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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have regular sex, we like to try different positions but our favourite is usually cowgirl where I am on top of him.When we first tried this position I had never done it I wasn't any good and he was doing most of the work. I thought it was just because I had never done it and I would get used to it but I'm still finding it difficult to bounce up and down on top of him. Is this something I'll eventually pick up?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2014): This position is usually not very good for the woman. It is usually uncomfortable, strenuous, and gives very little clitoral contact. Find out what feels good for YOU. The woman should ALWAYS come first IMHO!
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (23 February 2014):
You don't need to bounce up and down on him so much as you should rock back and forth. It feels better for both the man and woman and is easier.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (20 February 2014):
 I do not like female superior positions which is anything with female on top...
it hurts my knees and I can never get the speed necessary to please the male....and therefore I don't enjoy it.
and while I could never do cowgirl at all REVERSE cowgirl does work better. he may not like seeing your butt.... but if you like it too bad. you've been doing what he likes, now do what you like.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (20 February 2014):
 .. If you find this position awkward / umcomfortable, then it is not YOUR favourite position, it's only HIS favourite position... A very simple solution would be to just skip in favour of a few dozens of other positions you can pick from...
I am a bit perpelexed, I don't really know what you are doing " wrong ", unless the key is in the " bounce ". Personally I don't think that it is, or must be any more " bouncy " that any other woman on top position. Of you course it is a rise up / lower down movement, but you don't need to go from totally up straight up high to completely crouched down at every thrust, I guess this would be tiring if you don't have iron muscles, you just sort of squat on the end of his penis and EASE yourself down. And if you want a deeper angle, it's not forbidden :) to bend a little forward and support yourself with your arms.
While I obviously have no idea about how you two are exactly going about this.. I sort of have got the feeling that you are aiming for a fast and furious speed and very deep penetration that probably aren't really the most suitable to this position .
Anyway, they say that practice makes perfect, so if this really matters to you, ... just keep trying, you'll find your groove sooner or later. And , since there are tutorials for absolutely everything in the web, I imagine there will be tutorials and videos ( not necessarilu porn ) on Internet ,to help you master this position. Maybe seeing videos of people engaged in it, you can see what is not working and make adjustments.
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