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writes: i feel my fiance going far from me...he is travelling away and we just chat using a webcam...i have a strange feeling he will leave me...i am so nervous and irritable...what shall i do?
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reader, starristar +, writes (12 July 2006):
Talk to him. Tell him how you feel. It worked for me,Hope this helps,Would love to know how this works out,xxx
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reader, Clarey  +, writes (11 July 2006):
 There is nothing you can do. Just keep cheerful and look after yourself. Clinging to people does sometimes drive them away but if they decide they will, they will anyway. There is nothing wrong with missing a person. Be supportive, spontaneous and funny. Be loving and think of his needs. Hopefully he will be considerate of yours. This time is a test and is will be scarey but you need to think of your fears less, not turn his words or seeming actions into negative things. Breathe deeply. Plan some really good webcam chats. If he is travelling look up things about where he is going and show interest. Perhaps express a desire to explore somewhere with him in the world that you would like to go to. Get enthusiastic about travel. Let him see the person he is missing. Be positive and please don't worry. He will be coming back and you can help make his travel even more fun by communicating with him along his way.
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