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writes: my boyfriend works for the union and travels to jobs three weeks to four weeks out at a time. almost on every job he becomes friends with a woman and gets her number. one job he was working with this woman who he told me they joked around all the time and how much she loves him. he also told me how there was a rumor going around that they were having sex. okay, that did it for me. i told him that it is probably the way they joke that give others that impression. he said I was ridiculous and being dumb. he got a new phone number so she wouldn't have it but three months later called her and gave it to her? Why would he do that if she meant nothing to him? he knows that it hurts my feelings and I feel it is disrespectful to me. he claims he has never disrespected me. but why does he keep doing things that hurt me ? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (5 December 2013):
He does things that hurt you because he can't understand that they hurt you.
He may just be totally clueless how this looks... it doesn't sound like he's HIDING things from you so I'm not sure how to take it.
I tend to be VERY flirty at work.. but i'm also very clear that I'm married and faithful... to me flirting and being friendly with others is not an issue.
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