Any tips on how to give a guy a good blow job?
Q. Any tips on how to give a guy a good blow job? My bf and i have decided to try out oral sex...and i'm new at this so i am a bit nervous.......
A. 5 December 2010: Hi,
You might wanna set some ground rules...like have a shower 1st..maybe even together. Do you want him to cum in your mouth?..if not ask him to warn you when he's about to explode.
The best thing to do whilst you suck his penis is to put ... (read in full...)
Any computer whizzs out there who can help?
Q. I know this has nothing to do with relationships but im really desperate. I emailed my coursework home to myself and so i opened it and started doing work on it. I spent all yesterday working at it saving it but not by save as. Today there has been ...
A. 28 November 2010: You dont say what sort of file it is?
If its a word/excel file, just open those applications then file - open...and it should appear as the last file at the bottom of the tab
Good Luck... (read in full...)
Will talking about intimate subjects cause a problem in our marriages?
Q. Hii...I am married and happy.I found a guy who is my close friend.We share couple of intimate topics.He is also married.We feel that we are getting attached and loving eachother.I too feel to spend the max time with him.though we never met just that ...
A. 27 November 2010: The short ans is YES!!
Why dont you spend that time with yr husband/family?
You are walking on dangerous ground otherwise... (read in full...)
Why can't we have sex?
Q. Hi im a 21yr old. Me n my gf are both virgins. we have tried having sex 3-4 times but have been unsuccessful at it. despite of 30mins foreplay and ample lubrication i am unable to penetrate her. the vaginal openin is very tight and small. i tried in...
A. 27 November 2010: Hi,
I know how frustrating it can be but be patient. She probably nervous as its her 1st time.Just try to get your g/f to relax...maybe if shes laying down that will help. Get her to open her legs and GENTLY use your fingers (make sure yr finger n... (read in full...)
Average woman likes a penis 7.2 inches plus? Is this survey correct?
Q. i read something that says the average penis size is 6inc by 4.75inc around. I also read a survey that said the average woman likes a penis between 7.2 and 8inc by 6inc around. If the mean average for a man is as above and only 20% of men have ...
A. 14 November 2010: Hi,
The sizes that you mention are very specific.
Does that mean that women carry around a tape measure and measures EVERY guy that she has/is about to have sex with?.
I will leav you to decide.
What was that saying..there are lies....d... (read in full...)
Why does my 12 year old sister want a g string?
Q. my 12 year old sister ask our parents if she could have a G-string. why dose she want one at her age...
A. 14 November 2010: Could be peer pressure, maybe shes sexually active (gross i know possible).
It could be the whole dressing up thing that girls tend to go through when they are younger.
Maybe shes trying to attract a boy that she likes.
Why dont you ask her?... (read in full...)
Pain still there a month after toying
Q. hi i hurt my rectum during toying almost a month ago , and i think there is a minor tear (a ver scratch on my ass) and it hurts when i use the bathroom the pain is mild . what should i do please guide me Thanks...
A. 14 November 2010: Hi,
Go to your Doctors IMMEIDATELY. You may have an infection... (read in full...)
Got quotes?
Q. got good quotes ? any kind . love , life , dark , light . you name it . I need some good ones for my class . lol . help me out . post one or more(: thanks ....
A. 13 November 2010: If you fail to prepare......prepare to fail... (read in full...)
From Dr. Jekyll to Mr. Hyde.
Q. hello well i have a boyfriend and he was really nice when i first met him and we have been going out for almost 2 years now but now he likes to hurt me . like when we first had sex he was so gentle and careing for me but now h...
A. 12 November 2010: I think that you know that its time to get outta this relationship..or the abuse will get worse.
Good luck... (read in full...)
My boyfriend kisses some of his guy friends and I'm not talking a peck!
Q. Ok, my boyfriend kisses some of his Guy friends and not just a little Peck I have talked to him about it n told him it really bothers me that I feel like he's cheating, he stopped for a while but only after a huge argument about it n now he's ...
A. 12 November 2010: Hi,
Its difficult to say wether he's bi or messing(joking) around with his friends.
I have some female friends who do this to each other (for a bit of fun/attention) when they meet up and they are 100% straight.
Come to think of it, ... (read in full...)
Was it too hot and that's why he didn't cum?
Q. I was having sex for about an hour with my boyfriend last night, in loads of different positions but he just didn't come! At least I don't think he did. He usually moans and he didn't, we just sort of stopped (because I was knackered!). I googled ...
A. 11 November 2010: Hi,
I wouldnt worry why he didnt cum..it could be the heat as you say, or if he masterbates alot (esp before) he may have already cum solo.
Guys can have a "dry" orgasm. so I really wouldnt worry at all. If it was a one off however if it ke... (read in full...)
Why would you choose to date a guy who is in the army?
Q. Firstly, i would just like to say i have a lot of admiration for army wives so please don't take any direspect from this question. I know you don't choose who you fall in love with but why would you choose to date a guy who is in the army? Let al...
A. 11 November 2010: I think that you answered yr questions in the second paragraph...." I know you don't choose who you fall in love with..."
If you love someone and its mutual comaptible etc you marry them right?
I maybe wrong but I dont think that people marr... (read in full...)
He wants me to go on top but I don't know how!
Q. I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time the other day, i was a virgin but he wasnt. He said next time we have sex he wants me to be on top of him but i dont know how to, i really want to do this for him. Need advice on how i do this f...
A. 11 November 2010: Hi,
There is no hard and fast rule about what to do when you are on top (no pun intended!!)
Just get on top of him (like you are about to ride a bike), straddle him and gently lower yourself down on his penis...and gently get a rythem going so ... (read in full...)
We have financial issues, I'm thinking about finding a sugardaddy!
Q. I am married and have a soon-to-be 6 month old baby. We are starting to have a hard time with finances (just like everyone else in the country). I work full time at home on the farm and part time outside of the home (as needed) and my husband has 2 ...
A. 11 November 2010: Hi,
I wont judge you
Before you do find yrself a Sugar daddy watch Indecent Proposal.
Then be prepared ... (read in full...)
Are his reactions normal?
Q. Me and my boyfriend are a couple for more than a year now, both virgins and decided to take things slow. However, we cuddle a lot, make out, fool around with clothes on, getting to know each other's body... Yesterday we were at his place and whil...
A. 11 November 2010: Yes this is VERY normal for "1st" timers.
... (read in full...)
Big nipples vs. Small nipples, which do guys prefer?
Q. Girls have all different sizes of nipples and we dont really pay too much attention to it until it comes down to having to strip down and reveal them to boys..soo what do guys prefer...big nipples or small ones? or does it not matter at all? ...
A. 11 November 2010: When the nipples are erect
a) WE DONT CARE
b) We dont notice the size...lol
c) We just wanna play with them/suck/lick/nibble them!!
Hope it helps...LMAO... (read in full...)
For the guys, does it have to be smooth as a baby's butt or is a little stubble ok?
Q. hey this is for all the guys on here! do guys really care if there is some stubble on a vagina if the girl is unable to get all of it off when shaving? or does it need to be perfectly smooth and hairless?...
A. 10 November 2010: If your guy performs oral on you then he would probably like shaved/ neatly trimmed.
Au Natural for me is a turn off and I wont give my lady oral if she is this way.
Why dont you ask your guy?... (read in full...)
What do you get a guy that already has so much?
Q. My ex boyfriend and I are working on a new relationship with each other. Meaning friends. We care for each other a lot. Maybe in the future we'll be back together. Well in the mean time Christmas is coming up and I'm not sure what to get him. He ...
A. 9 November 2010: Hi,
I dont know what he likes so its difficult.
Why dont you make a photo album for him (of the two of u together) to remember you by...or make him his fav cake/meal?.
Or try making him a mixed CD
... (read in full...)
No matter what I do, I can't seem to bring him to the point of ejaculation!
Q. OK - how to put this delicately...! I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now, and in many ways we do have a satisfying sex life - from my point of view at least, and he seems to enjoy it to. The thing I worry about is that no matter w...
A. 8 November 2010: If it takes him say 30mins to cum, why dont you spend a lot more time on foreplay say 20 mins or how ever long it takes to satisfy you. That way you can "plan" for him to be inside you when he does ejaculate.
Hope this helps ... (read in full...)
Love and happiness?
Q. Is it possible to love someone even though your not happy?...
A. 8 November 2010: Yes.
Its very easy to love someone when you are not happy...sometimes that may not actually be "love" but just an escape from your unhappiness.
... (read in full...)
My bf broke up with me because he said he was getting too attached to me!!
Q. Hi My bf broke up with me today saying like he is getting more involved and attached to me which is affecting his other things in life. So he wants to break up. How can he say like this, i can see we are prefect for each other. We literally comple...
A. 8 November 2010: Hi its difficult to advise on without knowing his character.
It could be a number of reasons why he broke up with you apart from getting too close.
In your position, I would write him a letter asking if you two could meet and talk. Dont keep ... (read in full...)
Acne and Pubic Hair Problems! Solutions?
Q. hi everyone i am 17 and i have red spots all over my face, neck and a few on the top of my back. I have used clearasil but that hasn't worked at all. i have used oxy which hasn't worked and i am currently using a supermarkets own which defina...
A. 7 November 2010: Hi,
Your body is going through a lot of changes, hence yr spots.
You havent told us what you are eating? Try and eat more fruit & veg (raw veg if possible).
Are you eating lots of processed/oily food? if so cut this down/out
And finally ... (read in full...)
Do guys accept small breasted girls?
Q. I am a very petite girl with small breasts size cup A. My boyfriend told me he love me for who I am and always kiss and fondle with my small breasts but I feel so sad for him as I think that he loves bigger breasts. I start to feel ashame of ...
A. 7 November 2010: Hi,
Guys like me and yr BF go for the "whole package". If you like the girl/woman, the size of her breastes dont matter
Dont worry about the size of your breasts and just enjoy!!
I hope that this helps
... (read in full...)
All work and no play leaves no time for me
Q. why do men like work too much and have their family to spend time with, im so tried of my boy friend working 5 days a week, going work early in the morning and coming back 1 am in the morning are sometime 2 am and all he do when hes off for the two ...
A. 5 November 2010: Hi,
Its difficult out there. What does yr BF do for a living?... (read in full...)
Is "true love" just a myth?
Q. Dear Cupid Is true love exist? Is it really stupid to believe that one day we'll find our true love or soul mate? What if we find soul mate but the other person (soul mate) doesnt acknowledge it? Thanks in advance for your answers...
A. 5 November 2010: This sounds like a loaded Q!!
In my experience, True love is something that lasts for a life time with someone who is very very special to you.Its not something that should be confused with lust. Its very difficult to quantify. When you meet som... (read in full...)
I don't want to look at her in just a sexual way
Q. I really love my friend in the college and I had dreams about her.. she has an angel face I hope to marry her and she actually knows about my feelings and seems to be happy about that but my problem is that she has a big sexy boobs... they make me ...
A. 5 November 2010: Hi,
When you look at her, try to look into her eyes, that way you will not be tempted to look at her boobs... (read in full...)
Penis enlargement medications?
Q. I know there are many adverts on the internet for penis enlargement schemes and medications but I would be grateful to know if any of the readers has tried any of these and found it effective and true to its advertisement? thanks. ...
A. 3 November 2010: For me the best penis enlargement "drug" that I find of use is a woman that I find attractive!! ;)
Why do you ask?... (read in full...)
Why would a guy go after his girl's sister?
Q. this is a question mostly for guys. what is it about it that makes a guy pursue his friends sister. why would you go after her, even though theres a lot of risk on loosing a friendship or damaging it. why would you go for her inspite of everything?...
A. 3 November 2010: Maybe he sees the same qualities in her that he saw in you?
Maybe you look alike?
Maybe hes still in love with you and wants the same/next best thing.
You have to give us more info... (read in full...)
How can I feel confident when guys clearly want something I'm not?
Q. I find it very hard to feel confident in myself. I can't help but notice that most guys my age (and even older, who you'd think would be more mature) think that plastic, fake looking women are "perfect". I see it countless times on Facebook, blogs, ...
A. 2 November 2010: A REAL MAN only wants a real woman
I have worked with many "Glamour" Models. In real life,they do not look anything like the photos!!
Personally I hate plastic looking/surgically enhanced people.
Dont listen to the media and the guys that ... (read in full...)
Very small penis, now I don't fancy him!
Q. I'm in a bit of a cuffuffle. I started talking to a lovely guy a few weeks ago, we have been on 3 dates and I stayed at his house last night. I'm 21 he's 31. We ended up getting naked and feeling each other. I noticed that when his penis is e...
A. 2 November 2010: Hi may have a small penis but may know how to use it....why dont you try at least once...who knows he may surprise you!!
... (read in full...)
I want to live in London or America - any advice?
Q. Does anyone know if there is anywhere in London, or America, where you can live in, and also get help with job applications ?. There is a place where i live that you can live in ( it's called a foyer ) and the staff who work there also help you to ...
A. 2 November 2010: Hi,
Sorry to ans yr Q with Q's
Where in the UK do you live?
Why do you wanna live/wk in London/USA? & what do you do for a living?... (read in full...)
B/f wants me to call myself a "dirty slag" during sex
Q. What does my fella mean when he asks me to call myself a "dirty slag" when having sex? - Is it a disrespectful phrase or is he just getting off on it as a weird kind of sex speak? should I be offended or not?...
A. 1 November 2010: I'm sure you know what a slag is? (slang for a woman who sleeps around)
Sounds like it turns him on. So its up to you if you wanna say this when you are having sex.
... (read in full...)
Anal sex and condoms?
Q. My boyfriend of two years and i are both virgins. I have known him forever and know that there is no chance that he has ever slept with anyone and therefore he has no std's. We are considering trying anal sex but i was wondering how important it ...
A. 1 November 2010: If you are both virgins, why dont you try vaginal penatative sex 1st before you embark on anal sex.
Vaginal sex may hurt you the 1st time depending on what you have done in the past. Anal sex (esp 1st time) may be even more painful...you have to ... (read in full...)
Why do guys come back to relationships after it is already too late?
Q. I recently had a guy (ex-fiance) come back after 3 f'ing years telling me what a loser he was for letting me go, that the whole break up was his fault and I was the girl of his dreams.. begging me to marry him, he totally had to let go of all his ...
A. 1 November 2010: Sometimes they just need a good kick up the backside to see what they have.
In my humble expericene this applies to both sexs....has happened to me recently with an Ex... (read in full...)
He's looking for excitement!
Q. I feel he is looking for excitement. how can i spice up our relationship or/and sex lives?...
A. 1 November 2010: Have you tried dressing up/role play/?
Are you into fetish things & toys?
Do you go Commando...(I dont mean go around going HUP HUP and pointing a gun!! ;) )..if u did, and u whispered it sedutively in his ear....might excite him.
Who init... (read in full...)
Do I want to be with my boyfriend, or his best friend?
Q. i know i like my bf's best mate, it all started like this me and my bf live together and we have being going throught a rough patch. i dont think he appreciates me enough i do everything for him, we have been together for 2 years now this all sta...
A. 1 November 2010: Hi,
Even if you split from yr man, if you are thinking of dating his best mate, I think that you will potentially loose both.
You see theres an unwritten code that exists between BF's
You DONT
1) Date eithers EX
2) Date yr BF's sister
... (read in full...)
He distanced himself from me after my father passed away
Q. I had been dating this guy for about three weeks when my father died suddenly. When this happened he told me that he wasn't the one who should be there for me and that I needed to be with my family and friends. This was about a week ago and sin...
A. 1 November 2010: Hi,
I understand that you need him now, but it sounds like (and we are only getting 1 side of the relationship here) that he's probably not sure/able to deal with yr loss.
I wouldnt worry too much about the no contact...like I said my best mat... (read in full...)
This is driving me nuts... I'm heartbroken he cheated and we've not even met yet!
Q. whats happening???? I met a guy on the net 2 years ago and we have become very close, get on wicked its unreal and we have a great connection... he says he loves me and wants to marry me... we havent even met each other yet!!! he occasionally spi...
A. 31 October 2010: Maybe I'm wrong, but you havent met so how can he have cheated on you? This is only a "internet relationship". Its not a real one just virtual one...until you meet and agree to date etc
You cant have an online relationship and claim that you love... (read in full...)
He said I look like a school teacher... A good or bad thing?
Q. What does it mean when a guy said:'You look like u are a school teacher"? Does it mean he means that i look boring or not very exciting?...
A. 31 October 2010: Hi,
It depends on how he said it. ie was it said in a derogatory way?... (read in full...)
He distanced himself from me after my father passed away
Q. I had been dating this guy for about three weeks when my father died suddenly. When this happened he told me that he wasn't the one who should be there for me and that I needed to be with my family and friends. This was about a week ago and sin...
A. 31 October 2010: Hi,
First of all sorry for your loss...I can understand what you are going through as I have been there.
I'm not saying that I speak for all guys here as different guys react/behave diffrently.
As for yr man, I'm not saying that I agree with... (read in full...)
He's looking for excitement!
Q. I feel he is looking for excitement. how can i spice up our relationship or/and sex lives?...
A. 26 October 2010: Hi,
You need to tell us what you guys are doing so that we can give you advice on spicing things up... (read in full...)
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