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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We seem to find each other when we need each other, but he tells me "Not now"!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6696 days ago

22 July 2006 (F) - I've had this weird relationship with this guy for several years. We come together at crucial/difficult times in our lives almost instinctually, spend time together (sometimes romantically even if one or both of us are seeing someone else) and then lose communication for months ... (88 words)

I care about him, but he's getting married. Should I get a gift..?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6695 days ago

22 July 2006 (F) - A guy I care about told me he was getting married. Should I give him a thankyou/goodbye gift, or just a card or just wish him luck?... (27 words)

I love my guy and want him to be happy... even if he's actually gay

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6695 days ago

22 July 2006 (F) - I have been living with my partner for two years now and although we have a great relationship I have started to suspect he may be gay. There aren't any of the usual signs - exactly the opposite, and although our sex life has taken a bit of a dive I had put this down to str... (279 words)

It's the best relationship and the worst relationship! Should I hold on or break up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6695 days ago

22 July 2006 (F) - Should I break up with my boyfriend?? I've been dating my boyfriend for about a year now and things have been really good and really bad all at the same time. You see, I'm 17 and he just turned 23. My family doesn't approve of the relationship at all. They have m... (458 words)

Why would my boyfriend tell me he thinks he's gay, then sleep with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6688 days ago

22 July 2006 (F) - I have quite a difficult situation on my hands. My long-term boyfriend and I have just signed a lease together, and things seemed to be going fantastically until two weeks after we moved in. He dropped a bomb by telling me that he thinks he may be gay. I've dealt with it and a... (215 words)

Seeing this great woman for 2 months but there's one problem---she smells! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6695 days ago

22 July 2006 (M) - Hi, I have been seeing this woman for the last two months. Things are pretty intense at the moment, so there is a lot of intimacy. Problem is, she smells. Any suggestions?... (35 words)

What can I do, to make my parents trust me again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

22 July 2006 (F) - I have a really big problem with my parents and I want to get their trust back. I am 17 years old and have recently been going drinking in pubs, bars and clubs. I lied about it and they found out now they don't trust me anymore and don't believe a word I say and I am really ... (73 words)

Now that he's finally asked me out I am freaking out - help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6696 days ago

22 July 2006 (F) - I need help. I've never had a boyfriend before, and i've finally been asked out by this boy i really like. i'm a bit nervous because i've never kissed anyone before? HELP... (32 words)

How do I confess my feelings risk-free?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6695 days ago

22 July 2006 (M) - i got 2 questions: 1.whats the best way to show a girl that you have strong feelings for her? 2.what hints can i give this girl to tell her i have strong feelings for her without being too upfront and heavy on her?... (49 words)

I date psycho women, and this one is turning out to be like just the rest - am I addicted to the abuse?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6693 days ago

22 July 2006 (M) - I am having a problem that really is hurting me and I have absolutely no idea what to do. For over a decade, I dated bad women. Liars, thiefs, cheats, no emotions, no ambition. Well, nearly 8 months ago I met a woman whom I absolutely loved. She is smart, intelligenc... (884 words)

He's a cad, but I choose to further cheapen myself by pining for him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6696 days ago

22 July 2006 (F) - basically i have been with a guy for 4+ years.we got engaged last year and WERE due to be married in a couple of months. we have been through a lot of struggles, ranging from him lying to me to being in court. also he has cheated on me. i have supported him through ev... (333 words)

He had an affair with his 21-year old niece and it is destroying me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6696 days ago

22 July 2006 (F) - I have been married for 11 years.After my second child was born my husband never showed me any affection. We have not had sex, not even a cuddle in 8 years of our marriage.Both of his parents died of cancer within 4 weeks of eachother at the beginning of this year and i shared ... (279 words)

Uncomfortable in my own skin, so I don't want to have sex with my BF

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6696 days ago

22 July 2006 (F)

- hey guys im really quite worried me and my boyfriend are in a really intamite relationship but im still a virgin and i want to have sex with him im just really worried that my *downstairs* will put him off or that he wont be able to get inside me. im also incredably shy and i ... (77 words)

Hes always got an excuse not to have sex, what can I do ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6695 days ago

22 July 2006 (F) - Im really fed up that my boyfriend always says its the wrong time for sex! Doesnt matter what time of day, what day of the week its always something in the way... today hes hot.... its been hotter than this before and we have had sex, im getting where i dont feel attractive ... (270 words)

Im really confused, hes always teasing me sometimes I like him sometimes I dont!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6696 days ago

22 July 2006 (F) - right theres this guy and he like teases me all the time and i don't think i like him but in a way i do, i know i feel something for him and i don't know what or why and its really confusing and he like teases me for no reason and its reali annoying but i dont know if i like ... (100 words)

I dont know why hes not going near me all of a sudden ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6695 days ago

22 July 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I was going out with a really nice guy for a couple of months. We were getting on great together and were in love. Suddenly he never talks to me and never goes near me. I try and ask him why is he not talking to me but he always walks away. I've asked all his mate... (77 words)

I can't understand why my injured bird would choose her abusive husband over me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6695 days ago

22 July 2006 (M) - About seven months ago I became involved with a woman whose husband had abandoned her. At first our relationship revolved around her heartbreak over her husband's actions. He had been unfaithful to her on at least two occasions. He had moved out of the house twice. The first ... (1191 words)

Everyone is enjoying summer... Except me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6696 days ago

22 July 2006 (F) - Just wanted to rant and get it off my chest. I feel like everyone in my uni are enjoying their holidays except for me. I have to resit an exam, so have to revise over the summer. Everyone seems like they are doing something- all the time, going on holidays and going out wi... (119 words)

Is it right that my ex husband stays in the "family" home with me and the kids?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6696 days ago

22 July 2006 (F) - My husband and I have gone through a lengthy separation which was made easier for us both when he got a new job last March and moved over 100 miles away from me our two teenage boys. He recently told me he's met someone else and he thinks alot of her but when he comes back to ... (223 words)

I feel lost, he had a few affairs then married one of them, but I didnt get any resolve, please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6695 days ago

22 July 2006 (F) - hi its been five years since i caught my defacto of 15yrs and father of my daughter having sex with his now new wife. I have recieved no answers and my daughter has not spoken to him since i feel like am stuck in limbo land and am having trouble trusting again (this was his ... (84 words)

He couldn't "get in"... Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

22 July 2006 (F) - Hello. I am a virgin and recently tried to have sex for the first time. I'm really worried that there is something wrong with me becuase my boyfriend just couldn't get inside me, it was excruciatingly painful. We tired several times, but it just just didn't happen for us. it ... (57 words)

We did already try a relationship, but not sure if he still likes me now ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6696 days ago

22 July 2006 (F) - hey i need help, there is this guy he and i have had a past relationship and i still like him. but i think he likes me but my friend sais that he is the kind of guy who wouldn't and couldn't carry on a relationship. but i really love him. i need to know what should i do? i am ... (112 words)

What should I do about the guy at work I like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6695 days ago

22 July 2006 (F) - I just started a new job 4 months ago,and I really like this guy from work from the moment I've seen him.I got a feeling that he likes me too,but I have two problems about this..1.there is 10years age gap between us,and maybe that will be a problem for him and 2.I'm really ... (126 words)

Lend some money to my ex and haven't heard from him since!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6696 days ago

22 July 2006 (F) - I've been spending a lot of time with my ex boyfriend recently and for the last 2 months we've been spending time together most days or speaking on the phone if not. I knew that we werent going to get back together but was enjoying the company as I'm a single mum Five days ago... (397 words)

How do we end our email affair?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6696 days ago

22 July 2006 (F) - Well I've been having an e-mail affair for a few months with a close person in my life you could say he is related to me the problem is I don't want to screw up our lives we both have familys the thing is I know we both love each other but what can i do to stop this? We b... (79 words)

Is it normal to bleed for this long?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6695 days ago

22 July 2006 (F) - How long after losing your virginity is it normal to bleed for? I had no idea it bled for longer than just during the sex, but it's been 3 days and i'm still bleeding, and it's not my period.... (39 words)

My partner refuses to discipline his son!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6696 days ago

22 July 2006 (F) - My partner is obsessed with his son he loves him to distraction, nothing wrong with that but his behaviour is so bad eg swearing name calling hitting me and his father. He will not tell him off or show him boundries neither will his mother. He wants to take him abroad this year ... (97 words)

What do people think about meeting someone online?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6550 days ago

22 July 2006 (F) - I just want to know some people's opinions on meeting up with someone you met online. I know sometimes it's dengerous meeting someone you only know online. We've been e-mailing back and forth for a few weeks, he lives in my town, and he has not pressured me into meeting. He let ... (154 words)

I hang out with the wrong crowd - could this be why I don't get dates?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6696 days ago

22 July 2006 (F) - well . i'm young .. and i guess not that bad looking . but the thing is , when i hang out with all my friends and guys , all the guys pay more attention to my friends because my friends are so outgoing ; but not in a way i would like to be . they drink and hook up with everyone ... (167 words)

My family life sucks, and so do my relatives - how do I make it better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6697 days ago

22 July 2006 (F) - I know many people complain about their over-intrusive in-laws, but I have the complete opposite, a mother-in-law who just simply doesn't care. My husbands mother will probably forget my kids name (probably even mine) in a few years. I mean shes soo cold its unbelivable! How ... (148 words)

I am conscious about my stretch marks - how will this affect my online relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6684 days ago

22 July 2006 (F) - i have kind of a weird question....and im looking for peoples opinion on it.i have a boyfriend who i am in a long distance relationship with.we have been together for almost 6 months,but it has only been internet/phone based so far.he is coming here for the first time in a few ... (311 words)

He won't stay at my place after sex, and I don't know why...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6697 days ago

22 July 2006 (F) - What does that mean if your bf refuses to stay overnight after sex? I feel he is emotionally distant or he is not really into me anymore. It was always him who asked me come over and stayed there at the beginning of dating. Four months later, when we sort of seriously com... (168 words)

Am I thinking too much, or is he cheating on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6696 days ago

22 July 2006 (F) - I am a suspicious type of person. My boyfriend has his own apartment but usually stays at his mother's house--just wanted to give you that info. Last week-- I look at the condom drawer and we haven't used any in a while--we have two sets..there were only one left of one--and... (586 words)

He's 31, she's 17, and I want to be the meddling matchmaker

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6662 days ago

22 July 2006 (F) - Any opinions on a relationship between a mature 17 yr old girl and a man who is 31 (who acts/looks 23)? I'm a friend trying to help. They are both very attracted to one another, but skeptical of the age difference. I think they would make a great couple... ... (52 words)

My roommate is a potential love interest, but she's really selfish

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6688 days ago

22 July 2006 (F) - my roommate and i are both gay, and have been friends for a while. we both had feelings for each other a while back, but had relationships that kept us from taking things any further than just friends. well, recently my relationship ended, and we wound up hooking up for the ... (437 words)

I've got a libido that my wife just can't keep up with - what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6692 days ago

22 July 2006 (F) - I have been married for 18 years, I'm 47, and my wife is 45. We have 3 kids (16Male), (14Girl), and 11(Male) I am the sole provider for the family. . We have always differed in sexual desire. I seem to have a much stronger sex drive than my wife. This is not to say that we ... (244 words)

Shall I tell her that her bf always sleep with other girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6697 days ago

22 July 2006 (F) - Shall I tell her that her bf always sleep with other girls? She is a nice girl,travelling a lot because of work. Her bf is my bf's classmate.Everybody except her knows that her bf sleeps around, he goes out with other days during the week day and hangs out with her during ... (241 words)

I'm depressed - can anyone recommend websites where I can discuss my condition?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6696 days ago

22 July 2006 (M)

- I keep sending some questions to this site but I don't feel it is working because a) the questions are not submitted by the person as they are irrelevant (i.e. depression) and b) the answers people give me are not really good (no disrespect I've gotten some really good advice ... (86 words)

My guy's actions speak louder than his words - should I dump him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6696 days ago

22 July 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 10 months. through this, we have barely spent any time alone. We constantly have to spend time with other people, namely our best friend Zach. If Zach is unavailable, my boyfriend will make an excuse not to hang out. I discussed this with ... (195 words)