Fed up with one position, one sided sex with an older man.
Q. Hello, I'm a 23 year old female involved with a 56 year old male. My problem is our sex life is pretty much one side. He only wants to have sex in the missionary position since he believes this is the only way to get me pregnant. He tends to fo...
A. 6 September 2008: that is fantastic!!!!!!!! you are SO brave, and i am so glad you have got your life back!!! albeit you could actually have that bastard in jail as well, because he raped you - it is terrible, terrible, that happened to you - but you have ... (read in full...)
Fed up with one position, one sided sex with an older man.
Q. Hello, I'm a 23 year old female involved with a 56 year old male. My problem is our sex life is pretty much one side. He only wants to have sex in the missionary position since he believes this is the only way to get me pregnant. He tends to fo...
A. 6 September 2008: WOW!!!!!!!!!! TONI, YOU ARE AMAZING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... (read in full...)
He's perfect but I think he's not right for me!
Q. Ok im 16. A met a guy through a friend and he really liked me, i was unsure about whether i did like him but i met up with him anyway. True he's not great looking but im not shallow its not all about looks. Though little things annoy me about him ...
A. 2 September 2008: No, he clearly, obviously, isn't right for you. If he was right for you, the first kiss would have been sublime.
Babe, you like the guy (maybe) as a person, you feel (definitely) responsible for him (as he likes you so much), but you DON'T fa... (read in full...)
Best things to say during sex to impress or surprise him?
Q. hey i love havinbg sex with my partner. i know this might sound starnge but whats the best sound and best things to say during to impress or surprise him ?...
A. 31 August 2008: well, just say what you want to say, really, but if you need some hints:
- any reference to how much you love his dick always goes down well!!!!! that it is so hard/big/etc. ... corny, i know, but if true, certainly a turn on for him that you... (read in full...)
Work issue: I'm infatuated but I'm married!
Q. The difficulty I have is that I am infatuated with a woman at work and I’m married. I seem to have been up and down this problem and whenever I seem to have a new understanding of where I am I fall down a snake and I am at square one again. ...
A. 30 August 2008: Poster, I love your attitude - I too would want to talk to you at work : )
Man-boy-bloke: 'I think that ultimately a man's ego is boosted by the act of sex whereas a woman's is boosted through acts of romance (flirting, attention and complime... (read in full...)
Work issue: I'm infatuated but I'm married!
Q. The difficulty I have is that I am infatuated with a woman at work and I’m married. I seem to have been up and down this problem and whenever I seem to have a new understanding of where I am I fall down a snake and I am at square one again. ...
A. 29 August 2008: It's really difficult as basically your body has decided that she is the one and only aim at the moment ... and it has a ways of doing things quite independent of your rational wishes!
To thwart your body (your biological drive to reproduc... (read in full...)
I walked in my sister's room and she was masturbating!
Q. okay i have a 12 year old sister and one day i walked in her room and she was masturbating...like really u could tell dhe was having a oragasm..... is this normal? is something wrong with her? --Confused...
A. 29 August 2008: No, it's perfectly natural. I guess it was quite a shock for you to see, though - hopefully in the future you won't come across her doing this again - she needs to do it in private!!... (read in full...)
Romantic gestures towards women - some brainstorming!
Q. Hi. For a little project I'm working on, please, would as many women as possible kindly list three gestures which they would deem to be 'romantic' towards them. Many thanks!...
A. 27 August 2008: - gently and lovingly stroking me all over, then kissing my hands and forehead and holding me very tight and sleeping like that all night
- me waking up in the night to find him secretly kissing me, eg, on my hair
- coming into my room and find... (read in full...)
I was wondering if these are 'signs' of my period coming? Is there an estimated time?
Q. OK, it has been a year and a couple of months (2-4) since I've started having clear / white discharge in my underwear. I know that this is totally normal. Also my breasts have started to develop since the past 3-5 months, maybe half a year. Once...
A. 27 August 2008: I can't remember any signs before my period came, but I think the brownish spots were probably a premature breaking of part of your hymen. This can happen from all sorts of physical activities, such as bike-riding, horse-riding or anything that ... (read in full...)
I can't feel when I'm cumming or not.
Q. Carnal knowledge is one of our recreational activities. We're soo active when comes to this. my problem was, I can't feel if I'm coming or not. I just knew that I'm wet. In short, I'm not satisfied. Not with the performance of my boyfrien...
A. 27 August 2008: Your G-spot is an advanced level of pleasure - what you need to find (and it's much easier to find!) is your clitoris!! (G-spot is inside you somewhere and basically it's the bit that when repeatedly rubbed (by, eg, yr boyrfriend's xxxx as he has ... (read in full...)
I can't feel when I'm cumming or not.
Q. Carnal knowledge is one of our recreational activities. We're soo active when comes to this. my problem was, I can't feel if I'm coming or not. I just knew that I'm wet. In short, I'm not satisfied. Not with the performance of my boyfrien...
A. 27 August 2008: It sounds to me like you haven't had an orgasm. You would know if you had. Just being wet is only the start. Try it on your own, then you'll know what it feels like, and you can show him. ... (read in full...)
I want to stop taking the pill so I can get pregnant with my boyfriend. Is this wrong?
Q. hey i wanna know why i feel like i want a baby... im only 18 an i live with my mum an dad an ive got a boyfriend of 3 yrs. I just feel like i really want a baby, im on the pill and sometimes ive felt close 2 missing my pill an having sex with my ...
A. 27 August 2008: I can't believe some of the 'advice' you've received here.
OK, here's my controversial view! : )
What you are feeling is totally 110% natural. You are at prime childbearing age, you're highly fertile, and your hormones (not your brain) have... (read in full...)
My boyfriend pushes the limits when I am not ready. Am I too harsh to him?
Q. My boyfriend (hes a few years older then mke) wants to go all the way when I wasn't ready. I did talk to him at least two times but he kept (he would tried an grabbed one of my breats we were in his car. I would him off)on doing it. Then one when we ...
A. 26 August 2008: No, it was the right thing to do. I had a boyfriend like this and it wasn't nice. There are lots of lovely guys who aren't like that - now you are free to find one of them : )... (read in full...)
Fed up with one position, one sided sex with an older man.
Q. Hello, I'm a 23 year old female involved with a 56 year old male. My problem is our sex life is pretty much one side. He only wants to have sex in the missionary position since he believes this is the only way to get me pregnant. He tends to fo...
A. 26 August 2008: You absolutely must leave this man. Please go and call your parents right now. Please. You MUST.
There are no ifs or buts or maybes here. There is no doubt at all. You should actually just pack a few things now and go and get a taxi to a friend o... (read in full...)
The only way my wife can climax is by "woman on top" or by touching herself, a problem she had in her previous marriage. What can I do?
Q. My wife and i have a great sex life and we realy enjoy trying new positions. The one thing is that i am unable to make my wife cum whether it be lying on top / using my fingers or oraly. The only way she can cum is if she is on top of me and ...
A. 24 August 2008: No, I don't think so. It's probably just the way she is made, and anyhow, I don't think you should class it as a 'problem'. Is she bothered about it? ... (read in full...)
Why does my friend never touch me in bed? Is he the type that waits for the woman to initiate?
Q. I have known my friend for a year and we have seen each other socially, on and off. On about four different occasions when I stayed over at his place he wanted me to share his bed, but he doesn't kiss me, except lightly on my lips to say goodnight ...
A. 24 August 2008: his equipment?!!!
I think he probably likes you but isn't sure if you like him. He also sounds inexperienced and shy.
You could say that he hasn't made a move because he doesn't want to, but that isn't necessarily true, because I've known men wh... (read in full...)
I want to be a boy toy!
Q. I've dreamed about a mature older women taking me in as her boy toy for, like, forever. She doesn't have to be rich, per se, but I want her to wear the pants. (I find being dominated totatally sexy) How can I find a woman like this and signal ...
A. 21 August 2008: What about your mum's friends? ; ) You'd be surprised how receptive older women are to younger men's advances ...... (read in full...)
I have become very troubled by my husband actions, he has lied and cheated, I don't love him anymore and want him to leave, he refuses, even threatens to burn the house down with me and the kids inside, what do I do, I am frightened?
Q. Can any one help me! I have been married for 3 yrs and have 4 children from another relationship. when me and my husband first meet everything was great and he was fine about my children, but since we got married he has changed. he is always pic...
A. 21 August 2008: OK, hold on. We can get you out of there. You need to call your Health Visitor and arrange to meet her (she will come round to your house if you like). Explain all of this to her. She will put you in touch with the right people to get you out of ... (read in full...)
Is my fore-skin supposed to get pulled back during sex? It really hurts.
Q. When having sex my foreskin gets pulled back is this meant to happen? why does it hurt soo much ? what is the best solution for this??...
A. 21 August 2008: I am not a guy, but thinking about the physics of it, the foreskin is designed to roll nicely back and let the glans penetrate deepest and give the sperm the best chance of getting where they need to be. If it hurts, I think you should go to the ... (read in full...)
Does a blow job involve blowing? I'm confused....
Q. This may sound stupid but what's a blowjob and how do i do it? I have sucked my man and had him cum in my mouth,is a blow job different? Does it involve blowing? Im so confused! X...
A. 21 August 2008: oh for goodness' sake: you put it in your mouth, lick it, suck it gently, and then the guy has an orgasm and it tastes nice and you swallow it. Simple!... (read in full...)
Has anyone gone through such turmoil in life?!
Q. I have been into an arranged marriage for last 7 years, having 2 beautiful daughters whom i love a lot. I always thought my wife was not the right choice for me by my parents, but eventually i just accepted it and was going on with life pretty...
A. 20 August 2008: That's the problem - your first lie about being not married. You were then stuck with that forever, and everything has snowballed from there. I can't write now but will write more later and give you my thoughts. Hang in there. It will be OK at some ... (read in full...)
Has anyone gone through such turmoil in life?!
Q. I have been into an arranged marriage for last 7 years, having 2 beautiful daughters whom i love a lot. I always thought my wife was not the right choice for me by my parents, but eventually i just accepted it and was going on with life pretty...
A. 19 August 2008: I can see where you are going with this. Can you just marry the girl, and also keep your wife? Your religion says you can, but you know that although your wife wd accept it (after all, she married you knowing the religion), the girl most likely ... (read in full...)
Does a blow job involve blowing? I'm confused....
Q. This may sound stupid but what's a blowjob and how do i do it? I have sucked my man and had him cum in my mouth,is a blow job different? Does it involve blowing? Im so confused! X...
A. 17 August 2008: no there's no blowing, as far as i am concerned - have always presumed the 'blow' element is from the meaning of 'blow' as in 'explode' ... ; )... (read in full...)
It seems as if everytime I have sex, I squirt. How can I control this?
Q. hi there i wanted to know if its possible to control squirting cause like every time i have sex with my guy when were done the sheets are soaked but sometimes i dont even feel that ive squirted is there any thing i can do??? please help??...
A. 15 August 2008: ps
I imagine you can't control it - just have to learn to love it!... (read in full...)
It seems as if everytime I have sex, I squirt. How can I control this?
Q. hi there i wanted to know if its possible to control squirting cause like every time i have sex with my guy when were done the sheets are soaked but sometimes i dont even feel that ive squirted is there any thing i can do??? please help??...
A. 15 August 2008: It has never happened to me, but I know some women are like that - and I think it is quite a prized thing!! There are whole websites about it!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I think it is called 'female ejaculation'. You should google it. To be honest, I think it's ... (read in full...)
Was it my fault? And is it ever O.K. for a man to hit, push, and rough-house a woman?
Q. Hi, Is it ever O.K. for a man to hit, push, and rough-house a woman? My boyfriend of three years bruised me up pretty bad a few weeks ago, but claims he had the right to do it, saying he was defending himself. What happened was, I ended up slap...
A. 11 August 2008: It's hard to say without knowing exactly what you did, and exactly what the rough-housing involved, but my position is this:
1) Men should never hit or physically oppress or hurt women
2) Having said that, women also shouldn't do the same to men
... (read in full...)
I haven't seen my boyfriend all summer. Should I run over and kiss him when I see him? I'm 12 years old by the way.
Q. Hi, I'm 12 years old, and I'm going into 7th grade soon. The thing is, I haven't seen my boyfriend ALL summer. And I miss him terribly. I have a slight chance of seeing him when he gets back, but I dunno if I will. I was wonderng, what should I when...
A. 11 August 2008: If you haven't kissed yet, i don't think you should immediately jump upon him! - Give it a bit of time. I think you should smile and, if it feels right, give him a hug. Sometimes just looking into someone's eyes tells them everything (well, ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my stepmother. What do I do?
Q. hi i am 19 and have been having a hidden relationship with my 38 year old step mom for almost 2 years. Sometime last year it turned sexual. Now she is divorced from my dad (since last week)and is waiting to move to an apartment with me (1 month). ...
A. 9 August 2008: Are you happy being with her? Is it OK? It's a big age gap. A really big age gap. The thing is, you're at a totally different point in your life to her. I wonder whether you should have just kept it as a 'fling' and not be moving in together, etc, ... (read in full...)
Need Birth Control Solutions--Please help!
Q. My boyfriend finds it hard to use condoms because most of the time he loses his erection just after he puts one on. Because of this we tried me going the pill. However, four months ago while on the pill, I became pregnant and had a miscarriage at...
A. 9 August 2008: And sorry, but I have to disagree about condoms - ok, they do the job, but for me they so spoil the sex that I'd rather do without (or, at least, keep a v close eye on my fertile times and enjoy free sex the rest of the time). I find condoms really ... (read in full...)
Need Birth Control Solutions--Please help!
Q. My boyfriend finds it hard to use condoms because most of the time he loses his erection just after he puts one on. Because of this we tried me going the pill. However, four months ago while on the pill, I became pregnant and had a miscarriage at...
A. 9 August 2008: Go and buy some ovulation tests. They're a bit expensive, but in your situation, worth it. They will show you when your fertility is rising, when it's at its peak, and when it goes down again. Usually, on a 28 day cycle, you would see a rise in the ... (read in full...)
Need Birth Control Solutions--Please help!
Q. My boyfriend finds it hard to use condoms because most of the time he loses his erection just after he puts one on. Because of this we tried me going the pill. However, four months ago while on the pill, I became pregnant and had a miscarriage at...
A. 9 August 2008: Go and buy some ovulation tests. They're a bit expensive, but in your situation, worth it. They will show you when your fertility is rising, when it's at its peak, and when it goes down again. Usually, on a 28 day cycle, you would see a rise in the ... (read in full...)
Quick question on period masturbation
Q. Can I use my vibrator during my period?...
A. 9 August 2008: Yes, sure you can. As the others have said, will just be more messy and take more cleaning up.
My only reservation about orgasms and sex during my period is that it can make everything 'flow' a bit faster, as it were, and I don't like that! So... (read in full...)
Periods and Pregnancies
Q. i am just wondering, so please dont judge me or anything but; this might sound very stupid, but, is it possible to be pregnant and still get your regular periods? it would be really helpful for advice back. thankyou x...
A. 9 August 2008: It is possible, but EXTREMELY rare and unlikely. It is much more likely that you aren't pregnant (like, a million times more likely). However, it is possible, so best to get a test done and be sure. Hope that helps.... (read in full...)
Since the move a week ago we are hardly intimate, I put it down to stress on both sides but I'm becoming insecure about my weight...
Q. Hi guys, My fiance and I have been together nearly 3 years, have just moved into a new house, got a puppy etc things couldn't seem to be more stable. However, since the move a week ago we are hardly intimate and I've put it down mainly to stress...
A. 9 August 2008: oh, I'm sorry ... it is SO upsetting when your guy is critical of your weight, and in your case it sounds really picky of him, because you're almost back to where you were, or at least on the way. 10 and a half stone isn't bad at all - when i first ... (read in full...)
How can I prevent myself ejaculating early?!
Q. I'm a male virgin, but I want to loose my virginity to someone. I've read numerous books on dating and charisma and conversational skills. I've even read books on sexual techniques. My only concern is lasting a "respectable" time with someone I ...
A. 8 August 2008: mine wasn't lousy ; )
another tip: do it 1st time with the girl on top...... (read in full...)
How can I prevent myself ejaculating early?!
Q. I'm a male virgin, but I want to loose my virginity to someone. I've read numerous books on dating and charisma and conversational skills. I've even read books on sexual techniques. My only concern is lasting a "respectable" time with someone I ...
A. 8 August 2008: I don't think so. Apart from counting to 100 or doing your 6 times table or looking at something boring on the wall. But really, why would you want to restrain yourself? Why not have an orgasm, then focus on your partner, then be ready to go again? ... (read in full...)
No PMS this month. Could I be pregnant?
Q. This may seem like a silly question, but I can't find the information anywhere else! Okay, so I'm supposed to start my period sometime within the next week or so. I usually start anywhere from the 9th-13th of each month. However, two weeks in adv...
A. 7 August 2008: Well, it could be either. If you previously had irregular symptoms, then it settled into reliable pms as you described, then it could be either that the cycle is changing again, or that you're pregnant.
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I would think it is most likely that you... (read in full...)
My insecurities are causing him to pull away, what can I do to stop acting this way?
Q. Hello.I am in danger of ruining a really good relationship if I do not chill out a bit. I really am trying and I have started seeing a counsellor to help with issues from my childhood but I am so scared it is too late. He seems to have got to the p...
A. 5 August 2008: You are very lucky. Do you know why? Because you have stumbled across a great guy who really loves you. You've done it. That's the Holy Grail of not just relationships, but pretty much Life itself, for us humans! Really, truly ... we search for ... (read in full...)
I fingered her after having touched my penis, could she get pregnant?
Q. Hi im 18 and unexperienced, yesterday when i was with my girlfriend fooling around i came all over the place and she's worried some might´ve gotten into her vagina, can she get pregnant if it did??? [Added from the same user] hi, can a girl get preg...
A. 3 August 2008: If some semen got into her vagina, yes, of course she could get pregnant. You are 18. You are most likely highly fertile. No problem.
However, it's pretty unlikely any will have got there.
What more can I say? Be careful, if you don't want t... (read in full...)
Do women like being told straight-up that you fancy them?
Q. Hi everybody. I really like this woman at work and have done so for a couple of years. However, I only see her about 2/3 days a week usually, though when we are around each other we get on well. I don't know if she likes me, but I just have to t...
A. 31 July 2008: It REALLY depends on if she returns the attraction or not. These are the options:
- If she fancies you too, she'll be v happy and you'll soon be at it
- If she doesn't fancy you much, but quite likes you, she MIGHT be just flattered and play it ... (read in full...)
My partners 16 year old daughter has stripped in front of me on two occasions. Do I tell her mother?
Q. My partners 16 year old daughter has stripped naked in front of me on two occassions and i am confused as to tell her mother or not....
A. 18 July 2008: I understand, and I don't think you are at all to blame. The first time could just have been almost a mistake - you were just walking past. The second time was much more blatant, and confirms it as deliberate provocative action on her part.
She i... (read in full...)
My partners 16 year old daughter has stripped in front of me on two occasions. Do I tell her mother?
Q. My partners 16 year old daughter has stripped naked in front of me on two occassions and i am confused as to tell her mother or not....
A. 18 July 2008: This sounds odd. Why and how did she do that? That's the first question.
And yes, boy you need to sort this out. And quick. Because it could backfire very badly on you.
So give some more details and then we can tell you what to do!... (read in full...)
Fed up with one position, one sided sex with an older man.
Q. Hello, I'm a 23 year old female involved with a 56 year old male. My problem is our sex life is pretty much one side. He only wants to have sex in the missionary position since he believes this is the only way to get me pregnant. He tends to fo...
A. 15 July 2008: ps and i don't mean to be gross, but do you realise what they will want to do to you if you agree to have his friend round too? At some point they will probably want to have anal sex with you at the same time as the other one having normal sex. You ... (read in full...)
Fed up with one position, one sided sex with an older man.
Q. Hello, I'm a 23 year old female involved with a 56 year old male. My problem is our sex life is pretty much one side. He only wants to have sex in the missionary position since he believes this is the only way to get me pregnant. He tends to fo...
A. 15 July 2008: Tisha has said it all - she is right. And I know how hard it can seem to escape - especially as he has this hold over you. i had the same thing with a man 16 years older than me, and i wasted 7 years of my life on him. Like you, i met him when ... (read in full...)
Fed up with one position, one sided sex with an older man.
Q. Hello, I'm a 23 year old female involved with a 56 year old male. My problem is our sex life is pretty much one side. He only wants to have sex in the missionary position since he believes this is the only way to get me pregnant. He tends to fo...
A. 14 July 2008: and DON'T HAVE A BABY WITH HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
if you can't escape, at least go secretly on the Pill ...... (read in full...)
Fed up with one position, one sided sex with an older man.
Q. Hello, I'm a 23 year old female involved with a 56 year old male. My problem is our sex life is pretty much one side. He only wants to have sex in the missionary position since he believes this is the only way to get me pregnant. He tends to fo...
A. 14 July 2008: ps
and I forgot - a huge FAT grandpa at that!!!! He sounds absolutely disgusting and does not deserve to be having sex with anyone at all, let alone a poor sweet 23 year old who knows no better. But you've worked out it's wrong, haven't you? Of cour... (read in full...)
Fed up with one position, one sided sex with an older man.
Q. Hello, I'm a 23 year old female involved with a 56 year old male. My problem is our sex life is pretty much one side. He only wants to have sex in the missionary position since he believes this is the only way to get me pregnant. He tends to fo...
A. 14 July 2008: Jeez, get shot of this guy. What the hell is he playing at? It sounds practically like rape!!!!!!!!!!
It is WRONG AND BAD. Get rid of him. Is he your husband? Divorce him. This isn't how it is supposed to be - it is very very very bad of him. Of ... (read in full...)
Fed up with one position, one sided sex with an older man.
Q. Hello, I'm a 23 year old female involved with a 56 year old male. My problem is our sex life is pretty much one side. He only wants to have sex in the missionary position since he believes this is the only way to get me pregnant. He tends to fo...
A. 14 July 2008: Jeez, get shot of this guy. What the hell is he playing at? It sounds practically like rape!!!!!!!!!!
It is WRONG AND BAD. Get rid of him. Is he your husband? Divorce him. This isn't how it is supposed to be - it is very very very bad of him. Of ... (read in full...)
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