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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Too young to be in a committed relationship - I want to play the field

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6686 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - I have been in a steady relationship for almost a year now, although I think I am too young! I am only seventeen and want to go out with my friends an have a good time. I really like another person and I know he likes me and I don't know what to do about it.... (57 words)

Is there some other woman in his life? Is that why he's so mysterious?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6686 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - Hi, I have a child by a man who lives more than an hours drive away from me. He visits often and adores the child, who is only 6 months old. I have told him I want us to get back together and he says he is unsure because he doesn't know if we get on well enough. I'm almos... (286 words)

I miss my old best friend, even though we parted on poor terms...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6687 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - Hello, me and my best friend, let’s call her Kate, we had met in a strange way. She was in the year above me and I just randomly got her address off my brother and we got chatting, after a few conversations we got on really well so met up one day. Now I realise it was very ... (320 words)

Her crush on me comes and goes. She flirts with me, but stays with her partner!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6686 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - back about six months ago, i became friends with this girl. and the first time we ever talked, she admitted to me that in the past, she'd had a HUGE crush on me. the crush had lasted for nearly a year, and had confirmed her sexuality, seeing as how she'd never really liked ... (435 words)

I hate working with my ex and seeing her new, male friend doing all the things we used to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6675 days ago

31 July 2006 (M) - Hi All, Please help me! Me and my ex are working in the same office. We were seeing each other for aboutr a month, (this is 6 months back)and after a month she broke up with me. Since then, initially we were not in talking terms at all. I still love her like hell!! A lot... (400 words)

Could he have gone from no-strings sexual flings to a "serious relationship" with me, in just a few weeks?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6687 days ago

31 July 2006 (F)

- I was wondering if I could get some opinions on this and if I am really being stupid about this or not. My boyfriend, before me, had lots of flings that usually lasted a few months. He claims that they were just flings-all physical, no emotions attached. The thing that bug... (128 words)

He controls my life and treats me like something he scraped off his shoe, but I always come back!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6687 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm 18 years old and have been seeing my boyfriend on and off for two years. At the beginning of the relationship things were great but then about 10 months ago we split up as I decided to end the relationship as he started becoming quite possessive. He constant... (358 words)

I lied and told my girl I was 20, so she wouldn't think me too old. But I'm 24!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6687 days ago

31 July 2006 (M) - I lied about my age because my girlfriend might think I was too old for her. I met this girl 2 months ago and she told me she was 15 just a couple weeks ago. I wasn't sure what to do because I told her I was 20. She's 16 later this year but the truth is that I am 24. I real... (164 words)

What does my "being chased" dreaming mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - Does anyone know how to interpret dreams? Recently I'm being chased in my dreams. I wake up with sore legs and wonder if it has anything to do with real life??... (32 words)

We're trying to break up slowly, because we're afraid it won't work out if she goes home to Australia...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6687 days ago

31 July 2006 (M) - Hello, I'm lost and need assistance. My girlfriend and I split 4 weeks ago. She is Australian 23 years old, I am Scottish 24 years old. We were together for 1 year and a half. We are still very much in love, we talked about marriage and babies together. She is my soul mate.... (240 words)

I feel hurt when my partner seems to turn up his nose at my sexual initiative!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6686 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - I've been with my partner for a little over a year. When we first got together, we would constantly talk about sex and what we wanted to do with each other, sending each other dirty text messages etc and basically loving all the naughtiness. Now I find he takes no notice w... (216 words)

My pregnant girlfriend says she want's to be a single mum

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6681 days ago

31 July 2006 (M) - i'm 17 and my gf is 15. she has just found out that she is pregnant. we did have safe sex but obviously not safe enough. we have been seeing each other for almost two years now and i'll admit that i love her very much. she says that she is going to have the baby and i'm happy ... (158 words)

I can't leave him - there's hope he'll change?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - kris and I have been together for 6yrs and we live together. We both own the property together. Kris used to smoke dagga and he became lazy and sloppy, I found myself doing every thing around the house, well he just sat on his computer playing games. We both have full tim... (900 words)

Do men really think stretch marks are okay ? Or do they say they dont mind to be kind ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

31 July 2006 (F)

- i just wanted to know what men truly think of strech marks?? i had my second child 6weeks ago, my first child is 15months, as you can see i didnt hang about, and from having two 9lb babies close together and a miscarriage in between them , i have now got stech marks on my ... (151 words)

We both live in Lousiana and not sure if its illegal for us to date ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6687 days ago

31 July 2006 (M) - ok please dont judge,i have been seing this girl who is 16,i am 21, we have been seeing each other for the past two yrs,we have not had sex,she wants to wait till marriage and i respect that.her mom has decided that she is too young to be dateing,and that it is illegal for us ... (118 words)

I didnt realise I had feeling for her, but think we are more than friends now, should I say something ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6687 days ago

31 July 2006 (M) - hello all new to this, so ill majke it quick! a few months ago my best friend was in a relationship with a girl which ended peacfully. a few weeks after this i ran into his ex at the petrol station and we arranged to go out for a drink to catch up. since then however we have ... (251 words)

Cant stop this insecurity of his past girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6687 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - hi, ive been with my boyfriend for almost 3 months now and everything is going well except that i cant get thoughts of a girl he slept with before out of my head...they were good friends and are no longer in contact because she 'used' him while she was still with her ... (161 words)

Is he just being freindly or does he want something more ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6686 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - How do i know if a guy like me or not.? Recently I've moved back home after being away for six years, I'm staying with my family until my place is ready. So I'm around the house alot and see old family friend nearly everyday. But awhile back I notice him, my dads best friend, ... (172 words)

We talk and chat alot, but she didnt text, not sure if this a big deal or not ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6687 days ago

31 July 2006 (M) - I met this girl at the gym who I liked the look of. She was on her own and I went over to her, havign seen her there a few times before. We got talking and seemed to get on really well, and considering it was the first time I'd spoken to her, we spoke for ages! She was happy ... (433 words)

We had some real good times together then I told him how I felt, hes now backed off and said it wont work!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6687 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - I hav been seeing a guy for 4 weekends now and at the start he persued to be with me.There was an attraction there for many months before we eventually got together.He said at the beginning that he didnt want a relationship.The second week he was looking for me again and i was ... (195 words)

One minute shes flirting, then she pulls away, Im not sure what to do anymore but I really really like her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6687 days ago

31 July 2006 (M) - This is a pretty complicated relationship problem that has been bugging me for the past 2 years or so. There is a bunch of background details, so bear with me. I'm 17, a guy, and I just can't get over my ex. She lives in a city next to mine, and about a year and a few months ... (700 words)

He slept with his ex.... Now she says shes pregnant!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - hi i have been with my boyfriend for three years now ,he loves me and i also do. Lately we have a problem which is fading my love for him but he still loves me The problem is he saw his ex girlfriend and due to lust he slept with her, and now the girl claims she is pr... (164 words)

Does this comment mean he doesnt want to get married again ? or did he feel on the spot ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6686 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - I was at a party on Friday night with my boyfriend when one of his friends said he reckoned I was going to be his future wife. His other friend agreed and said he could see us either being married within 2 years or at least engaged by then. My boyfriend turned round and said ... (170 words)

Whats going on in here head, why did she just drop all contact ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6687 days ago

31 July 2006 (M) - Ok, was going out with this girl for three months and all was going great I had totally fallen for her and I actually felt that she was the one, but then two weeks ago out of the blue she didn't respond to my messages (which she had always done like a religon) this went on for ... (145 words)

An update and a Thank you:- Im not comfortable with the attention im getting....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6686 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - Hi, I'm back. I posted "I am not comfortable with the attention I'm getting from my husband's father!” on 31st May 2006 and 12th June 2006. Thank God, after what I posted on the 12th June 2006, so far my father in-law has stopped harassing me and I always keep myself toge... (287 words)

I feel afraid of making a final commitment, anyone have any advice ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6687 days ago

31 July 2006 (M) - I've been in a relationship for the past couple of months. Things have been pretty intense and we have a very good connection. We've talked about a long term future together - marriage, family, etc and I've enjoyed these conversations. My problem is that when it comes down to ... (86 words)

He's afraid to love again, should I hand in there or move one ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months now. He has had a bad experiance in the past (about 4 years ago) where he was in love with a girl, and was going to marry her. However she cheated on him with one of his best friends, they broke up and have no contact since. He ... (189 words)

Is this spot of blood normal ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6688 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - my boyfriend and i were making out and it got a little hot and heavy as far as making out goes....and we were dry humping, but this time it was different. we do this routine often and all is fine after the fact but tonight when i went to go change my clothes into my pjs i ... (113 words)

All this activity I see online. Could he be lying about not having instant messaging?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6687 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - My b/f of more than a year got his first lap top/computer a few months ago. He set up a yahoo account. I know the e-mail. I put it in my buddy list for aol and aim without the address at the end of course--meaning without yahoo.com. He dropped me off at 5:15 am or so one ... (401 words)

I'm losing my boyfriend because I find it so hard to trust him!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - Plz help me! My boyfriend of nine months has just split up with. He says its because he's been unhappy for a while as I have trouble trusting him. This is due to my past relationships and his background as a cheat. I love him more than anything in the world and he says he still ... (113 words)

Are there signs I can look for to know that a girl is interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6688 days ago

31 July 2006 (M) - How do you know if a girl has feelings for you? Because I feel like a complete idiot. I know this girl used to like me A LOT. But she's been in a relationship for a while now. I feel like she may still be interested and we've also crossed the line once before, but decided ... (85 words)

It's either my fiance's way, or the highway, and I'm tired of being manipulated!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6688 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - Hi! I have been engaged for 3 years. We have been going through some time with long distance because of job situations. We have had ups and downs in the relationship but managed to work it out for the time being. I feel that if my fiance doesn't get what he wants, it's either h... (162 words)

My BF said he wouldn't meet a girl for coffee, but did it anyway!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6670 days ago

31 July 2006 (F)

- Hi, I posted a question about a week ago about my boyfriend meeting up for coffee with a girl that he promised me he would have no contact with? Anyone remember me? Well, basically, he went and met up with her. Now I'm stuck and confused. I was just home from work when h... (210 words)

I don't want to hurt my boyfriend, but I'm still dreaming of my ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6654 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - A while back I was going out with a guy for a couple of months and I was really happy. Then suddenly he broke it off with me and I was devastated. I felt like a failure. I have recently met a really nice guy that I enjoy spending time with. The problem is its been eight mo... (146 words)

My partner's surprise announcement has left me reeling!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6688 days ago

30 July 2006 (M) - My partner of five years has recently told me that about 10 years ago she was seriously sexually assaulted. She has recently decided to prosecute the man concerned and has been in touch with the police. She tells me that one of the reasons for leaving it so long to take action ... (128 words)

We never spoke, but I'm sure there was love between us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6687 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - Hi guys, I need help with this one. I'm 14 years old and last year I saw this guy who was in sixth form. The big problem is, is that I love him and I think he loves me too, but we have never spoken! I know it must sound stupid that I love him because I have never spoken t... (145 words)

My husband thinks my vagina should be "like a virgin"...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - I have a husband. We married in 2004, but now he doesn't want sex with me because he want me like a virgin.p /> He wants my vagina should be too small. I don't know what to do to make small my vagina.... (43 words)

How can I miss her if she won't go away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6687 days ago

30 July 2006 (M) - How do I tell my girlfriend that being together ALL the time may not be such a healthy thing? Not counting work, I can't be away from her for more than a few hours. She gets very upset and starts asking "Why don't you want to be with me?" or "Why do you want to be apart?". I ... (97 words)

Gay? Bi? Strajght? Confused? I just don't know what I am...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6688 days ago

30 July 2006 (M)

- Hi I'm 15 and confused. When I masturbate I used to always think about men and boys. Now it's men and women. I like looking at men, as well as women but I want to have sex with females and get married to a woman and have children. Am I gay, bi or straight?... (54 words)

She comes home from work drunk, and she's cheated on me numerous times! Should I stay or go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6688 days ago

30 July 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years. Last summer she got a new job at a bar, hoping to make some extra money. The problems in our relationship started there. She would come home drunk almost every night of the week. At first, I thought she was just ... (154 words)

He gets what he wants, then he's a total stranger. Are we just together for sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6687 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - Hi Lately every time I sleep with my guy, afterwards he acts like a total stranger. Then he never seems to want to hook up with me for ages afterwards. It's starting to depress me. It makes me feel cheap. Does this mean he only wants me for sex?... (50 words)

I need to hide a hickey from my parents, so they don't know where I've been!

This question has 35 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

30 July 2006 (?) - hi... I really need help and fast. I spent the weekend with my boyfriend. My parents don't know about it and if they had ever found out that I would be in so much trouble. I got away with them not finding out that I was with him. The only thing that could keep me from getting ... (107 words)

I really want to be friends with my social group's new addition, but she treats me like I'm an old lady!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6686 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - I have a small group of very good friends, who I have a very strong bond with. We have been friends for years, and we are actually more like family to each other. We also have a wide circle of other friends, who we mix with either together or separately. If one of us introduc... (781 words)

We were long-distance for a year, but I could bear it. Now he's taken another year without discussing it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6688 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship for a year and had planned to be living together in November. We were best friends for 3 years but only spent 8 months as a couple before we were separated. He is now in South America and I am in the UK. The ye... (174 words)

Can't say anything to my friend about my attraction to her... Or can I?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6677 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - I am absolutely crazy about my friend. Don't want to lose her so can't tell her. She has told me so many times that people have mistaken her for a lesbian. She has had a few relationships with men, which she says she was never happy in, or in love with any of them. I feel ... (96 words)

Period's different after sex. What does it mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6688 days ago

30 July 2006 (F)

- My boyfriend and I had sex a week and a day ago, we used Durex Extra Safe (thicker and with spermicide so I've heard), we both checked throughout to see that it stayed on, and after, he took it off well away from me. I started my period today (in the last few hours), but it l... (123 words)

Things look hopeful between us... I think!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6688 days ago

30 July 2006 (M) - Hello, OK this is my story. Been in a very good relationship for 6 years. One month ago my girlfriend asked for space as she thinks she may want to see other people, but is not sure and she does not want to cheat. That was about 5 weeks ago, so I didn’t contact at all u... (232 words)

I want my ex-girlfriend to trust me again, so we can get back to what we had!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6688 days ago

30 July 2006 (M) - Sorry to bother you and I understand if you may not have time to reply to me, but I'm really desperate and needing some guidance. Basically, me and my gf have been together for 8 months. We had a very intense passionate relationship, and fell in love quickly. We had our ups a... (1101 words)

She offered to be "just friends"; I suggested we start over completely. Can we get back to BF/GF?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6688 days ago

30 July 2006 (M) - My girlfiiend of two months broke up with me a week ago. Since then I've been crushed. Up until the last week of our relationship, everything seemed to be going fine, if not somewhat torrid. The last week, I knew something was wrong, but I didn't think we were going to split... (267 words)

How can I really stand out, he went from being really into me then all wierd!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6687 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - I don't understand what happened, but he seemed like he liked me lots and l liked him. We were together almost a month. Then he went away for a weekend came back and it was all weird, he said he was really busy working etc and we couldn't get together. So I don't know if he ... (190 words)