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writes: I was reading some information on another website, i forget the name of it, and there was this article on it about dry sex aka dry humping. Anyway, it was written by a male and it addressed this sexual act from the male perspective and he went on to say that men don't get much pleasure, if any from this act. That fact is that sometimes it is almost more painful than pleasurable. My boyfriend and I do this quite often when we get caught up in making out, now you see we both seem to enjoy it, so I guess I'm confused by what this article said about how males dont really recieve pleasure? or is it that my boyfriend (who's rather shy) is simply not saying anything in order to avoid awkwardness between us or making me feel bad? So if anyone, especially the male popularity, could answer this or share their thoughts on this confusion....that would be much appreciatedsincerely,one confused and concerned woman
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2006): Haha, thanks Wendy :P
Well.. the author of whoever wrote that is most certainly wrong!
Tis a form of foreplay and general playfulness I always thought men liked it more than women! Just goes to show as a reminder that things we read and hear from people are personal opinion or experience, and not fact! ;)
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (11 July 2006):
 Pete, its a form a of sexual contact, but with your clothes on..... here is the official definition is as follows..
In the context of human sexual behavior, frottage or frotteurism is the act of achieving sexual gratification by rubbing one's (clothed or naked) body against another person. Frotteurism carries a connotation of "anonymous and discreet rubbing" in a public place—e.g. on a crowded train. The contact may be mutual or a one-way perpetration. A person who practices frotteurism is known as a frotteur. ...
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2006): Dr Peteit appears that "dry humping" or "frottage" is the sexual act of rubbing. fully clothed sexual encounters etc I think this may be painful to some males as it doesnt give them the sexual release they may require, however, it shouldnt be taken that all men find this painful, some men find it pleasurable to show affection in this manner. If in doubt, ask your man.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2006): What is dry humping... dare I ask? :/
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (11 July 2006):
Dont believe everything you read, we all have a different view point and all have something different that makes us tick. The only person that can answer this question is your boyfriend. From what you say he must like it as you two are doing it! We very seldom do something that we dont want to do! Maybe ask him a subtle way and see what he says,whats right for one is always right for another.
Take care x x
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (11 July 2006):
 This is the sort of question that you're really better off asking your boyfriend.
The person who wrote the article can't hope to speak for every man on the planet, and was probably just stating his own preferences.
It might be that your boyfriend's attitude or approach is different. So, if you're confused between the two, I'd vote for asking your boyfriend, as compared with assuming an article is always right.
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reader, hannieseds  +, writes (11 July 2006):
 Hey girl,
Welcome to the age of the internet! People can post anything and everything from cold, hard facts backed up by research to unsupported opinions. That, my friend, is what you have read and taken to heart. One mere males OPINION among the billions in the world. He obviously doesn't like 'dry-humping' and has written his blog in a way that means to confuse woman by stating that ALL males don't really like this, which is, of course, as far from the truth as can be.
I know you wanted a male perspective, but I couldn't not write something, as I get really annoyed/worried/pissed off that people take so much to heart from what they read. Shit, that doesn't sound very good does it, I'm not meaning at all to take a stab at you love, just that there is so much bullshit information out there that young people just simply don't know what's true/what's not/what is just opinion etc.
Your boyfriend obviously does like it if you do it quite often! So don't go worrying yourself about some random, internet mans opinion on something he obviously doesn't like himself. Don't believe everything you read. If you enjoy it and your BF obviously does, then don't question it! If he didn't like it, I'm sure he would either tell you or show you something different he would prefer instead. xxx
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