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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I didn't kiss him on our first date - is that why he is acting hot/cold around me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6700 days ago

17 July 2006 (F) - Hey! I know this is super long but I’d really appreciate your opinions if you read on. I'm having trouble with this guy that I really like. I work with him and he asked me out back in February but I had to go back up to school before we had a chance to go out. But the entire m... (640 words)

I'm 33, my GF left me, I went to a gay bar and let another man kiss and touch me! Am I gay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6701 days ago

17 July 2006 (M) - Hi I am a man of 33 since my girlfriend left me I have been drawn to gay men. I have also dreamed about them as well. I went to my first gay bar last week and got chatted up The guy touched me down there and I touched him back. He also kissed me and I kissed him back. Does ... (69 words)

My GF doesn't know about my female friend online. Should I risk a meeting with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6691 days ago

17 July 2006 (M) - Hi, I have been seeing my g/f for just over a year now. During that time I've been helping a girl on the internet with her problems, which my g/f doesn't know about. But the only problem is that the girl now wants to meet up with me and I want to meet her but I'm worried in c... (83 words)

I want to know what's really going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6701 days ago

17 July 2006 (M) - i've met this girl, and have known her for about half a year, and i really like her and know she fancies me, one night she kissed me and said she 'wanted to' (but we didnt), but then a couple of days later she said it didnt feel right, but whats puzzleing me is the fact that i ... (85 words)

Is there anything I could do to get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6701 days ago

17 July 2006 (F) - OK, so this is a long confusing story, but i'll just give the highlights. My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 2 years now and we couldn't be happier. However, I have two goy friends that I use to date, but we are only friends now. My best girl friend and those ... (287 words)

Does this mean I am gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

17 July 2006 (M) - hi i am a man of 33 since my girl friend left me. i have been drawn to gay men. and i have also dreamed about them as well. i went to my first gay bar last week and got chatted up. he touch me down there and i touched him back. also kissed me and i kissed him back. does this ... (68 words)

I do love him as a friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6701 days ago

17 July 2006 (F) - i have fallen out with all of my friends, its awful. the main reason that we have fallen out is that my best friend (male) who has a girlfriend told me he loved me and he now has finished with his girlfriend and we are now together. the problem is that he is 9 years older than ... (118 words)

I want to get over, but still remain in touch with my ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6701 days ago

17 July 2006 (F) - Can you really get over with being contact with your ex? I dont want to lose contact, as he does not want either, so he asked me to keep contact and never lost touch when we broke up 3 months ago, but I just found it was so hard to really move on since we keep emailing a... (160 words)

Am I out of line to ask him to cut contact with these women?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6700 days ago

17 July 2006 (F) - Why can't my boyfriend let go of his ex girlfriends? I am in a new relationship (less than two months) with a wonderful man. He's sweet, smart, and funny, and he treats me very well. My parents even like him. I have one huge problem. He still talks to two of his ex-girlfr... (420 words)

I am really confused, what did I do wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6701 days ago

17 July 2006 (F)

- Hi I am really so unlucky with the love bit. I met a new man and we have been texting each other and occasionally he has come to see me at my home. 2 weeks ago we spent a lovely weekend together (we never had sex) but it felt like we were so much closer. However, on the ... (361 words)

I am a virgin, he wants sex, and I don't know if he loves me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6700 days ago

17 July 2006 (F)

- I have been seeing my b/f for 4 months now and he has now started to talk a lot about sex and become a lot more physical towards me! He has never made me feel uncomfortable and i have only done anything that i wanted with him, but now it is coming to the crunch! I am a virgin ... (237 words)

Are these text messages saying that she is cheating on me? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6701 days ago

17 July 2006 (M) - Hi, I am in big crisis. I have been with my girlfriend for 16 months now. I'm 23 years old and so is she. I stayed over her house last night, and in the morning while she was taking a shower, I checked her text messages on her phone. Now I know what I did was wrong, what ... (170 words)

What does sperm taste like?

This question has 49 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

17 July 2006 (F)

- Can anyone tell me what sperm tastes like because me and this boy are planning on doing stuff but i dont know if i want him to *** in my mouth in case it tastes nasty. Can anyone help?... (39 words)

Can I fix his controlling ways?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6666 days ago

17 July 2006 (F) - I my boyfriend and I have been practically living together for the 4 months since we met. He and I spend nearly every non-work minute together. I love him. He says he loves me. He however is extremely jealous and paranoid and accuses me regularly of having someone on the ... (230 words)

A guy I like has a new girlfriend. How do I get over it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6694 days ago

17 July 2006 (F)

- I'm so upset. A boy I really like and have done things with just got a new girlfriend. What can I do to get over him?... (26 words)

Shall I tell him I love him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6701 days ago

17 July 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I recently met this guy, about a month ago. And I got to know him and he's a nice, decent and funny guy. He said he's never had experience with love before. He also shuns vulgar actions and behaviour from girls and guys as well. And, he's always looking for me a... (148 words)

What kind of relationship is this???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6701 days ago

17 July 2006 (M) - I've been going with a girl for around 2 months but we are not bf and gf as we're both just out of longterm relationships. As we both have hectic schedules we can only see eachother once a week or so I want to see her more while but she doesn't seem too bothered. When we meet ... (110 words)

Why does she hate sex with me?!?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6701 days ago

17 July 2006 (M) - my wife and i have been together for 12 years. we love each other very much so. she loves everthing about me, well almost. we love spending time together, cuddling, just everything we do we enjoy it both together. when it comes time to make love she hates it. we fight everytime ... (107 words)

What does she really want or is she just confussed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6701 days ago

17 July 2006 (M)

- My ex and I decided to be friends after our break-up. For her birthday I gave her a day of pamering at a really expensive day spa. We went out to dinner for two nights straight. We eventually made love unexpected to me because that wasn't what I was looking for but it ... (117 words)

What Should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6700 days ago

17 July 2006 (?) - I recently hooked up with someone I like a lot, although he is "talking" to someone else right now. My friend asked him what he was going to do between both of us and he replied "I dont know, I'm "in love" with both of these girls." After the hook-up he has been talking to me ... (204 words)

Should I talk to him or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6701 days ago

17 July 2006 (F) - Was seeing a guy for a week. He said he really wanted to have an exclusive relationship, he was really falling for me, etc. End of the week he calls me to say he is going back to his x-girlfriend. Totally blew me away. A week later he emails me asking me to forgive him, he ... (92 words)

My first time and he has a big penis....Any suggestions??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6253 days ago

17 July 2006 (F) - I'm 16 and my boyfriend is the most amazing person in the entire world i love him so much. We've been together on and off for the past 9 months or so, and the time has finally come for us to have sex. I'm not nervous at all as we know eachother inside out and i'm totally ... (153 words)

A condom fell out of his wallet, we don't use condoms!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6701 days ago

17 July 2006 (F) - You may remeber me from my previous question..... boyfriend on holiday in Ibiza- hasnt contacted me for 2 days- worried! Well after this initial lack of interest in m whilkst he was on hols he then rang me at least once a day. A continuation.............. OK he is now home... (99 words)

I just like my sex "vanilla" without all this messing around... Any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6701 days ago

17 July 2006 (F) - (age 20) Ok. I know it's all up to me. But anyway - I've previously gotten out of 2 long term/serious relationships (not at the same time obviously). Both guys I were with wanted me to perform oral sex on him and give the men hand jobs while I was with them. I felt ... (221 words)

I am in love and it isn't my boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6701 days ago

17 July 2006 (F) - I am 15 nearly 16. I am in love with a boy called Mr.X and has been my best friend for the past 11 years. I don't know what to do because I know he doesnt feel the same way at the moment. Also, there is my boyfriend. His name is Mr.Q. He isnt good looking, but I like him loads! ... (124 words)

I have to "until something happens", unless you know a way around

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6699 days ago

17 July 2006 (F) - I am a single mother of a 5 year old girl. I was very briefly with her father and he is now married with a child of his own. I am a recovering alcoholic (sober 7 years). Her father is also an admitted alcoholic and addict. He is drinking again. His wife recently was in ... (112 words)

Things that never bothered me really are irritating now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6701 days ago

17 July 2006 (F) - i am to marry my boyfriend of many years next year but recently things that never bothered me that much are now irritating me. What do i do?... (28 words)

It is just not right the way I treat but I want her back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6701 days ago

17 July 2006 (M) - Hi, I have a problem and need a solution quickly, my girlfriend of about 1year eight months has dumped and I want her back. problem lies with me, shes very disapponted in me, the way I treat her is just not right and shes been hearing a lot now about me and things i do behind ... (91 words)

He's lied constantly for the past 6 months should I still stay ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6701 days ago

17 July 2006 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 6 months. i knew he was married but he said they had separated. i got a phone call ffrom his wife saying that they were still together!!! me and my bf do everything together and i do love him dearly. but he has lied constantly for t... (81 words)

I lost my viginity to the wrong person, now I feel used!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6701 days ago

17 July 2006 (F) - Lost my virginity to the wrong guy! Hi i lost my virginity and im regretting it big time, i wanted to be like kinda special and be in a true deep relationship but i ended up loosing it to a guy who ive been out with b4, hes going out with someone at the time, and he slept wit... (104 words)

We're engaged, he flirts online, I flirt at work, we fight and I don't want to lose him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6695 days ago

17 July 2006 (?) - I am engaged to be married to a man in the military. It has only been a couple months since I last saw him, and already it seems that things have taken a turn for the worse. I fight with him on the phone constantly. I'm always accusing him of not caring about me, or say... (594 words)

My ex and I talk and see each other, but she says it might be *years* before we'll get back together...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6701 days ago

17 July 2006 (M) - So my girlfriend broke with me on May 31. We went out for 2 1/2 years. We would fight for no reason. And my outgoing personality made her jealous. We have kept communication open. We talk at least once a week, whether it's me calling or texting her, or her calling or texting.... (175 words)

My girlfriend thinks penises are gross and disgusting!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

17 July 2006 (M) - I have been dating my gf for over 3 years and we have a great relationship. I love her deeply and we are planning on getting engaged soon. We never really argue or fight about anything but if there was one thing that bothered me about us, would be the sexual side of things. W... (229 words)

My sister needs serious help before she does something real stupid! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6700 days ago

17 July 2006 (F) - Continuation, I have questioned before for help about my sister and her boyfriend breaking up after six years. This is a continuation of the story. Well for the past 2 years my sister has been working at a horse farm during the summer between university. Her now ex w... (382 words)

My Jamaican is involved with someone else. Could that be why I'm seeing such a change in the way he treats me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6701 days ago

17 July 2006 (F) - I am in love with a man of Jamaican descent. He and I began as friends because we are both into some of the same things. I knew all along that there was a physical attraction almost immediately. I also knew that he was involved already and for that reason at first I declined ... (181 words)

If I don't fantasise about girls much any more, could it be a sign I'm going gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6701 days ago

17 July 2006 (M) - I'm 16 years old and have been out of school for the summer for about a month and I'm stuck at home all day with no contact with my friends or girls. Ever since I can remember I've fantasized about girls and have had girlfriends in the past. But now since I've been out of s... (114 words)

His friends don't like me, and it feels weird knowing that!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6702 days ago

17 July 2006 (F) - I'm a teenager I just moved into a new house in a different state and own a Farm. Well about a month after we moved in, we met this new neighbor and one was my age. I found out he liked me but as the year went on I never liked him and finally after 8 months of him liking me ... (134 words)

He says he loves me all the time, but I just don't believe it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6702 days ago

17 July 2006 (F)

- My boyfriend of a few months says he loves me, but I don't feel like he loves me. He tells me this all the time, but at the same time he still talks about his exes and how better they were at certain things than me. I kinda feel like he just loves the idea of a gf rather t... (137 words)

What do I do? I've met a guy I really have a lot in common with!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6702 days ago

17 July 2006 (F) - I'm going back to school in a month and I met a guy who is going to be in my grade and new on a website. We have so much in common that it's really freaky. We both like to read, country music, and etc. I need help or advice.... (50 words)

At 50 years old-do I find a f**kbuddy or just accept, that she won't give me sex, regularily?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6701 days ago

17 July 2006 (M)

- I have a problem I am almost 50 Years of age and I am living with a woman that I cannot seem to get aroused. On the rare occasions we have sex she is almost frigid. Her sex drive is very low. She never asks or even implies that she would like sexual contact. I am feeling rat... (144 words)

I'm 11 years older than him! How do I get past this age thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6701 days ago

17 July 2006 (F) - i started dating a guy 3 months ago and i have never been happier until i found out he has a problem with our age difference somewhat. he is 11 yrs younger than myself. he says he cares about me and when he looks at me i see the sparkle in his eyes is the same as mine. my ... (84 words)

I talked to my GF rudely, now she doesn't want anything to do with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6701 days ago

17 July 2006 (M) - Hi there, to be very much straight forward, i had a girlfriend, then one day I talked with her very rudely and after some hard talk all we got is break up. Then after a month i tried to contact her but she didn't answer my call and didn't respond to my attempts to cont... (139 words)

He complains about not spending time with me-yet, recently, he excluded me and I got angry!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6701 days ago

17 July 2006 (F) - My boyfriend John, and I live together. We have been having problems because of finances, and other things. He tried to be with me wherever I am. I feel smothered. We talked about this and he has been giving me my space. When we have problems he turns to my sisters. I feel that ... (255 words)

I have a hugh crush on a 14 year old celebrity!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6702 days ago

17 July 2006 (F) - What do you do when you have a huge crush on a celebrity, and you can't stop thinking about them? I'm 13 and he's almost 14.... (26 words)