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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I get this ex bf out of my life? I just want my life back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6693 days ago

24 July 2006 (F) - i have split up with my ex now seriously twice! every night he made me cry...!! last time we split he left me for some silly reason and i had enough!! so i didnt go crawling back like i always did!!! he phoned me texted me emailed and kept showin up with abuse. this time its ... (145 words)

Shall I ask him out or shall I wait? What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6075 days ago

24 July 2006 (F)

- hiya im really confused at the moment i really love this boy and i said i did to loads of people and 4 5 months ive liked him but the problem is this girl said i was not good enough for him but apparently to my m8 he said i was to good 4 him but i dont no if my m8s tellin the ... (128 words)

My husband had an emotional affair, so what is missing in our relationship?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6212 days ago

24 July 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been married for nearly 14 years to my husband. We have had the normal ups and downs, but we have made it through stronger than ever. Several months ago my husband had an emotional affair. I was absolutely devastated. My heart was shattered and feelings... (137 words)

My mum thinks this guy only wants me for sex, but I'm sure he doesn't!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6694 days ago

24 July 2006 (F) - Hi, I'm feeling really confused at the moment. I've liked this boy for over a year, but I've never spoken to him and we met on the streets. I was chuffed when he asked me for my digits today. Problem is, he's 22 and I'm much younger then him, and my mom sees him about and she ... (146 words)

My BF cheated on me with my friend! I'm angry and confused...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6694 days ago

24 July 2006 (F) - I have always been against serious relationships because I always seem to get hurt. Well about a year and a half ago I was introduced to this boy and of course I didn't want a serious relationship and he did. We struggled for about 6 months and I finally realized I loved hi... (397 words)

Fallen in love with my boyfriend's best friend... and fallen out of love with my boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6694 days ago

24 July 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for two years but for the last year I have fallen out of love with him... completely. I have however fallen completely in love with his bestfriend, neither of them know anything, if I can't have him then I will never be happy. I also live with my ... (85 words)

He keeps saying nothing's going on, but my boyfriend spends too much time with his female snowboarding friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6694 days ago

24 July 2006 (F) - Am I being paranoid? I'll try and keep this one as short as possible, but basically you handbaggers give good advice, so thought I'd see whether you guys thought I was being paranoid or possessive. I'll quickly tell you the background. Basically the boyf. is really in... (537 words)

I want to wait until my married lover's relationship breaks up naturally...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6694 days ago

24 July 2006 (M) - Iv'e been seeing a married women for 6 months. It ended 2 months ago, the phyical side of it, but we have remained friends. I love her with everything I have but am I fool for waiting until her marrige breaks up by itself?... (44 words)

I want to be with my new boyfriend; I'm just not sure I love him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6694 days ago

24 July 2006 (F) - I know this is long but thanks for taking your time if you read this: Okay maybe I have been wording it wrong on here when I ask for advice but it seems like people are misreading it, so I will try to make it more understandable. sorry. I have been with my boyfriend for a ... (451 words)

Do straight me like to watch gay porn ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6693 days ago

24 July 2006 (F) - Do straight men watch gay porn?. What if it was more than curiosity and he was aroused by it. I've put it down to him exploring his sexuality. Am I being naive? ... (37 words)

I just dont enjoy sex with my boyfriend anymore, its affecting us what can I do ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6693 days ago

24 July 2006 (F) - I dont enjoy sex with my boyfriend anymore. i use to but after we moved in together it has just gotten worse and worse. now of course he is is complaining bu as much as a try it just is not the same. i dont feel cormfortable anymore. what can i do to help?... (54 words)

This guy says hes intriqued about me.. what does that mean ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6694 days ago

24 July 2006 (F) - what does a guy mean when he says he finds you intriguing and wants to learn everything about you, and says he thinks about you too much, when we're supposed to just be friends having sex? these were his rules and not to mention i dont see him in a boyfriend way, but every time ... (80 words)

My boyfriend seems to be somewhere else when I go see him, said he would change as he loves me but hasnt, im confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6694 days ago

24 July 2006 (F) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for just under 2 years and throughout the relationship we have had our ups and downs but lately i've felt so ignored by him whenever i go to see him, like he doesn't want me there. i confronted him about it on monday and he said that he knows ... (159 words)

He didnt give me the change from the car parts he got, then said he forget I think its stealing he says not!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6694 days ago

24 July 2006 (F) - I have been dating a guy and he has been staying at my house off and on. The situation is that I gave $100 to get some parts for my car(they ended up costing $40). He claims he "forgot to give me my change and was holding on to it, but yet he spent it. Now had he asked I would ... (105 words)

I joined summer school thinking they would be the same age but they are not, how can get through this week!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6694 days ago

24 July 2006 (F)

- I recently went to a summer school for acting, singing and dancing. Three things which I really love. I was promised that there would be people there that were about my age, and I had hoped that I would find someone to flirt with! However, now I'm there, everyone is much you... (96 words)

How can someone that likes you ALOT suddenly move on to someone else ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6694 days ago

24 July 2006 (F) - This is not really a question. I just feel sad and disappointed that the man I've been dating since February (a month of emails, some phone calls because I was in the U.K. then, before we met in early April) just broke up with me. He lives long distance, but we had been meet... (480 words)

What made him ask the question, "How would I manage if I left" ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6694 days ago

24 July 2006 (?) - Am I being too over analytical? I'm a female and jn a relationship..things have been going well. My bf and I have been together for 3 years. The past year we have lived together. I own a lovely home, I work and of course he helps me pay the bills, which has been a load of ... (245 words)

Info on buying a house in Ireland please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6694 days ago

24 July 2006 (F) - Hi.. Question for people living in Ireland... I need some information, please. What does it take for one to buy a house in Ireland? If I had to buy a 2/3 bedroom house, how much downpayment will be required and what will the the monthly mortgage payment be like? Also, is ... (178 words)

Never thought I'd look at another guy but this married guy makes me feel sexy and alive! What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6693 days ago

24 July 2006 (F) - I am a 32 year old women. I have been with my husband for 14 years, 7 years non married 7 years married. My problem is that I have recently met another guy who is also married. Nothing has happened between us yet except for a snog but it is quite obvious that we really do ... (239 words)

My partner seems to resent my teen age son-how do I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6694 days ago

24 July 2006 (?) - Tell me what you think? I am female, mid 40's. My son is 15 and has a learner's license to drive. We have 2 vehicles, a car and a older van. The past few days, I have started taking my son out practise driving. My partner has said, my son is not allowed to practise driving, in ... (411 words)

We were going to get married, but then while on holiday he was getting messages from another woman! We talked it through but hes now not sure about me!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6694 days ago

24 July 2006 (F) - I had been with my man for 3 and a half years. A year ago he asked me to marry him, it was the happiest day of my life. He was always telling me how much he loved me and how beautiful I was. The last year we have had to live apart because of our jobs, things have been hard ... (306 words)

Im very concerned over his meeting with his soon to be ex wife, she already tempted him once!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6694 days ago

24 July 2006 (F)

- Several months ago my boyfriend left a long and abusive marriage to move from the USA to be with me. We met up last summer and although I had a boyfriend, we emailed and gave up our relationships to be together. His wife, who is much more beautiful than me is now coming ov... (306 words)

I was not paying attention to her and she left. Now I miss her-how do I get her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6694 days ago

24 July 2006 (M) - we have been in a relationship for three years now. changed jobs together, we still are working together. two months ago she broke up with me saying "the feeling is lost and i dont feel the way i did for you anymore" she said she wanted to be by herself however started seeing a... (249 words)

Both my friend and my boyfriend feel that each other is a threat, which one should be the most important ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6694 days ago

24 July 2006 (F)

- i think my friend is threatend by my boy friend and my boy friend is threatend by my friend i awlways feel myself having so choose between them it really difficult , and i dont know which one is more important... which one should be the most important in my life ? ... (56 words)

Im pregnant, but I dont want this baby, how can I go about getting a termination ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6475 days ago

24 July 2006 (F) - I'm 17 and I'm pregnant. I don't want a baby but i don't know how to get rid of it. I can't go to a hospital coz someone might find out. What should i do? I need an abortion.... (39 words)

Why didnt he tell me the truth, he ditched me anyway but lied, now its hard for me to move on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6694 days ago

24 July 2006 (F) - Hello, i posted on here a few months ago about a , now ex, and how things went wrong. I did care and love him but i realise he just didnt have the same feelings as myself. Its been hard to accept,but somedays arent as bad as others. He always said there was no-one else,bu... (165 words)

The manager of our soccer team doesnt like me and its really upsetting!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6694 days ago

24 July 2006 (F) - hi, im really depressed at the minute. i play for a soccer team our manager doesnt like me. i want to move teams but i dont want to leave my friends behind ill miss them. i am very under rated becos he doesnt like me and its really annoyin he has his favourites. what should i ... (62 words)

They argue and in the past, I've stood up for both of them. Now they're both mad at me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6694 days ago

24 July 2006 (F)

- My sister and her boyfriend have been together for a year and their relationship has always been crap - they always argue and moan at each other. My sister can sometimes be a real bitch to him and when Im with them I tend to stand up for him as I feel sorry for him But when I ... (367 words)

She doesn't even know I exist-how do I forget about her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6694 days ago

24 July 2006 (M) - hi, i do not know if this will get posted, but if it does heres my question or problem. i seem to like this person that does not even know that i exist, i have tried to forget about her but i cant and i do not know what to do, as i have asked her out and got turned down, plz... (84 words)

I had a bad experience and not sure if he did have sex with me, is there a way I can tell if im still a virgin ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

24 July 2006 (F) - About one year ago I was drinking and a guy made a move on me. Having no second thoughts at the time i went with it. One thing lead to another and he ended up stripping me and himself down and throwing me onto the bed. From there i know i told him i didnt want to have sex. He ... (159 words)

Should I try or relationship or fix the friendship ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6695 days ago

24 July 2006 (F) - Im a 17 year old girl and one of my best guy friends for about 2 years told me he has feeling for me about 2 months ago. I tryed to go on with our friendship but when he stopped calling and started acting different i finally told him that i liked him too, hoping we would be ... (124 words)

Hes giving out mixed signals, does it mean that he does like me ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6694 days ago

24 July 2006 (F)

- Well theres this guy i have liked for about 4 months now he knows i like him and in the past said he has fancied me too. I asked him out but he said no not at the moment i want to meet up more. I keep trying to make arrangements to meet but he doesnt seem to interest... (145 words)

Is he happy at home ? If he loved her surely he wouldnt behave this way ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6694 days ago

24 July 2006 (F) - ok i know this is wrong,i've this guy he's 9 years younger than me.he's caring loving and i have never been traeted thsi way before so its kind of strange.The thing is i'm single,he's not married but lives with his partner of 10 years,he has 2 small children,but he has told me ... (109 words)

I tells me Im boring, and when it comes to sex he tells me I should buy sexier underwear!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6685 days ago

24 July 2006 (F) - I have been married for 10 years my husband is close to 40 years of age, we have 3 kids, of late he has shut me out, tells me i am boring, i must wake up and smell the coffee, when it comes to sex and ask whats wrong i get told i should buy sexier underwear,and i must adjust to ... (76 words)

In a relationship for two years, and now I can't stop thinking of someone else...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6695 days ago

24 July 2006 (F) - What do you do when you've been in a relationship for over two years, yet you suddenly find someone else who you're so incredibly attracted to, that you can't hardly keep yourself away? Does it necessarily mean that I should break up with my current? Does it mean that I ... (87 words)

I take the Pill but not regularly at the same time. Am I still protected?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6695 days ago

24 July 2006 (F) - Me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex a few days ago. He pulled out before he came but I'm wondering if I could be pregnant. I am on birth control (diane35 for skin issues) but I don't always take it at the same time every day due to a very busy schedule. Will this have an ... (65 words)

I just had sex for the first time and I can't be sure we put things in the right places!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6695 days ago

24 July 2006 (F) - This is going to sound incredibly stupid, but here it goes. I had sex for the first time, and am not sure if we did it right. I think he put it in the right hole, but I'm confused. I'm too embarrassed to ask anyone, so can someone explain where he was supposed to be? Like it ... (79 words)

He doesn't know I'm gay, but he flirts with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6695 days ago

24 July 2006 (M) - Hey...I'm a 17 year old high school student. I'm gay and have fallen in love with a close friend. I had feelings for him even before we became friends. He does not know I am gay. He flirts with me non-stop and I am almost positive he has feelings for me. How do I approach this ... (57 words)

If I feel bad about dumping my boyfriend, does it mean that I love him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6448 days ago

24 July 2006 (F) - I need advice from people that are actually married or know different girls who sometimes felt like they loved their boyfriends and sometimes didn't but then after awhile that feeling went away and they were in love and were happy because some girl told me i'm only feeling like ... (151 words)

He wants a threesome but what if it's the ONLY kind of sex he wants?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6695 days ago

24 July 2006 (F) - i dated this guy for 2 years when i was 13 and then we lost contact. were in our mid 20's and were back together after 10 years of being apart. our relationship is great and I'm in love with him. were talking about marriage and i know hes the "one". Our sex life is amazaing... (170 words)

I can't change his past but I want to!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6695 days ago

24 July 2006 (F) - Hi, i am 16 and i am in a serious relationship, we've been together for a year and five months. I'm having a lot of problems with his past and i dont know how to stop thinking about it. No matter what i do i think about who all he's been with and everything they did, and to be ... (146 words)

So traumatized by my failure that I am throwing up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6695 days ago

24 July 2006 (M) - Dear Cupid, Recently my girlfrien and I decied to take some space after I failed to meet a dealine as to when we were going to be engaged. It was recomended that we take some space by a couples therapist. Yet, after I moved out she told me she wanted to take a "brake" ... (176 words)

NYC, LA, SF, which one is better to meet single men?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6693 days ago

24 July 2006 (F) - NYC, LA, SF, which one is better to meet single males and raise a relationship? After graduation, I want to explore a city with career and life.Knowing that Mr. Right could be available anywhere, but just want to know the differences between NYC, LA and SF. What are the dif... (64 words)

What STDs can be screened via blood test only?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6694 days ago

24 July 2006 (F) - I know AIDS is one of them but what can you get tested for just by blood tests? because at one place i am only getting done what ever they can do by blood tests and the other place whatever i didn't get done.... (44 words)