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writes:Hello (: I have a guy best friend, both of us are 21 and we've known each other for over a year now. Just recently, we confessed that we have feelings for each other and we've decided to take this friendship to a whole new level.He asked me out few days after that. Then later that night, he took me back to his place. We sat on his bed, we talked and he kissed me. Then the kiss turned into a made out session where he put his hands up under my shirt. But all of a sudden, he stopped and pulled his hands back to himself. He said something like "I like you a little too much, I don't wanna take advantage of you." what does he mean by that? "A little too much"?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (6 December 2013):
 he respects you and wants to build the relationship slowly.
so respect him and don't be so physical with him for a bit.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2013): All I can say is from my experience he dont want to just run through you. He most likely like myself is able to aleast get to 2nd maybe 3rd base off pure God given attraction its the laws of nature. I also know it means he wants more and has strong feelings and most likely wants long term bond even if you don't. I know when I really like and am so wanting someone I hold off at times cause the chemical endorphins have you so high and feeling great you dont need to go further. If you go further its bliss and love and it gets more serious he may not be sure you feel or want the same buy rushing. At times women can be so attractive especially when you do a little extra and look so inviting we like that and want to see more teasing. But dont like teasing when its time for some action that was not time for the dessert. Women go through phases where they just want to aquire good satisfaction to and he may have got that feeling and was put on pause for a minute cause he wasnt sure if he was just lustin.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (6 December 2013):
 It means that he cares about you a lot and he's afraid that if anything goes wrong you would get hurt and that would affect him too. I would be curious if he asked you out because he's interested in a relationship or he just wanted to get physical. You could ask him that, not in those exact words. If you are bold like me, I would have said, "So we are girlfriends boyfriends now?" If he mentioned "taking advantage" that's because you are still in the early stage and you don't know each other enough to be a couple yet. "A little too much" means you are the kind of girl he wants to protect, not the skanky ones who guys use and throw away.
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