I'm paroniod because my lower stomach makes noises.
Q. My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex on 27/03/08, which also was the day after my period ended. It only lasted like 40 seconds but niether of us ejaculated so to speak. I'm paroniod because my lower stomach makes noises sometimes and kind of move...
A. 21 April 2008: Glad you got your period. Please be careful in future, for your sake!... (read in full...)
I'm paroniod because my lower stomach makes noises.
Q. My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex on 27/03/08, which also was the day after my period ended. It only lasted like 40 seconds but niether of us ejaculated so to speak. I'm paroniod because my lower stomach makes noises sometimes and kind of move...
A. 20 April 2008: There's NO WAY ON EARTH that the feelings you're having in your tummy mean you're pregnant. You only feel movement in your tummy from about 18 weeks of pregnancy onwards, and you would/could only be about 3 weeks pregnant. The baby would be a tiny ... (read in full...)
My marriage has just been on self destruct and my wife won't change, I don't want to cheat again...
Q. Ok need advice. I have been married for 10 years have two kids aged 7 and 4. When i met my wife she was a size 16, over the years she has put more weight on and she is now a size 30. She does not work I have more to do with the kids than her, I h...
A. 20 April 2008: Yes, I have thought that way - and am now divorced. Sometimes in life there's no right answer, unfortunately - all the options are flawed. We're programmed to think that if we just do the right thing, find the right key, then everything will be ... (read in full...)
My marriage has just been on self destruct and my wife won't change, I don't want to cheat again...
Q. Ok need advice. I have been married for 10 years have two kids aged 7 and 4. When i met my wife she was a size 16, over the years she has put more weight on and she is now a size 30. She does not work I have more to do with the kids than her, I h...
A. 20 April 2008: Yes, I have thought that way - and am now divorced. Sometimes in life there's no right answer, unfortunately - all the options are flawed. We're programmed to think that if we just do the right thing, find the right key, then everything will be ... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 10 April 2008: You're more than welcome. Just get those exams done now - do WELL! - and then who knows, maybe you'll still be a young mother : ) I am going to tell my daughter that it's ok to have a kid when she's 21 or so if she wants - that all the stuff about ... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 9 April 2008: I can't bear to read this. Really, I just can't bear it. I tried so hard to tell you, and it was exactly the same as happened to me. I tried to get it across, and I felt and feel such a failure that I didn't manage to communicate it to you. I'm ... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 7 April 2008: Why the countdown? Incidentally, I've just given birth to a beautiful daughter. She is amazing. Now 5 days old, and already looking into our eyes and wondering at the new world she finds herself in.... (read in full...)
Pregnant on a period?? help!!??!!??
Q. My boyfriend and I have been having unprotected sex and he has been "letting it go" in me and we really want a family... so we have been trying to get pregnant but on the day that I think we concieved my period came down the very next day.... Plus I ...
A. 7 April 2008: What's the matter with you guys? A young girl came on here and asked, in confidence, what the possibility was of her being pregnant. She DIDN'T ask if we thought it was ok to be pregnant at her age, and she HASN'T said it's a problem that she is ... (read in full...)
Pregnant on a period?? help!!??!!??
Q. My boyfriend and I have been having unprotected sex and he has been "letting it go" in me and we really want a family... so we have been trying to get pregnant but on the day that I think we concieved my period came down the very next day.... Plus I ...
A. 31 March 2008: Sorry - have just come into this discussion and am confused! Was your question could you be pregnant? Yes, you could, but it's unlikely. You're usually fertile about 14 days before your period starts, but I think you said you had unprotected sex ... (read in full...)
My whole life was clouded by his behaviour. 20 years later, his apologies would be nice or should I make him literally pay for the damage done?
Q. Years ago when I was in my early twenties I had a relationship with a man which became emotionally disturbing. He worked abroad in quite extreme war-type situations. He was a charmer and extremely unfaithful. I used to get calls from girls, o...
A. 31 March 2008: I'm not sure what you mean about him 'paying' for it. Taking him to court? Blackmailing him? You say you don't want money, but then you say it would be nice.
i can't see any moral grounds for any financial payment. I think an apology, yes, is ... (read in full...)
Do you think I am right in saying that I refuse to leave his house just because of his daughter having to entertain her aunt and uncle at my boyfriend's house?
Q. My boyfriend's sister and husband are coming into town on the way back home. They want to see my boyfriend's daughter's new twins recently born. She lives in a very small cluttered house and she wants to entertain them at my boyfriend's home. I ...
A. 31 March 2008: I too think it's ultimatum time. You can only be so understanding, and it sounds like you've been pretty good so far. They have to accept you. Doesn't mean they or you have to or would want to hang out with each other all the time, though.
The v... (read in full...)
I'd like to know if there's any other way of pleasuring myself without using toys.
Q. hi. I need help. I masterbate quite a lot, but I'm getting bored of using my fingers. I recently rubbed myself against a teddy and it felt really good but I'd like to know if there's any other way of pleasuring myself without using toys. tha...
A. 31 March 2008: When you say 'toys', do you mean sex toys, or soft toys?! ; )
I think you should get a boyfriend. Best toy out.... (read in full...)
When he says he loves me I just think he wants sex with me. I just don't believe in love anymore.
Q. I've married my husband for 22 years and he treats me like dirt in the recent years and says he never loved me. I was hurt then divorced him. I met this man 18 years my senior who treats me very nice and always says he loves me. I can't believe ...
A. 31 March 2008: Don't mix up your ex-husband with everyone else. This guy you've met is another person. When he says he loves you, it's different. And anyhow, your ex said he didn't love you.
Why does anybody say they love someone? Look, with this older guy, tel... (read in full...)
She insists on keeping her male friends! Is it "Ultimatum" time?
Q. Should I be upset about my girlfriend having male friends?She says they are just friends but I'm not sure I should believe that.I asked her a couple months back if she chatted or got messages from them.She said no then today after I pressed her,she ...
A. 31 March 2008: Look, we all know about feeling jealous, and it's a really horrible emotion, and completely eats you up. It's great that you're in therapy - it sounds like you need some help dealing with this.
I think that yes, even the most well-adj... (read in full...)
I agreed to an open relationship but I'm not happy and need advice on how to handle it or break off?
Q. I've been seeing this guy for about 6 months now and we're in an open relationship. I'm his main girl but he is going around dating and sleeping with other girls. Although he hasn't slept with any other girls yet b/c if he did he'd have told me and ...
A. 31 March 2008: Of course you have the strength! The worst bit is over now : )
Just think of how now there is hope and possibility in your life. Now better things can happen. And I"m sure they will - you've made the move. WELL DONE!... (read in full...)
He says I'm too clingy but I don't think I am!!!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 4 months and its getting really serious now. We are booking up to go away for a wee holiday and he's always talking about when we get married and have kids and stuff like that but he was in my house last ...
A. 30 March 2008: ps
and I also understand the insecurity thing - needing constant reassurance. It is so hard, but you have to just let go a bit, and cruise. One way is whenever you feel like you need reassurance, instead of demanding it from him, remember some of t... (read in full...)
He says I'm too clingy but I don't think I am!!!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 4 months and its getting really serious now. We are booking up to go away for a wee holiday and he's always talking about when we get married and have kids and stuff like that but he was in my house last ...
A. 30 March 2008: You need to be VERY firm with yourself. Telling him you love him every 15 mins is over the top. Stop yourself. Beileve him when he says he loves you. He does, at the moment, but you'll drive him away if you keep on being so demonstrative, I think. ... (read in full...)
She insists on keeping her male friends! Is it "Ultimatum" time?
Q. Should I be upset about my girlfriend having male friends?She says they are just friends but I'm not sure I should believe that.I asked her a couple months back if she chatted or got messages from them.She said no then today after I pressed her,she ...
A. 30 March 2008: I think your perspective on male/female friendship is a little off - well, actually quite a lot off. As a woman I have lots of male friends, and there's no way I would sleep with any of them. There's a big difference between jokey banter, mutual ... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend, who walked out on me years ago, hate my new boyfriend?
Q. I have an ex bf that I have an 12 yr old child with and he was the one to walk out before the child was born and has nothing to do with the child and he started seeing the child but what I dont understand is my ex hates my current bf that I have had ...
A. 30 March 2008: Because he's an idiot. : )
He doesn't sound like a great guy, walking out like that, and not seeing his own kid for ages, and looks like he's got unreasonable jealousy to add to that. As someone else said, he doesn't want you, but doesn't want any... (read in full...)
When you have an orgasm, does it feel like you're going to pee?
Q. When you have an orgasm, does it feel like you're going to pee? like I mean when I'm with my guy, it feels like im going to pee and even when he's doing oral stuff on me.. i feel like im going to pee, is that normal? im afraid I will so I alway...
A. 30 March 2008: I don't know - it sounds like maybe your clitoris is being pressed too hard. It's close to the area you feel when you want to pee, and perhaps yours is particularly sensitive. I think you should go and ask your doctor, because no, it's not usual to ... (read in full...)
I think my Dad is having an affair....I found pictures! How do I find out for sure?
Q. I think my Dads having an affair, I found pictures on his work phone of a family friend topless, he often goes round to their house as he's best friends with her husband. I dont know what to do because I dont know for definate that he's having an ...
A. 30 March 2008: I guess it's true you shouldn't have been looking on his phone, but he's your dad, and I imagine you didn't think you'd find anything that it wasn't OK to see.
It's really hard to tell. What sort of photos were they? They could have been done fo... (read in full...)
Do you feel she's a keeper? Someone who can mother my kids and raise a family?
Q. hi ! I met this sweet christian girl on the internet from a different country last May and by Sept we realized that we were madly into each other, though we never have never met till date ! . It was decided that she would come over to my city and w...
A. 30 March 2008: Bless her heart, the poor thing - she has TOLD you what happened. She could have just kept it secret, but she's told you, and effectively opened herself entirely to you with this horrid story. Yes, it is sordid, it is nasty, the 'friend' who did it ... (read in full...)
I need to know if this is cheating. I have been sex camming with this guy, and he has a spouse. She does not know about us...
Q. I need to know if this is cheating. I have been sex camming with this guy, and he has a spouse. She does not know about us. Now he wants to meet in person and he wants me to perform oral sex on him. To me this is cheating on his partner. He tel...
A. 30 March 2008: Of course it's all cheating. Cheating = having sexual contact (of any sort) with someone else behind your partner's back, while your partner thinks you only have sexual communication with them alone.
So yes, I think the webcamming is cheating... (read in full...)
I agreed to an open relationship but I'm not happy and need advice on how to handle it or break off?
Q. I've been seeing this guy for about 6 months now and we're in an open relationship. I'm his main girl but he is going around dating and sleeping with other girls. Although he hasn't slept with any other girls yet b/c if he did he'd have told me and ...
A. 30 March 2008: You really do sound just too nice for him : ) You're quite right - any sane person with a sense of perspective would, of course, never suggest an open relationship. You're right that he's very lucky to have the rapport he does with you, but for ... (read in full...)
How come I don't want sex as much any more? Is there something wrong with me?
Q. My boyfriend thinks that I am cheating on him because I don't want sex. We've had sex before and are engaged to get married sometime next year. For the past month I haven't felt the want to have sex with him. Now he thinks that I am getting it ...
A. 29 March 2008: You really shouldn't be marrying someone who wants you to take a polygraph test just because you don't feel like sex. He seems to have gone completely over the top with this, and I'm sure that would make everything more pressurised for you.
P... (read in full...)
What's the least painful way to have sex?
Q. Hey guys. My boyfirend and I have been dating for about 1 1/2 now. Me and boyfriend talked about having sex and we're both ready to have sex. I talked to my mom about it and she helped me get the birth control pills. I've been on them for about 2 ...
A. 29 March 2008: Sorry - have to say I didn't notice your age - yes, I would have said no if you were 13-15! But OK if you're 17. I guess. Never any harm in waiting, though :)... (read in full...)
What's the least painful way to have sex?
Q. Hey guys. My boyfirend and I have been dating for about 1 1/2 now. Me and boyfriend talked about having sex and we're both ready to have sex. I talked to my mom about it and she helped me get the birth control pills. I've been on them for about 2 ...
A. 29 March 2008: I think you on top is the best way to start. You can completely control all the movements, and make it as gentle as you like. And he can just lie back and enjoy it : )
As for worrying about what your face will look like ... don't, ever ... you'... (read in full...)
I'm addicted to porn and I'm female!
Q. ok I am really starting to worry. I am a girl(16) and i have a boyfriend etc. I am like addicted to porn! seeing what people have wrote on this site, there so not as addicted as iam. i watch it like every single day!! i use to masterbate all the ...
A. 29 March 2008: One to two hours ... that's too much. 5 minutes, out of curiosity, OK. But even then it shouldn't be a regular thing. It's a load of old rubbish, anyhow - I'd concentrate on having real sex with a real person. That's what you need to do. And really ... (read in full...)
She's had more sex experience than me and I'm still a virgin, could we just keep it platonic?
Q. Hi, I'm 17, and I've never really had a proper gf until now. I'm a very innocent virgin, but I've met this girl who's 17 too and I think I'm madly in love. But she has so much sexual experience; long term relationships, casual sex, same-sex se...
A. 29 March 2008: Does she know that you haven't slept with anyone before? I think she needs to know this. If she is as experienced as you say, I think she'll behave differently then, and make you feel better. At the moment she's probably starting to feel quite ... (read in full...)
My marriage has just been on self destruct and my wife won't change, I don't want to cheat again...
Q. Ok need advice. I have been married for 10 years have two kids aged 7 and 4. When i met my wife she was a size 16, over the years she has put more weight on and she is now a size 30. She does not work I have more to do with the kids than her, I h...
A. 29 March 2008: I don't know why, but it sounds like the end of the road for you with her. She isn't bothered when she sees you; she doesn't want to touch you; there's no mutual attraction or support or anything. And over the years it sounds like you have given her ... (read in full...)
His dreams are causing problems in our marriage
Q. My Husband of 6 years has been having sexual dreams almost every night,Of course he has a full errection.Several times I have heard him say sexual things out loud while in his sex dream.What really upset me is that he has even called out a females ...
A. 29 March 2008: How on earth can he control what he dreams about? Can you? Nobody can. I know that sounds a bit harsh, but honestly, nobody can control their dreams.
His mind is obviously sorting over concerns and feelings, though, which is what is upsetting you.... (read in full...)
I'm paroniod because my lower stomach makes noises.
Q. My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex on 27/03/08, which also was the day after my period ended. It only lasted like 40 seconds but niether of us ejaculated so to speak. I'm paroniod because my lower stomach makes noises sometimes and kind of move...
A. 29 March 2008: These are definitely in no way any signs of pregnancy, so don't worry. As Mandy says, sounds like wind.
You are 99.99999999999% not pregnant, as you had sex at the wrong time, only a tiny bit, and your boyfriend didn't ejaculate inside you. HOW... (read in full...)
Married one year and I've never had sex because I lose my erection whenever I attempt intercourse! Where can I get treatment in the Netherlands or anywhwere else?
Q. i am married 1 year before still i dont have sex with my wife. becoase when i try to insert my pene into my wifes virgina. my peney was going down(become strongless) so i am so sad that i cant have a sex with my wife. i thing it was related mental ...
A. 29 March 2008: I think you need to sort out what your psychological problem is. Certainly after a year of this you will have a big mental block about it now. You need to work out how it started. You don't say if you've ever had sex with your wife - was it OK ... (read in full...)
I don't hate him, I dislike the behaviour and lies about other women though. I'd like to see him again to clarify these, good idea?
Q. i recently told the man i've been sleeping with that my son passed away and after a week of not hearing from him i blasted him for being so cold hearted to a person that had been nothing but good to him. not to mention at the same time there was ...
A. 29 March 2008: I don't think you can force him to respond, although I understand how you feel there is unfinished business, and that things have ended in a bad way, without him having the wrong impression of your feelings. It's a bit hard to comment on without ... (read in full...)
I want to lose weight to be able to use the pool confidently... in 13 days.
Q. I weigh 9 and a half stone and i go on a holiday just for 3 days though but there's going to be pools there and i'm going to want to go in them. Plus my friend(also the boy i like) is coming with us so tha'ts another big reason why i want to lose ...
A. 29 March 2008: ps
forgot to say - DO LOADS OF SIT-UPS MORNING AND NIGHT!!
and, if you can, go for a bike ride for half an hour or so every day... (read in full...)
I want to lose weight to be able to use the pool confidently... in 13 days.
Q. I weigh 9 and a half stone and i go on a holiday just for 3 days though but there's going to be pools there and i'm going to want to go in them. Plus my friend(also the boy i like) is coming with us so tha'ts another big reason why i want to lose ...
A. 29 March 2008: Firstly, you're probably not as fat as you think you are. You have a teenage body, and I'm sure it looks good. However, if you want to get yourself in the best shape you can, try this:
- Drink only water, freshly squeezed juice and herbal tea
- E... (read in full...)
Please tell us how can we satisfy our feelings without sex or oral kisses?
Q. I love my g/f very much, i'm 21 and she's 19. I even want to marry her...and she too wants marry me....but whenever we go for a long drive... we make lots of love. Sometimes we get horny...but i have not touched her naked body or lip kissed her y...
A. 29 March 2008: ps
And you can't satisfy your feelings 100% without physical intimacy or orgasm, which would involve touching each other ... which you don't want to do ... so I guess you just wait ...... (read in full...)
Please tell us how can we satisfy our feelings without sex or oral kisses?
Q. I love my g/f very much, i'm 21 and she's 19. I even want to marry her...and she too wants marry me....but whenever we go for a long drive... we make lots of love. Sometimes we get horny...but i have not touched her naked body or lip kissed her y...
A. 29 March 2008: I'm not quite sure what you mean by 'we make lots of love' if you don't touch or kiss each other. I would have suggested kissing and holding each other as what to do if you don't want to go any further before marriage.... (read in full...)
I agreed to an open relationship but I'm not happy and need advice on how to handle it or break off?
Q. I've been seeing this guy for about 6 months now and we're in an open relationship. I'm his main girl but he is going around dating and sleeping with other girls. Although he hasn't slept with any other girls yet b/c if he did he'd have told me and ...
A. 28 March 2008: You are very brave and, I think, very right. Dating is one thing, but sleeping with someone else - NO WAY. And now I hear about your discussion over how he would take you to events, etc., as you are the 'main' girl - jeez, he is trying to set up the ... (read in full...)
Should I ask her to let me watch porn to get me aroused when we have sex?
Q. Been in a relationship with a girl for 5 years now... she's my second long-term girlfriend. Before I met her I was into porn, and lad mags, and generally just liked looking at women all the time. After I ended my relationship with my first long term ...
A. 28 March 2008: ps
meant also to say I agree with Yos that the bloody porn doesn't help - it definitely has to go. It's such a quick fix, so instantly arousing and so addictive, and it spoils you for the longer more natural kind of arousal of actually engaging with... (read in full...)
Should I ask her to let me watch porn to get me aroused when we have sex?
Q. Been in a relationship with a girl for 5 years now... she's my second long-term girlfriend. Before I met her I was into porn, and lad mags, and generally just liked looking at women all the time. After I ended my relationship with my first long term ...
A. 28 March 2008: You know, I'm very impressed by what you say. It's so honest. Refreshingly so!
OK. You have to crack the sex thing, somehow. How about a complete veto on the porn - absolutely not allowing yourself any at all - and waiting until she gets fitt... (read in full...)
Would he go back to her for the sake of their child?
Q. Hi Sorry this is long But i really need help on this so please need advice, my bf of 4 weeks ive known him for nearly 2 months, told me weds nite that he still has really strong feelings for his ex gf also the mother of his child,they split up aroun...
A. 28 March 2008: Oh dear. This is a really hard one, because it sounds like he is going to find it almost impossible to break from her, even if you are altogether better. He needs time to bond with you and break away from her, but seeing his kid every day (and so ... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 28 March 2008: Peaches said only you know if you will be able to cope with having a baby - I think that's the whole problem. You don't, because you've never had that experience. You just don't know what it's like, and you have a choice of a foggy, scary future ... (read in full...)
Am I alone in feeling jealous and insecure because my man is handsome and charming?
Q. I apologize for the long rant. I'm overwhelmed right now with feelings of insecurity and jealousy. My boyfriend of 1 year is a very charming man with good looks and great sense of humor. He is flirtatious, he is very out going and meets new girls ...
A. 28 March 2008: I kind of agree with Danielepew. Certainly agree that if you need to tell a guy something, hints are completely useless - has to be straight out - but not sure if you should confess how jealous you feel, especially as you yourself acknowledge that ... (read in full...)
Is it fair I give up ballroom dancing because my boyfriend doesn't want me dancing with other guys?
Q. My boyfriend has a problem with me dancing with another man. Do you think it's fair? Background info: I used to take ballroom dancing with my gay friend. After I dated my boyfriend, I have stopped. He doesn't like me dancing with another men beca...
A. 28 March 2008: I can totally understand him feeling jealous. The ballroom dancing is a physical thing - you are touching someone else, you're standing very close, they have their arm around you, and you move in tandem, together. Dancing can be erotic, and if ... (read in full...)
Am I alone in feeling jealous and insecure because my man is handsome and charming?
Q. I apologize for the long rant. I'm overwhelmed right now with feelings of insecurity and jealousy. My boyfriend of 1 year is a very charming man with good looks and great sense of humor. He is flirtatious, he is very out going and meets new girls ...
A. 28 March 2008: ps a good way to stop the jealous feelings immediately is to picture YOURSELF in bed with him - which is a true picture of what happens all the time. He's sleeping with you, remember. He's yours.... (read in full...)
Am I alone in feeling jealous and insecure because my man is handsome and charming?
Q. I apologize for the long rant. I'm overwhelmed right now with feelings of insecurity and jealousy. My boyfriend of 1 year is a very charming man with good looks and great sense of humor. He is flirtatious, he is very out going and meets new girls ...
A. 28 March 2008: Do you trust him? It sounds like you don't, but it would be a real pity to break up with him because of your own insecurities if he actually isn't being unfaithful.
This is something you need to sort out.
I know what you mean. All of my men seem ... (read in full...)
What are the Tell-Tale signs of your girlfriend cheating on you?
Q. We've all seen those online-articles, magazine articles, about how to tell if you're dating a "playa" or if your man is cheating on you. But I've never seen the inverse of that. How can you tell if your girl's cheating on you? Let's be honest,...
A. 27 March 2008: She stops wanting to have sex with you.... (read in full...)
How can I convince my wife to be a "slave" to another man?
Q. I am a married man and have always wanted my wife to have fum with other men. She see's it as cheating and is not sure. I have told her I would love her to tell me the things seh gets up to with other men whilst we have sex. I also like the id...
A. 27 March 2008: Absolutely not. These are your sexual fantasies, and your wife clearly isn't interested at all in fulfilling them - and I'm not surprised! Why should she have to humiliate herself, and have sex with other men (who she doesn't know and doesn't want ... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 26 March 2008: I too want to wish you all the very best and hope you will come to terms with what, whichever way you had chosen, is a huge and stressful decision to be making on your own. I really hope you have someone good to talk to, who can support you and be ... (read in full...)
I agreed to an open relationship but I'm not happy and need advice on how to handle it or break off?
Q. I've been seeing this guy for about 6 months now and we're in an open relationship. I'm his main girl but he is going around dating and sleeping with other girls. Although he hasn't slept with any other girls yet b/c if he did he'd have told me and ...
A. 26 March 2008: ps
1. Remember you agreed to the open relationship, but you can always change your mind - you've tried it, and it doesn't work for you.
2. If you want to split from him entirely (depending on how he responds to your request to stop it being an ... (read in full...)
I agreed to an open relationship but I'm not happy and need advice on how to handle it or break off?
Q. I've been seeing this guy for about 6 months now and we're in an open relationship. I'm his main girl but he is going around dating and sleeping with other girls. Although he hasn't slept with any other girls yet b/c if he did he'd have told me and ...
A. 26 March 2008: It's a difficult one because you're trying to understand him and respond to what he says are his needs - you're trying to give him the space he wants, but really it's not at all what you want - you're happy and ready for a serious, monogamous ... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 25 March 2008: Suggest you read some of the other posts on this site, from girls who've just recently had abortions and are now completely in despair at what they've done. They too thought they were making the right decision.
Try the one 'How do you deal wit... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 24 March 2008: If you can have the abortion pill up to 12 weeks, are we saying that the poster here is beyond 12 weeks? If so, you will have to deliver your baby through induced labour. Can you imagine how bad that is? I think in an earlier post I said 'after 12 ... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 24 March 2008: I meant to warn you that doctors often advise abortion - it's almost like they feel they can't advise otherwise, because there's such a taboo about being anti-abortion. Interestingly, I am pregnant now, and it was unplanned and is about as difficult ... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 23 March 2008: I'm surprised that you're surprised people feel so strongly about this! They feel so because it's a matter of life and death, and what you do now will affect the rest of your life.
I thought i felt the same as you, and particularly the same re:... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 22 March 2008: guys, I don't know if any of you in this heated argument have read my little contributions to it.
I am not especially religious, I am not anything much at all unusual - just a straightforward, thinking, feeling kind of person. I had an abortion... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 21 March 2008: p.s.
and as to your original post about how is an abortion done - it is really, really grim. Really. You imagine it won't be, but it is. And then they take of the remains of your child and either incinerate it or use for medical research, and that... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 21 March 2008: I think what I was trying to say is that what's best for you may well be what's best for the baby as well.
If you have the abortion, you have no guarantee of how you will feel - you may skip off feeling fine, or you may be absolutely devastat... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 20 March 2008: 'Piss off all you pro-life nutters'???? Aren't we all pro-life? If you saw someone dying in the street would you consider it odd to help them?? I am anti-abortion not because of any religious beliefs, but because I trusted the establishment and my ... (read in full...)
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