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writes: I cheated on my long term bf last Sat and just didn't realise I was kissing another bloke cuz I was really drunk. But as soon as I realised, I pushed the bloke away and ran off crying cuz I couldn't believe I had done it. I told my bf the next morning of what I could remember and he forgave me. Since the following Tue I keep on giggling at him when we talk about it and when I do he thinks that I'm lying about it, cuz I did in past about little things. But when I remember back to Sat and I remember little things and I tell him it makes it worse about the laughing, cuz I think it's gonna stop but it doesn't. I want to know why I feel the need to laugh at him and why I can't stop it, cuz its ruining a really fab relationship which I can never give up. Please can anyone help me?:(
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reader, claireybella +, writes (12 July 2006):
claireybella is verified as being by the original poster of the question i have really tried to show him how i feel but it dont work. it even makes me feel that i dont feel the same way about him but i know deep down that i really do love him. we have tried to just forget and carry on but one of us always gets worried about the giggling starting again. even when he threatens to leave i just feel like laughing. i feel like my emotions have been blocked out, and i fe3el like i'm stuck in a rut which i will never get out :(
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reader, i no how u feel  +, writes (12 July 2006):
I'm the same, it's something that is very hard to control. I have a really bad habit that i smile at people when the tell me bad news. Even when i'm really upset or feel sorry for that person. i can't seem to help it, no matter how hard i try. it makes me feel terrible because i think that the other person is probably thinking what a b**ch how could she smile at a time like this. just explain to your boyfriend that you're not laughing to make fun of him it's just something you can't control. Explain how sorry you are, and if you can't tell him, show him.
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reader, AvocadoMilkTea +, writes (11 July 2006):
 People often laugh at something they have done negatively to mask their embarrassments or discomfort. This can be a psychological instance rather than a manual action.
I suggest you stop bringing up the topic.
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