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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

She says she's falling for my 'plush toy' and I think it means more than it seems to!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6730 days ago

18 July 2006 (M) - I fancy this new girl at work ... She's really nice and we've talked a little. We work on schedules, and she is always asking me if I'm working the next day, and if not she says it's going to be boring cause I'm not there and all kind of stuff like that. And the other d... (211 words)

Do I date my best friend's girl? It's his feelings or mine..what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6730 days ago

18 July 2006 (M) - hi i like this girl and she flirts with me but the only thing is she goes out with my best friend do i hurt my feelings or his thank you Unhappy_guy... (42 words)

How do I stop myself from liking my bf's friend. If I do anything stupid, they will do serious harm to each other.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6731 days ago

18 July 2006 (F) - I'm so annoyed with myself. I'm going out with a guy who i'm completely in love with and happy, but i've got a massive crush on his best mate. I know it's only because it's 'bad' for me to be interested that i feel the way i do. It happened with this same boyfriend last time i ... (161 words)

I am tired of my bf taking me for granted! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6731 days ago

18 July 2006 (F) - I just broke off with my boyfriend about 9 days ago.I broke off because I felt he was taking me for granted and he was treating me badly like constantly putting his golf and everything else before me knowing he would get away with it.He is 6 years younger than me - im 29 but we ... (523 words)

How do I let a guy know that I don’t want to pursue a relationship with him without hurting him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6731 days ago

18 July 2006 (F) - How do I let a guy know that I don’t want to pursue a relationship with him without getting caught up in cliches or hurting his feelings too much? We’ve been on one date and are going out again this week. He thinks it is a date but it is actually to tell him I only want to be ... (673 words)

I can't work out whether my friend is interested in me or not! Should I wait?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6730 days ago

18 July 2006 (F) - I am close friends with a guy. He said he was going into city on his day off. He said he was going there to ‘sort some stuff out’. What does he mean by this? I’m sure he hasn’t got another girl because he is still hung up on his ex girlfriend and he has only gone to this ... (933 words)

I think I masturbate too much...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6511 days ago

18 July 2006 (M) - Hi, I'm 26 and although I've had relationships I find I seem to enjoy maturbation more than everything else. It's got to the point now where I masturbate whenever I'm alone and have an erection. I know it' normal to pleasure yourself but I would like to somehow stop it as mu... (64 words)

Even by my third try, sex still hurts!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6731 days ago

18 July 2006 (F) - I've had sex 3 times and every time hurt just as much as the first time but I was just as nervous as the first time also. Is this normal or is this something I should have checked out?... (39 words)

Keen on my friend. Should I say so?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6731 days ago

18 July 2006 (F) - I'm starting to fancy a friend, but I don't know what to do. I don't want to ruin a friendship but at the same time I don't want to let the oppertunity disappear. What do you think? What should I say/do?... (41 words)

Are we moving too slow?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

18 July 2006 (F) - I have a boyfriend who I have been going out with for about 3 and a half months. We are both unexperianced and I haven't even had my first kiss. I love him so much, but are we going to slow with the relationship? Please help me.... (47 words)

What is he trying to say?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6731 days ago

18 July 2006 (F)

- I've been talking to this guy for a few weeks now. And he's told me previously that he thinks I'm pretty, and that he'd like to feel me up. A local club holds an under 18's night, where he goes regularly, my friends go too and I'm planning on joining them for the next one that ... (161 words)

Whats a girl to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6731 days ago

18 July 2006 (F) - There's this guy i really like. A few months ago we never really got on, but then i saw him in a different light. I think he likes me to. But there's a problem, he's my best friends older brother. she knows things have been a bit different between us lately but doesn't know i ... (151 words)

He's 26 and I'm 17...Is he too old for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6695 days ago

18 July 2006 (F) - im 17 and recently ive been getting close to a 26 year old who ive known for all my life, he has a girlfriend but they're breaking up, do you think hes too old for me? and hes cheated on her in the past so does that mean he'll cheat on me? help!!... (53 words)

I like my dad's friend....how can I know how he feels about me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6724 days ago

18 July 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, im 17 and i really fancie my dads friend, he has a girlfriend and you can tell he doesnt really love her. he always flirts with me and i wana tell him how i feel but im to scarred because i dont like showing my emotions as ive had really bad experiences in r... (107 words)

I got his personal number, but he still hasn't gotten back to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6728 days ago

18 July 2006 (F) - oh, im so happy!!! I recently went to see a band, who i admire so much, they all are very talented and passionate. After the gig i got talking to the lead singer and we had a blast of a time. He's american and im british, and we talked so much. We went back stage so w... (256 words)

Can u get pregnant with anal sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6723 days ago

18 July 2006 (F)

- Can u gt pregnant or catch sti from havin unprotected anal sex? if u can which ones? are they treatable? Plz help...... (22 words)

I feel guilty now that I have cheated?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6731 days ago

18 July 2006 (M) - hi i am married,32 years old and iranian.i got married almost 8 years ago.i have a doughter at the age of 2.5.since around 3 years ago,i noticed that i love my wife but we have nothign in common.i didnt like her character,the way she speaks and the way she like to spend he... (197 words)

My sister and I like the same guy! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6731 days ago

18 July 2006 (F) - is it wrong for me to get into a relationship with a guy that once dated my sister? i mean it was not serious between them and i actually dated him first. i really like this guy a lot we do everything together, i just don't want out relationship to effect the relationship ... (67 words)

What can I do with my pubes?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6730 days ago

18 July 2006 (M) - Was with my girl last week and she suggested I do something different with my pubic hair. I have never even thought of doing so. I play sport so there's showers afterwards so I can't do anything too "rad". Any suggestions from men and women on what to do? maybe a good trim ... (55 words)

Singleton or one of many? Will my child miss out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6731 days ago

18 July 2006 (F) - Hi! I need some advice! i am in a relationship with a man who is controlling and selfish and insensitive. We have a 3 year old son. I have been recently been reading articles about only childs and i am worried as i haven't heard many advantages about beening an only child. I ... (158 words)

80% perfection but he treats me like dirt when he's stoned!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6731 days ago

18 July 2006 (F) - I love my boyfriend to bits and have done for the past 9 months. We've had an on/off relationship all this time because even though we're crazy about eachother we fall out all the time. Everything is perfect 80% of the time and i honestly think i could spend the rest of my life ... (198 words)

My cheating hubby and the other womens crazy family! Stay or go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6731 days ago

18 July 2006 (F) - I have been with my husband since I was 16. We have 2 perfect children. We were having problems in our marriage that resulted in him leaving every time he got mad and he cheated on me with one of his now ex-friends girlfriends who is 10 years younger. She is now pregnant. When ... (356 words)

She fell asleep holding my hand, you think she likes me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6731 days ago

18 July 2006 (M) - im 16 and i met this girl at a party and we got on great and we flirted alot. she let me hold her in my arms and she held my hand and she fell asleep on me. but nothing happend. and im just woundering what should i do. and does antbody else think she likes me ... (59 words)

My ex prefers her ex over me! Advice please!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6616 days ago

18 July 2006 (M) - Hi i came on here about a month ago to ask some advice and need alittle more! quick recap. Me and my ex of 4 1/2yrs split 10 weeks ago we have 2 kids (2 1/2 yrs old and 8mnths) we have moved into our first place 2 months prior to splitting and have lived together for 3 1/2yrs.I ... (268 words)

One mistake and my heart is broken!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6731 days ago

18 July 2006 (M) - hi i am a boy who loves a girl.we live apart but we are in contact via msn for 10 months.we have plans to meet later.the problem is that she lied about her second name.and one of her friends told me the real name.i was shocked.i searched about her adresshome in the internet and ... (119 words)

Im 28 hes 53, were in love but is this age difference too much?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6730 days ago

18 July 2006 (F) - I am 28 and in love with a 53 year old man! He feels the same about me. Is this age dirrerence too much?? I know that my family will ridicule this relationship. What do i do??? HELP!!!... (38 words)

Porn obsessed husband or great sex ex? hmm!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6731 days ago

18 July 2006 (F) - Hi, i have been married for nearly 3 years (and have been married before). The thing is, it firstly stated out with my hubby hiding porn from me which made me feel useless, he borrowed my mobile for a bit then i gave it to my dad only to be bombarded with dirty texts from a ... (216 words)

Im 16, my bf told me he's got Herpes, can I get myself checked out without telling my mum ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6732 days ago

18 July 2006 (F) - Yesterday when my boyfriend was drunk he told me he had herpes. I wasn't sure if he was joking or not, but the more i think about it the more i worry. My genital area has been sore and very ichy recenty and some of the skin is peeling. I had previously assumed that this was ... (148 words)

Why is it me that always texts first ? How can I get him to ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6731 days ago

18 July 2006 (F) - Hey Guys you may remember that i wanted to get back with my ex well i'm pleased to say that i've met someone else! The thing is as i was with my ex for 5 years i haven't been on the dating scene since and i'm a bit nervous, we've been texting eachother and were going out on the ... (113 words)

Is my hymen still there?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6731 days ago

18 July 2006 (F) - How likely is it that my hymen is broken if i haven't had sexual intercourse but my boyfriend has fingered me and given me oral sex?... (26 words)

I broke my engagement to be with someone else, and not sure I'm doing the right thing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6731 days ago

18 July 2006 (F)

- I've just come out of the Re-hab center for the clinically depressed. I had a nervous breakdown and when I was admitted I was engaged to a wonderful man - let's call him D. And while I was at the clinic I met an amazing man, L. He is in for Anger management and the two of us ... (197 words)

I'm confused because I think my girlfriend is lying about where she's going!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6731 days ago

18 July 2006 (M) - Me and my gf have been together for 8 months now. We connected and have the potential to have a brilliant and fun future. A month ago she lied to me. She met a guy and was planning to go to a barbeque with him. She told me she was at a girlie friend's house. She assured ... (214 words)

I can talk to this girl like a friend, but I want to talk to her the way guys talk to girls!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6729 days ago

18 July 2006 (M) - Hiya, My name's sean and I'm 16. there's this Girl whom I've known for 4 years and have had a HUGE crush on her ever since I met her. But the problem is that I can't really talk to girls when it comes to stuff like that. I can talk to them like a friend but not like well... A ... (89 words)

Could he be seeing someone else, or am I just paranoid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6732 days ago

18 July 2006 (F) - With my b/f for over a year--he has his own place but stays with his mom at her house close by--I guess to help her out if she needs and just to be there. This has never happened--we were talking on the phone at 11pm and he mentions he might have to go to his apartment tonigh... (216 words)

Do women like recieving oral sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6731 days ago

18 July 2006 (M) - I really like this one girl, And I'm going to ask her out soon. But what I really fantasize about is giving HER oral sex. I couldn't really care less about her doing anything to me (Although I certainly wouldn't mind it :D ) Is this OK? Or am I wierd? Do women like reciving ... (57 words)

My bf called my parents vulgar names in front of me! Is this disrespect for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6731 days ago

18 July 2006 (F) - Am I overreacting? My bf came to visit me recently and met my parents. However, due to our interracial relationship and culture difference, they did not get along. Instead of being concerned about the well being of me and the relationship between my parents and I, he called t... (190 words)

My gf of 10 months has not given me a blow job in 3 weeks! Is this normal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6729 days ago

18 July 2006 (M)

- my girlfriend of 10 month's as not given me a blow job in 3 week's is this normal? i've been down on her so many time's and she just given me hand job's.... (33 words)

What should I tell this girl so that she'll be my girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6732 days ago

18 July 2006 (M) - Hi!! my Name is Robert and this is my short story. I like this girl for like 2 years. I met her in college, now she is single and I want to tell her that I like her a lot, but I don't know if is not too early to talk to her. I want her to be my girlfriend but I'm a shy guy and ... (208 words)

What can I say to the beautiful girls in my acting school?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6732 days ago

18 July 2006 (M) - I just started acting school today and there are a lot of beautiful girls. I barely talked to them or anyone else. There are three guys in the class and I'm one of the guys. How can I talk to these girls to make up for my quiet self the first day? It is a five day a week sch... (90 words)

My fiancee was brutally honest in telling me she thinks my penis is too short!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6450 days ago

18 July 2006 (M) - Dear Cupid, My penis is 4.5" short. I've spent the past several years convincing myself that that's OK. I read up on it and discovered that most women either don't care or prefer medium length. I told myself "size doesn't matter" over and over until finally i could ... (418 words)

My friend stole my potential man!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6718 days ago

18 July 2006 (F) - My friend and I were at a club on Saturday night and I was too shy to talk to a guy I thought was cute and she went up and got his number for me. Later on I plucked up the courage to ask for it myself and when I looked at the number he gave my friend it was different. She ... (205 words)

I'm 51 and my 54 year old partner isn't meeting my needs - why is he like this? (long post)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6732 days ago

18 July 2006 (F) - 3 years after being widowed I met man on line that has been a bachelor for nearly 3 decades (married once very young, ended in bitter divorce, no long term relationship since). He and I corresponded for about a month before our first date. From our correspondence we already ... (709 words)

The girl I think I love has gone back with her ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6732 days ago

18 July 2006 (M) - There's this girl that i have got to know really well and i think i love her. She told me she fancies me and wants something to happen between us but now she got back with her ex for the third time, whats the best way to approach this?... (49 words)

How can you tell if you've fallen in love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6731 days ago

18 July 2006 (M) - How can you tell if you've fallen in love?... (9 words)

We were together 5 years but she says her heart and head are telling her different things - what does that mean!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6732 days ago

18 July 2006 (M)

- When someone says 'their heart is telling them one thing, but their head is telling them another' - what does it really mean? Me and my ex have been split up for 3 months (after been together over 5 years)...i want her back and she tells me her heart wants me too - but her he... (62 words)

How do I choose between these two guys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6731 days ago

18 July 2006 (F)

- I am torn between two guys...!!! I met two guys over the last month. One I work with and the other i met on a nite out but i am very good mates wiv that guys mate. This mate has offered to set me up with this guy. My first question is would that be a good idea? (th... (218 words)