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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My partner's surprise announcement has left me reeling!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6719 days ago

30 July 2006 (M) - My partner of five years has recently told me that about 10 years ago she was seriously sexually assaulted. She has recently decided to prosecute the man concerned and has been in touch with the police. She tells me that one of the reasons for leaving it so long to take action ... (128 words)

We never spoke, but I'm sure there was love between us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6718 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - Hi guys, I need help with this one. I'm 14 years old and last year I saw this guy who was in sixth form. The big problem is, is that I love him and I think he loves me too, but we have never spoken! I know it must sound stupid that I love him because I have never spoken t... (145 words)

My husband thinks my vagina should be "like a virgin"...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6474 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - I have a husband. We married in 2004, but now he doesn't want sex with me because he want me like a virgin.p /> He wants my vagina should be too small. I don't know what to do to make small my vagina.... (43 words)

How can I miss her if she won't go away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6718 days ago

30 July 2006 (M) - How do I tell my girlfriend that being together ALL the time may not be such a healthy thing? Not counting work, I can't be away from her for more than a few hours. She gets very upset and starts asking "Why don't you want to be with me?" or "Why do you want to be apart?". I ... (97 words)

Gay? Bi? Strajght? Confused? I just don't know what I am...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6719 days ago

30 July 2006 (M)

- Hi I'm 15 and confused. When I masturbate I used to always think about men and boys. Now it's men and women. I like looking at men, as well as women but I want to have sex with females and get married to a woman and have children. Am I gay, bi or straight?... (54 words)

She comes home from work drunk, and she's cheated on me numerous times! Should I stay or go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6719 days ago

30 July 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years. Last summer she got a new job at a bar, hoping to make some extra money. The problems in our relationship started there. She would come home drunk almost every night of the week. At first, I thought she was just ... (154 words)

He gets what he wants, then he's a total stranger. Are we just together for sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6718 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - Hi Lately every time I sleep with my guy, afterwards he acts like a total stranger. Then he never seems to want to hook up with me for ages afterwards. It's starting to depress me. It makes me feel cheap. Does this mean he only wants me for sex?... (50 words)

I need to hide a hickey from my parents, so they don't know where I've been!

This question has 35 answers - newest was posted 4059 days ago

30 July 2006 (?) - hi... I really need help and fast. I spent the weekend with my boyfriend. My parents don't know about it and if they had ever found out that I would be in so much trouble. I got away with them not finding out that I was with him. The only thing that could keep me from getting ... (107 words)

I really want to be friends with my social group's new addition, but she treats me like I'm an old lady!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6717 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - I have a small group of very good friends, who I have a very strong bond with. We have been friends for years, and we are actually more like family to each other. We also have a wide circle of other friends, who we mix with either together or separately. If one of us introduc... (781 words)

We were long-distance for a year, but I could bear it. Now he's taken another year without discussing it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6719 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship for a year and had planned to be living together in November. We were best friends for 3 years but only spent 8 months as a couple before we were separated. He is now in South America and I am in the UK. The ye... (174 words)

Can't say anything to my friend about my attraction to her... Or can I?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6708 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - I am absolutely crazy about my friend. Don't want to lose her so can't tell her. She has told me so many times that people have mistaken her for a lesbian. She has had a few relationships with men, which she says she was never happy in, or in love with any of them. I feel ... (96 words)

Period's different after sex. What does it mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6719 days ago

30 July 2006 (F)

- My boyfriend and I had sex a week and a day ago, we used Durex Extra Safe (thicker and with spermicide so I've heard), we both checked throughout to see that it stayed on, and after, he took it off well away from me. I started my period today (in the last few hours), but it l... (123 words)

Things look hopeful between us... I think!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6719 days ago

30 July 2006 (M) - Hello, OK this is my story. Been in a very good relationship for 6 years. One month ago my girlfriend asked for space as she thinks she may want to see other people, but is not sure and she does not want to cheat. That was about 5 weeks ago, so I didn’t contact at all u... (232 words)

I want my ex-girlfriend to trust me again, so we can get back to what we had!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6719 days ago

30 July 2006 (M) - Sorry to bother you and I understand if you may not have time to reply to me, but I'm really desperate and needing some guidance. Basically, me and my gf have been together for 8 months. We had a very intense passionate relationship, and fell in love quickly. We had our ups a... (1101 words)

She offered to be "just friends"; I suggested we start over completely. Can we get back to BF/GF?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6719 days ago

30 July 2006 (M) - My girlfiiend of two months broke up with me a week ago. Since then I've been crushed. Up until the last week of our relationship, everything seemed to be going fine, if not somewhat torrid. The last week, I knew something was wrong, but I didn't think we were going to split... (267 words)

How can I really stand out, he went from being really into me then all wierd!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6718 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - I don't understand what happened, but he seemed like he liked me lots and l liked him. We were together almost a month. Then he went away for a weekend came back and it was all weird, he said he was really busy working etc and we couldn't get together. So I don't know if he ... (190 words)

My parents are confusing me, but I have the right to privacy dont I ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6719 days ago

30 July 2006 (M) - My parents confuse me because they talk about marriage in the future and say 'It's not worth getting married' or 'People don't bother getting married these days, i wouldn't bother' and things like that. Yet they hint about sex, and say that thats not worth it too, and that you ... (157 words)

We had sex which was great, but when she was on top it hurt her, anyone know this could happen ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6717 days ago

30 July 2006 (M) - Hey, me and my girlfriend have had sex 3 times now...the first time it hurt her, but after that it was awesome...on the third time we tried to try something new, instead of me being ontop she wanted to try being on top, but once she was on top, and i insterted my penis, she ... (83 words)

He said im a tease and asked for sex, im not ready as im not sure if I've mistaken friendship for love

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

30 July 2006 (F)

- Sorry, so long... I have been seeing my boyfriend for four months now(Friends for 2 yrs in col before got together) and we are extremely compatible in many ways, except he has slightly different interests to me when it comes to careers, as i am a country girl on the farm and ... (361 words)

Was I right to forgive him so easily ? I cant now get the image of his cheating out of my head!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6716 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - Please help. My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years, and have had our ups and downs like most couples do......... Lately a lot of things have come out into the open as he has had a tendency to bottle things up and try to handle them on his own,(long story) ... (245 words)

Im having an affair with a younger guy for 3 months, not sure if he wants something more permanent ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6719 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - i'm having a affair with a guy slighty younger than me,neither of us are married but live with our partners,my relationship is on the rocks not to sure about his.only if he was happy at home whats he doing out with me.he's started asking me what i'm like at cooking and other ... (145 words)

We are both from different backgrounds but like each other alot, should I though just stick with his friendship ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6719 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - I am absolutely infatuated with my “friend” and him with me. We met while I was working abroad (for six months) and quickly formed a friendship. Three months later, we began to date, knowing too well that my time overseas was limited. Four weeks ago, after many tears shed on ... (281 words)

Im in love with a married man, I know hes unhappy with his wife, but people are telling me to stay away!!

This question has 50 answers - newest was posted 4792 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - I'm in love with a married man. I've had so many ppl tell me to stay away from him..that he will never leave his wife. But he is so unhappy with her. He only married her because he thought that was what was right for their child. They do NOT love eachother. He told me the other ... (101 words)

How do I stop myself from checking up on my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6719 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a bit now and at the moment he is on a trip away with his friends in amsterdam. he is a really good guy and i dont think he'd ever cheat on me cuz he has good morals and he told me he wouldnt. Its just that i find it hard to trust men ... (184 words)

She no longer wants to have sex and won't tell me why

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6716 days ago

30 July 2006 (M) - Recently my girlfriend of 1 year has decided she no longer wishes for us to have sex. She will not give me a reason, and when i ask her why she does not want to she says, i dont know. I can deal with waiting for a bit because i love her dearly, but when i ask if we will ever be ... (151 words)

Please tell me how to forgive a cad who has cheated on me three times

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6719 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - ive been with the father of my child for three years 3 days ago i found out he cheated on me with a girl who is under age he slept with her twice we were trying to deal with it and i asked him have you ever cheated on me before and he said no then he waited tell he got to work ... (140 words)

My husband isn't man enough to leave me, so should I leave HIM?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6718 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - What shoud I do? I have been married for 10 years with 2 young children. Last summer my husband told me he loved me but he wasn't in love with me anymore. I told him that love changes, but he doesn't want to listen. We have stopped having sex because he says he doesn't want ... (122 words)

I'm having gay fantasies; what does this mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6716 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - I am definitely sure that i am straight! but sometimes i have dreams of doing sexual things with other girls (some i know, some i don't). Is this normal even when you're straight? I was thinking, maybe it's because me and some of my friends always joke around. Well, mostly 1 of ... (88 words)

His wandering eyes beat up my self-esteem but he denies doing it

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6718 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - My partner has a sneaky way of ogling women. I have tried lots of approaches to get him to a) admit it and b) stop it. When he is ogling I smile knowingly looking closely at him or obviously stare where he is staring, even though I'm cringing inside at him doing this. I might ... (565 words)

I'm paranoid and jealous because he ignored me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6720 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - I have recently started a relationship with a guy i have liked for years and i love been with him but he always cancels our plans and he is know as a whore but i believe him when he says hes not but he is a big flirt and 2nite at a gig he ignored me most the night and i'm pure ... (91 words)

Do I walk away or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6720 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - i have been with my partner for 6and a bit years now and we have a beautiful little boy (nearly two years old). the problem is that i no longer feel anything for him - no matter how hard i want to or try to. we are in the middle of buying our first house together and i k... (139 words)

I couldn't get it up...Whats wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6719 days ago

30 July 2006 (M) - Hey im going to keep this short as i find it embarasing... I was out with my girlfriend last night, and we decided to have sex (were both 19) Im still a virgin, but shes not. Though at the time i could not get it up! My penis would not become errect! I dont know why t... (168 words)

I think I want to cut off contact with ex even though I'm still in "love" with her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6719 days ago

30 July 2006 (M) - Hi, exactly 2 months ago me and my girlfriend of 5 months split up. She said she "doesnt feel the same anymore, and we werent right together" we were both 19 by the way... Im still not over her to this day, and still think about her all the time, but obviously not told... (246 words)