now, I hardly ever get to talk to him. He sounds glad to hear from me when I call but I feel uncertain about what's going on. He calls me but not very ... (134 words)

I can't get over my ex and it's hurting my finacee

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6729 days ago

20 July 2006 (M) - Hi, I was going around with a women in my office and she broke up. Thnigs were going very smoothly in the beginning but in no more than 1.5 months, when i was completely involved, she broke up with me for al the wrong reasons Like, not spending time with her and everything,... (438 words)

He cheated on his girlfriend to be with me and now I have trust issues with him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6730 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am having a hard time trusting my boyfriend. In the beginning of the relationship he was in a long-term relationship that was not fulfilling, so after 3 months of seeing him, he broke it off with his ex to have a proper relationship with me. He was very hones... (199 words)

My hymen won't break!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - I'm a virgin and my bf and I tried to have sex for the first time. He couldn't get his penis in. He tried to use fingers first but they wouldn't go up more than about 2cm ... and it hurt badly! Am I abnormal? What should I do?... (51 words)

After months of texting he wants to meet me, but I am wary

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6730 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - I have been texting a guy for months now (he got my number from a mutual friend) and he is witty, charming, flirts with me and it is great! The trouble is I had a casual relationship going with one of his friends a few months ago and he brought this up during the one ... (160 words)

Is brother love ok?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6730 days ago

20 July 2006 (M) - I have this one friend and we are The best of best friends. And I love him, But I love him like a brother. Is this ok?... (27 words)

Sex hurts and I can't achieve orgasm

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6730 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - i am 20 years old and i have only engaged in sexual intercourse 2 times before i met my boyfriend.the 2 times before him i never went all the way through with it.now that were having sex it really hurts but its more uncomfortable than anything else. i feel like im doing ... (80 words)

He's not my type - will it work out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6729 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - Hey everyone, I have a question. I've met this really nice guy and our main interests are the same but there are big differences too. after having a difficult time with my last ex I thought I'd never move on but this new guy makes me laugh and is very sweet. He's not at all my ... (80 words)

My ex wants to cheat on his girlfriend... with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - Out of the blue my ex called and just wants to chat. We were together a long time....ten years and split two years ago.He has a girlfriend but tells me that he is unhappy in the relationship and says he will leave her when a current legal matter which is hanging over them both ... (179 words)