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writes:Two weeks ago I went to a thanksgiving dinner for my college organization club and met this guy there. He began talking to me first and took pictures with me and told me I was gorgeous and even got my number. I left and he texted me later on that night. We texted for a couple of days after that but I rarely got texts from him. Then the break for thanksgiving came and I never heard from him at all until I came back. He asked my friend how I was doing and said that his phone didn't work. Later that night I got some messages from him that seemed like they were from that week and didn't send. He had said his phone wasn't working. He began to text me a bit more after that and invited me to watch a movie at his dorm and I went. We talked and he asked about my past relationship and when it ended, if I was looking for anyone, and told me he's the type of person that thinks anything happens for a reason. We watched the movie and he would mess with my hair and tell me I was really pretty. At one point I lied in his arms and he kissed me once on the lips. He held me after that and we fell asleep until 4 in the morning. I woke up and left. That happened 3 nights ago. Ever since then he's texted me a few times but I don't know what he wants. He only texts me at least 4 times a day but it takes forever for him to respond and yesterday night I decided to text him first and asked how he was and he stopped responding after a few texts. I just want to know what this guy wants from me? Could it be he's stressed from finals or he doesn't like me but just wants a fling?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (6 December 2013):
 I'm with SVC.
You CAN NOT conduct a healthy relationship or a BUDDING one through text. CALL him.
He ONLY text 4 times a day? JEEPERS!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2013): Who knows... the only person who knows is him, until he shares with you.
Lay low, don't kill him with text messages, and see what happens. If he's interested, he will get in touch, if he's not, he won't. Don't make it too easy for him, or give yourself up to him too easily. Don't play games either. You don't want this to turn into a relationship where he sends you a text to come over and you know the rest. If he wants to get to know you and date you, then he should call you up and ask you out on a date.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (6 December 2013):
 or could it be that his phone is not working right and he's not getting texts or they are not being sent properly?
texting is NOT a way to have a relationship.
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